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That’s the one!

10.03.2025 18:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The new guy on my team is about to learn why we all hate the boss.

10.03.2025 16:41 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yseult’s version of my way is such a good song to weep to.

10.03.2025 16:39 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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received flowers at the end of our date. thoughtful gifts and actions are always appreciated over here πŸ’•

02.02.2025 22:23 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Here’s what the wealthiest Californians donated toward the wildfires and here’s who has donated.

ChatGPT is bad for the environment, but in this case it made sense for the analysis I wanted to show.

14.01.2025 05:40 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I will be genuinely sad if they shut down TikTok.

10.01.2025 16:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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I’m not saying Keenan Ivory Wayans and Rhyheim are the same person.

I’m just saying nobody’s seen them in the same room at the same time.

01.01.2025 23:54 πŸ‘ 29 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 4
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I Miss You (feat. Teddy Pendergrass) by Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes on AppleΒ Music Song Β· 2007 Β· Duration 8:31

Truly one of my favorites

02.01.2025 00:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Good point!

29.12.2024 19:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Anyway, big reason I no longer host: I don’t want to ruin my sheets for a man who only sees me as a nut. If you’re my man, obviously no problem. If you care about me and we sleep together, no problem.

But it’s a bit too much not really caring around the other person in a post-PREP world.

29.12.2024 09:22 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I’m not sure. And this isn’t a fully formed thought but I feel like painting is mostly a thing with raw. Back in the condom days, I really can’t recall that many instances of it happening.

Maybe the type that I sleep with is more of what changed?

29.12.2024 09:19 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It’s been nice to be in community with black men (gay and straight) who are focused on community and improving their family, friendship, and dating relationships.

I’ve had some really wonderful in person conversations this month that affirm the power of community β€” and continued investment.

29.12.2024 00:17 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

And followwwwwwwww my leaddddddde and youllllllllll beeeeee

29.12.2024 00:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

That’s good to know about yourself. What sparks joy for you?

I only follow someone I’m not sure of if I know what to expect from their content. If it’s just beauty, that’s often easier for me. I struggle when it’s looks and questionable opinions. Then I’d rather not view myself as an endorser

29.12.2024 00:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

And I know some people are just creators and compel others to follow. I just don’t like feeling like a blind follower. Sorta taking a different approach over here compared to Twitter and it’s interesting to see

29.12.2024 00:04 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I hate feeling like a fan. When someone has an insane following to follow ratio, my instinct won’t allow me to follow now matter how fine they are.

I hate that about me. A bit.

28.12.2024 21:36 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I feel so meh. Let me take a bath in the hopes my troubles and tensions melt off.

28.12.2024 00:33 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I like Aldis hodge so that’s part of it. I definitely was bored last night and binged about 5 episodes. I think you should give it to episode 3 to decide if you stay or go

24.12.2024 15:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

2024 is the year I became a Panda Express person.

24.12.2024 07:58 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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holding space for your meat tonight

24.12.2024 04:43 πŸ‘ 46 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Cross has had some predictable plot points but it’s still fun to watch

24.12.2024 06:35 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Every time I see yalls meats, I understand. I have bf peen. Yall are the men they say they going to see a man with a horse about.

24.12.2024 06:27 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I feel like I see more holes and poles on here than on the other
Platform. Not mad, just didn’t expect that

24.12.2024 05:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you! Do you like how they fit? I need to see where I can try on. My feet are very very wide

20.12.2024 23:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh I like these. I wonder what’s the brand / like? Hoping they have extra wide options

20.12.2024 14:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I couldn’t be a housewife because I hold a grudge too much. No, I can’t move on and make amends in under a week. I gotta take a few weeks

20.12.2024 03:12 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

I don’t have a blusky boyfriend yet.

Seeking: black male who provides me with endless praise, a gentle spirit, and a romanticism that one day we’ll meet but probably never will. Must be 25 and up πŸ₯°

19.12.2024 15:56 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I do expect to spend more time here after Jan 20. I know that other place will be insufferable but it’s hard to fully pull away from where the engagement is.

The dopamine hits are what so many of us are chasing.

19.12.2024 15:51 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My Fitbit might have been the best purchase of 2024. She really keeps me informed.

19.12.2024 15:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The Wicked movie is was long, but I really wanted them to loop back to No One Mourns The Wicked after Defying Gravity. Because you don’t realize how good the first song is until you rewatch / replay the soundtrack.

19.12.2024 15:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0