I wish more cis women understood on this #IWD is that so much of our identity is defined by negativity towards our gender and sense of self
And seeing trans women joyfully embrace womanhood and delight in the very things we were taught to hate about ourselves
Is remarkable
Is healing
Is liberation
08.03.2026 18:56
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I don't actually have to know shit about the situation to believe that the women with the lived experience of transmisogyny know how to identify it when they see it
Respect the epistemic authority of marginalized people
It ain't that challenging of a concept
09.03.2026 16:52
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One of the more true things ever posted to this website, IMO
If you're requiring an abused minority group to always account for the feelings of their abusers when discussing how they've been harmed, that's being what we in the social sciences call "being a bigoted, abusive jackass"
09.03.2026 16:58
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Idk I just think every trans girl has the right to at least try out being a princess
(yeah this is more butchfemme propaganda, ya got me)
09.03.2026 14:33
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Same tbh I remember a distinct βohhhhhh no they donβt think itβs a storybook, they think itβs realβ moment of horror at about 6 years old
09.03.2026 13:39
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I generally hate days like International women's day bc it just doesn't feel like it matters
But then I log on and I see you all celebrating each other and uplifting womanhood as this beautiful shining thing
and it matters
Thank you my sisters
Just for being you
Today and every day
Thank you
08.03.2026 18:35
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Happy international women's day to women who support other women.
Unhappy international women's day to women who choose to side with the patriarchy in hopes they might get some scraps of power to call their own.
08.03.2026 18:12
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Anyway my hair is turning white and the cronecore keeps intensifying.
08.03.2026 18:02
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Or shapeware + posing.
Or all of the above.
08.03.2026 18:01
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No that other girl does not have non-euclidian geometry, it's an editing app.
08.03.2026 18:00
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Does it seem physically impossible?
It is!
08.03.2026 17:59
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Born to crone, forced to... hmm... well, actually, crone, so... I guess we're good here?
08.03.2026 17:58
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Concept: an app that teaches trans girls all the photo posing and editing tricks that are making them feel weird about their own bodies vis a vis those they see on the internet.
08.03.2026 17:57
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To repost the abyss is to be reposted by the abyss
And this, too, is block-worthy
08.03.2026 15:00
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Is Lakshya Jain the Matt Yglesias of Nate Silvers?
17.02.2026 20:50
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IMO one of the best parts of the original Iron Chef was the kismesissitude between Kenji Fukui and Yukio Hattori
07.03.2026 02:49
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Concept: a recommendation system that just browbeats you into logging off
06.03.2026 19:06
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when i say the Atlantic and the NYTimes deserve neither your money nor your respect, i also mean their newsletters, NYTimes cooking, NYTimes puzzles, crosswords, connections, and wordle, the wirecutter, the athletic, and all their podcasts.
both have anti-trans bias woven into their editorial.
05.03.2026 20:32
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Been seeing some folks getting more defensive when people ask them to consider moving off Substack or X
And gotta say being frustrated at the people pointing out that you are compromising your ethics bc you believe your ends justify your means sure is... something
05.03.2026 19:42
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Itβs absolutely wild to see happen over and over again - that said, I never, ever lack for horrifying examples anymore when I teach the part of my Understanding Users class thatβs about communicating with and learning from your user base
05.03.2026 19:35
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I really liked the choice element and how practical our system was⦠those two papers are still highly cited, and the class I designed and taught kept evolving over the years until it became my current doctoral seminar on social and critical computing
05.03.2026 19:32
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Oh this is fun⦠Northwestern had a very practice-based qual structure so you can actually read two of mine:
1) Self presentation wp.me/p2O4Fr-aT
2) Folk theorization wp.me/p2O4Fr-aO
3) Design and solo teach a seminar for undergrads on social computing and research writing
05.03.2026 19:30
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If a bunch of people who agree who hang out together is an echo chamber then sure, weβre all in echo chambers all the time. But whatβs actually bad is a platform that the worldβs richest man has weaponized to make people including βelitesβ who still use it bigoted and hateful and conservative
05.03.2026 15:00
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I mean, it is odd that everyone decrying this place as an 'echo chamber' is totally comfortable hanging out on the Nazi CSAM web site run by a white supremacist who fine tuned its algorithm to turn users fascist
05.03.2026 16:30
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I do appreciate cis advocates of trans healthcare, especially in these times, but I do wish more of them would let go of the "experts know best" framing. I'm aware it's safe, palatable, sellable, but there's a century of "experts" torturing, converting, and sexually abusing trans people. So.
03.03.2026 22:42
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everyday on X in '23: "jkr isn't harming trans ppl. you must provide evidence of it that i will willfully misinterpret. i'm an ally btw"
everyday on bsky in '26: "the nyt isn't harming trans ppl. you must provide evidence of it that i will willfully misinterpret. i'm an ally btw"
war, changes, etc
04.03.2026 20:21
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If only sheβd speak up about literally anything else π«
04.03.2026 20:18
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the idea that people are out there Transing The Youths is just as stupid as the idea that people are intentionally handing out weed gummies at halloween
04.03.2026 17:05
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It would be delightful to see at least this level of support coming from you re: immigrants and trans kids
Direct the AG to take action against Fenway Health
Cancel all state contracts with ICE
Do it on your way to Dunkin
Yeesh
04.03.2026 15:45
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What our governor will stand up for: Dunkin
What she wonβt stand up for: immigrants, trans people, her fellow lesbians, the rule of law
Cool to see the priorities laid out so clearly
04.03.2026 15:44
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