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A note before I leave.
It's just the law of society it seems.
Victims get ignored, harassed, stalked, investigated more than abusers. Rings true regardless of if we're talking about rape, physical assault, stalking or online harassment and cyber stalking.
We can't mention our experiences, we can't use our own means to cope, everything is taken from us, even in places and communities where we are assured that's not the case and encouraged to not suffer alone or be silent.
Our trauma is minimized by outsiders, ridiculed and often exploited to try and make a point that we are somehow the problem.
Abusers never get held accountable.
There's never reflection, apologies, or reparation for harm or damage done by them. They get coddled, protected, adored even. I think the tipping point today was having a former friend say "it didn't happen to me so I guess someone who abused you didn't do anything wrong,"

A note before I leave. It's just the law of society it seems. Victims get ignored, harassed, stalked, investigated more than abusers. Rings true regardless of if we're talking about rape, physical assault, stalking or online harassment and cyber stalking. We can't mention our experiences, we can't use our own means to cope, everything is taken from us, even in places and communities where we are assured that's not the case and encouraged to not suffer alone or be silent. Our trauma is minimized by outsiders, ridiculed and often exploited to try and make a point that we are somehow the problem. Abusers never get held accountable. There's never reflection, apologies, or reparation for harm or damage done by them. They get coddled, protected, adored even. I think the tipping point today was having a former friend say "it didn't happen to me so I guess someone who abused you didn't do anything wrong,"

I want it to be known this is a huge problem in online and fandom spaces.
What I experienced from them was wrong, painful, cruel, and I didn't deserve it. And more of you need to listen and grow a spine.
I'm just tired of it. But I can do nothing and little can convince me the nature of our society will change in our lifetime.
I want to say thank you to the friends I've made here, for your support, the conversations and time spent together, for letting me experience your creativity and humour. I hope you go on to be stronger than I am and live good lives.
I will leave this message up for a couple days before I leave and delete my online presence.

I want it to be known this is a huge problem in online and fandom spaces. What I experienced from them was wrong, painful, cruel, and I didn't deserve it. And more of you need to listen and grow a spine. I'm just tired of it. But I can do nothing and little can convince me the nature of our society will change in our lifetime. I want to say thank you to the friends I've made here, for your support, the conversations and time spent together, for letting me experience your creativity and humour. I hope you go on to be stronger than I am and live good lives. I will leave this message up for a couple days before I leave and delete my online presence.

Sorry I was growing paranoid leaving the google doc of the farewell up.

14.03.2026 11:01 👍 16 🔁 1 💬 4 📌 0

🦇 did it ever occur to you that they are still engaging in abusive behavior by circumventing blocks because there is no way they should even know what this is in reference to. Stalking their victims.

14.03.2026 08:54 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

🦇 it was on Kal’s post though. Making it seem like the abuse they put him through isn’t a big deal.

“Oh well you’re not mean to me so I’m fine with you” is sort of why the community sucks ngl dawg.

14.03.2026 08:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

🦇 no clue sorry

14.03.2026 08:29 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

🦇 I’m taking the reins. He really wants to. He’s tired of this cycle.

While I’m up front he can mull it over.

14.03.2026 08:28 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

🦇 you said they’re fine though

14.03.2026 08:25 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Probably will…I’m just gonna take the usernames of people I want to stay in touch with later.

14.03.2026 08:24 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

They won’t but thanks, same to you…

14.03.2026 08:23 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

What is this dog ass Bluesky feature where blocked accounts can just comment on replies to your posts.

I don’t want people who used to hurt me anywhere fucking near me, that includes the replies mutuals leave on my posts.

Stupid fucking piece of shit app

14.03.2026 08:17 👍 17 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Might just up and delete everything I’ve worked on and close this account. I don’t want to spend my days getting attacked by people again. Stupid me for daring to talk about the abuse I faced from someone who thinks feral/cub artists are raping people with no proof.

14.03.2026 07:22 👍 23 🔁 0 💬 5 📌 0

People wonder why the furry fandom is so rife with puritans and it’s because the worst of them have been protected and their victims attacked and bitched at and silenced.

Happened to me again today. I’m so sick of existing.

