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unpopular twilight opinion: eclipse is by far the best in the series

ice or a cold compress! a gentle (0.5-1.0%) hydrocortisone can also help. another option is aloe and a gentle moisturizer. after a few days, a gentle chemical exfoliant like 2% salicylic acid can prevent ingrowns if you’re prone to that.

and it wasn’t treated like a shock that a person in a wheelchair was there which was not the vibe with the drop ins at the university i was doing. maybe in the future i’ll write a bit about the dignity of being expected

signed up for my first weekly series of dance classes in over 10 years and it feels really nice to have all those instincts come back. and the only thing i couldn’t do is bc my torso is too long compared to my arms lol

how profoundly delightful 💖

at least my ride or die bad bitch seroquel lets me sleep at all and means im not having that bolt-upright-panic-attack sort of nightmare. shout out to seroquel we love her

chronic pain makes it low key impossible to have good dreams bc in all my dreams im getting the shit kicked out of me bc my brain is making up reasons why im pain

yesterday my therapist made me acknowledge that it’s sad that i pushed myself until my nervous system broke to feel adequate as a child and i really don’t like that she did that 😤

hell yeah

a very happy bob to you dearest simone

had a great moment in therapy where i realized intrusive thoughts are just the brain’s clickbait

ARTIST'S STATEMENT: It's fine if you jack off to this. I hope it turns you gay.

putting this in the front

i can’t believe i have the ocd that makes me a prude when i can put my legs behind my head and do such a slutty back arch

my toxic trait is that since becoming a wheelchair user, i look at videos of people doing things that require acrobatic skill and go “i could do that if my legs still worked.” obviously i don’t say it out loud bc that’s rude but the absolute AUDACITY i have knowing i will never have to prove it 💀

im so glad im not online enough to have seen that

i absolutely am turning into the tboy stereotype of always having your shirt off post top surgery. and it’s still winter and i got surgery 3 months ago. a shirt isn’t enjoyable for half a second? it is now in a pile on the floor.

it’s almost funny how the stereotypes of the predatory lesbian, testosterone making you aggressive and sex-crazed, plus autistic communication struggles and past trauma all boiled together to make intrusive thought soup. almost funny because it is ruining my life just a little bit

“im scared to express physical affection bc my brain equates experiencing desire with me being a potential rapist so i avoid being alone with someone im into and totally shut down” “wow that’s dumb” like thank you for not taking this seriously bc i take it too seriously!!!

literally appreciate it so much when i say a fear ocd has implanted in my brain and the person im speaking to says “well that’s stupid.” thank you!! I take this too seriously and need someone who sees those fears and obsessions as totally ridiculous!!!

weightlifting is a very subby activity. oh, you’re telling me you like to go get all sweaty and moan and shake as you get pushed to your limit, to the point your body is barely able to move? have your partner tell you that you can take it one more time and praise you for doing so well?

haven’t owned a hair tie in nearly a decade but now am despondent because i need a hair tie to make my shirt temporarily sluttier :(

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it’s so fun that now that i know i have ocd i can see all the ways it’s been controlling my life. but also i do not have the capacity yet to not have it control my life because cha boy cannot find an affordable therapist who does erp

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the older i get the more obvious it is how wealth is correlated to luck and nepotism and very rarely hard work. like i did nothing to get into this position aside from being related to people. anyways more money means more to give to mutual aid and use for free community events

like i have an investments guy for the rest of my life. so many other people would benefit from this and having someone tell you what savings and investment accounts to have but they don’t have access because they aren’t related to someone who can make that happen for them. it’s luck and nepotism

my aunt got a money guy bc she sold her house in downtown toronto. bc she got a money guy, my dad got nepoed into the money guy, and bc my dad was nepoed, in i got nepoed in. the whole experience was a great example of how the rich have services to stay rich that aren’t open to low income ppl

oh my god so i don’t just see the present i see the future

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