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Jared (he/they)

@mymediocrebest

| Only 18+ |he/they, mental health/sexual health advocate. educational content that can be a little spicy. kinky, witchy, AuDHD, Polyam, Queer, Cat-Dad, chronically the illest, retro gaymer. Not necessarily in that order Social Media isn’t therapy

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Ageplay is a consensual erotic fantasy between consenting adults. Age regression is a phenomena of finding oneself in a younger headspace- often unintentionally and often related to traumatic activation (but not always).

06.03.2026 16:31 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

AB/DL stands for adult babies (a fetish of accessing baby-like role play or caregiver roleplay and Diaper lovers a fetish involving the wearing our use of diapers for comfort or arousal.

06.03.2026 16:31 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Diaper users are individuals who must use diapers as part of their daily living-a neat thing about this kink is it creates a space where diapers which carry a lot of stigma can be seen as sexy. Like any kink, this kink isn’t for everyone and can feel life hanging and affirming for those who resonate

06.03.2026 16:31 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Books I recommend on this topic are “you are not broken” by Doctor Rhoda Lipscomb, Ageplay by Paul Rulof, and The Big Book for Littles by Penny Barber.

06.03.2026 16:31 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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The mannequin in my office (Rufus) is decorated monthly to showcase a different area of the kink community so that people in the office can have the chance to interact with something they don’t have any exposure to. This AB/DL and ageplay adjacent look tends to get a lot of attention

06.03.2026 16:30 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 4 📌 0
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Happy Valentine’s Day. I hope that you get to spend today celebrating the people you love and i hope that list includes yourself.

14.02.2026 15:24 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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How to make a self-love letter for Valentine’s Day

13.02.2026 22:02 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Made a new piece for the gay Christmas village. I put in a dance floor between the motel and the bathhouse. I also put a hotspring style hottub.

04.11.2025 23:31 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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POV: you take Tylenol while autistic

27.09.2025 01:52 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Obligatory #pitpic to seal on the power of the haircut. As is gay tradition.

07.09.2025 00:32 👍 48 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0
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Gay powers recharged

07.09.2025 00:32 👍 11 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0
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5 Sex Therapy Facts that Make the Internet Mad

14.08.2025 16:50 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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my clients suggest new outfits for Rufus (the kinky mannequin in my office) a client suggest catboy/femboy. I decided to demo it before putting on the mannequin. How’d I do? UwU

Ps- the shorts… Rufus is a half-mannequin so I don’t buy pants for him. So the shorts are just the shorts I was wearing.

11.08.2025 23:31 👍 17 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Butch Queen vibes 🩷💜💙

01.06.2025 03:05 👍 42 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0
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Practicing my eyes for Pride this year with a lot of help from my friend. They are already turning out so much better than last year!
#pride #makeup #men

19.05.2025 19:35 👍 16 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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I found a cute 90’s vintage yellow windbreaker so now I can do a casual jubilee cosplay. Since I’m hairy it’s more accurately jubearlee. I’m here for it tho. #gay #xmen #cosplay

17.05.2025 18:05 👍 10 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Is this cute and cunty or do I look like the most conservative real-estate agent in southwest FL? I can’t tell.

15.05.2025 00:02 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Thanks for the hook-up I’ll check out this maker 😁

30.04.2025 00:22 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It’s so neat and geometric

29.04.2025 23:05 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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My first corset/ my first time styling a corset

29.04.2025 17:00 👍 11 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0

I watched it so I could make a full report. It was absolutely a shitshow. The audio mixing was terrible. One of the hosts was just weird. They couldn’t find their athletes. It was a lot lol.

27.04.2025 12:47 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Rude tbh

25.04.2025 17:20 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

My understanding is that the sperm are put into a microscopic race course and judged on who passes the finish line first

25.04.2025 16:23 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Is anyone doing a watch party for the Sperm Race?

25.04.2025 11:59 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Win more bees? 🐝

23.04.2025 20:01 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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First furry convention pt2. #furries #furryconvention #sextherapist

23.04.2025 14:03 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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My First furry convention. Pt1 #furries #furryconvention #convention

23.04.2025 14:01 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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And don’t forget- RFK thinks that heroin is the most effective treatment for ADHD.

17.04.2025 18:51 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Being a #genderqueer #vers #switch is just the absolute best.

#gay #queer #kinky #bdsm #verbal

16.04.2025 19:31 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Using the #plissit model on #genderaffirmingcare

#gender #therapist #therapy #sextherapist

16.04.2025 16:49 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0