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I write about trauma. Parent. Sensitivity reader. Rep'd by Kaitlyn Katsoupis of Belcastro Agency. Anti-oppression, anti-fascist, anti-AI. BLM. Dismantle colonization and capitalism. He/him. Website at www.theirritablequeer.com
An aesthetic board, images listed from left to right: A woman in a white dress holding a sword; a long, red-carpeted staircase curving down; a close-up of a camera lens; a fair-haired woman with blood red lipstick holding a bloody knife by her face; a dark-haired woman wearing a crown and exhaling smoke; a woman with blue and pink paint streaked down her face, a butterfly over her mouth; a woman's chest bound in rope with three bloody nails hammered into them; a smoking gun; a red moon in a nearly-black sky.
If I launched a Kickstarter for a TTRPG that's basically Magical Girls meets The Hunger Games, based on an original rule system, all about beautiful people who fight an unending tide of monsters (called the Corrupted)...
Who would be interested in that?
Just voted in Canada's federal NDP election! Good luck to my chosen candidate!
CW: War in Iran
Last night, I dreamed a popular shoe brand had put out a commercial set in Iran. The children wearing the shoes were outrunning bombs and the others were being graphically killed.
I woke up having a panic attack because I could almost believe it was a real ad.
When I hear someone has 'old school values', my mind instantly leaps to it being a euphemism for being a bigot. Is that a me thing, or is that the insinuation, fr?
www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2026/3/4/escape-the-empire
Hi Laura! What was formative media for you? Do you ever try to replicate the themes, characters, or vibes from that media?
All ghost kitties are purr-tergeists.
Going down the rabbit hole that is the 'Hidden Rabbits' channel and thinking Real Hard as I listen to their episode on nepotism.
youtu.be/7IADKjgDIfM
Will do my best to tune in (once my kid's gone to bed)!
www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2026/2/18/year-of-the-horse
No one respects the amount of self-restraint I use on a daily basis. ESPECIALLY not my cats, whose ears I regularly wish to chomp on, but I don't, because of aforementioned self-restraint.
www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2026/2/11/becoming-irrelevant
My favourite part about cats are when they assume you aren’t doing what they want because you’re stupid.
Like, ‘if I just meow pointedly at the door to the furnace room enough, he’ll understand I want inside eventually.’
No bb I get it, I’m just saying no.
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Have you ever wanted to die... in fiction?
Or perhaps commit a (fictional) murder of a billionaire?
Well I've got good news: MURDER COMMISSIONS ARE BACK!!!
Hire me to write you a custom death scene - or a billionaire murder scene - today!
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It’s an honour to be included in this anthology!
Saw Seussical with my kid today, and it was absolutely fantastic ✨ Shout out to www.tyttheatre.com!
👀
www.theirritablequeer.com/queer-ramblings/2026/1/7/like-sandpaper
If you've had any positive news this first week of 2026, I'd love to hear about it on my site.
Sending love to you all. ❤️
THREAD: Viral misinformation on US capture of Nicolas Maduro - 4 January
This video, shared by Alex Jones and others, falsely claims to show millions of Venezuelans in Caracas celebrating Maduro's capture.
In fact, it shows anti-Maduro protests in July 2024 over a highly disputed election.
I’m gonna cry I’m HYPE
✨Happy 2026! I hope it heralds good news for us all!
This year, I:
- Released my debut book
- Completed my first term of university
- Went to my first book con
- Did my first book fair
- Wrote a novella
- Put two more books on sub
- Won a short story literary award
… while continuing to single parent!
What did y’all accomplish that you’re proud of?
And Merry Christmas to you! 😂 (The pun will dia-be-the death of me)