14.03.2026 07:11 👍 21 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 1

My bad for not keeping screenshots for years I guess. Idk I don’t owe you anything though. You not believing me doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. I’ve heard this shit from people who didn’t believe me about being sa’d too. Couldn’t “provide proof” for that either.

14.03.2026 07:06 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I don’t need further harassment from them or people who won’t or don’t want to hear me anyway. I don’t save 3yr old screenshots so believe me or don’t but they stalked and harassed me, I won’t have that be questioned or refuted by randos online.

14.03.2026 06:57 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Still seems too puritan. Draw a sona smoking a joint you cop a ban?

Flat chested characters banned?

Short stacks banned?

Eh.

14.03.2026 04:59 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yeeah…I’m taking that socmed break early. Just saw someone who stalked and harassed me a few years back on here getting in with moots and I feel not safe again.

Dunno when I’ll be back so *shrug*

Not that it matters anyway

14.03.2026 03:25 👍 17 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0
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14.03.2026 02:37 👍 18 🔁 9 💬 0 📌 0

I don’t do screenshots often, I don’t want to clutter my media tab with the absolute asshattery of people.

Reccomend using the furry anti blocklist I made instead as i search tags every few days and add em as I see em there.

14.03.2026 03:16 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Y'all, those who claim to be trans allies need to start talking about the hard things.

It will get uncomfortable.

It's not fear mongering. The fascists are saying the quiet parts out loud now.

14.03.2026 02:01 👍 18 🔁 8 💬 0 📌 0

*pats and hugs * :( sorry things are rough…hoping you get some cuddles soon.

14.03.2026 02:16 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

They don’t even bother trying to know their target anymore smh.

I’ve been on the receiving end of several harassment campaigns since I was a teen.

Shit don’t even work on me anymore lmao. I don’t say things I regret.

But like damn at least commit to the edgy fuckassery a little more.

14.03.2026 02:14 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Do me a favor and if you’re going to try to sneak around on an alt to have a whine to your fascist friends about my harm reduction and anti censorship positions, don’t keep your main in your bio that’s already been flagged by blocklists for your fashy views. Where’s the fun in that?

14.03.2026 02:08 👍 17 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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New Vyzer ough this gonna be on repeat

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14.03.2026 01:23 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

A major ideological component of the “Regan Revolution” aka the global right wing counter-revolution of the 1980s was a restoration of faith in the idea that we could sort out our differences using capitalism after the utter devastation of that idea in the 1970s

That markets rewarded goodness

13.03.2026 17:16 👍 37 🔁 13 💬 1 📌 2
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We will not talk about the trees, or the background, instead we focus on the happy boy taking a stroll~

Really wanted to practise environments, instead I practiced how much I despise drawing trees :D

#feral #feralart #therian #therianart #furry #furryart

14.03.2026 01:03 👍 14 🔁 5 💬 2 📌 0
A selfie of a young man standing next to his mum who has a patch in her eye and a face mask.

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Another selfie, outside, wearing a black hoodie, surrounded by tents and sand.

Another selfie, outside, wearing a black hoodie, surrounded by tents and sand.

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13.03.2026 18:54 👍 101 🔁 220 💬 17 📌 20

Slot still open 6-8 week turnaround since I’ll most likely be down and out all week still in a lot of pain just have to hold out until Monday morning also willing to take smaller commissions just need to eat something soon as my blood sugar is a little low

13.03.2026 16:15 👍 4 🔁 10 💬 1 📌 0

reminder that no amount of appeasement will ever be enough to satisfy those who want to see your very existence erased.
giving in to the puritanical crackdown on the freaks will not save you.
participating in the social death of your kin will not save you.

13.03.2026 03:04 👍 56 🔁 28 💬 0 📌 0

The kiss was definitely a “shut up” gesture initiated by Drizzile.

13.03.2026 16:42 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I like making little stories up for them.
Drizzile is a goth and he love/hates this nerd ass pikachu, because pikachu is a (wannabe) know it all, the exp helmet was his choice after all. Pikachu info dumps on him and he finds it endearing but also ew emotions so he pretends he doesn’t care.

13.03.2026 16:41 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0