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πŸŸͺ MBMBaM Wizard Emeritus 🟦 they/he 🟩 ace trans Jew 🟨 Long COVIDer 🟧 wear ur fucking mask πŸŸ₯ benkantt.com

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every time a street in nyc becomes more pedestrian-friendly and more parking-hostile, all the local business guys who drive to the stores they own from their homes on long island, in jersey, the mcmansion-y parts of queens, all flip out wondering how people will get there. my man you dont live here!

12.03.2026 15:24 πŸ‘ 1416 πŸ” 179 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 6

Bush II set the bar very high but between this, USAID, the mass deportation atrocities and a conservative projection of the result of the anti-vax movement I think we can pretty definitively say Trump is the worst President now

12.03.2026 15:01 πŸ‘ 1420 πŸ” 304 πŸ’¬ 39 πŸ“Œ 15
Four members of the National Guard standing at an intersection in Washington DC. They are standing back-to-back with each one facing a different direction so they can see all the danger coming their way. Not pictured: the danger.

Four members of the National Guard standing at an intersection in Washington DC. They are standing back-to-back with each one facing a different direction so they can see all the danger coming their way. Not pictured: the danger.

National Guard units are still wandering around DC, and as far as I can tell they do... nothing.

But this morning I saw a group of four CamoKids walking down the street, and when they got to the corner they did a little formation, and I just thought it was the funniest thing.

12.03.2026 13:10 πŸ‘ 542 πŸ” 91 πŸ’¬ 60 πŸ“Œ 61

Springtime in Maryland...

80 degrees on Wednesday
Snow on Thursday

12.03.2026 17:43 πŸ‘ 16 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

Washing up liquid is good for getting oil out.

12.03.2026 13:05 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve lived in the mid-Atlantic my entire life, but March’s absurd weather shocks and dismays me every year like I’m suffering through it for the first time. wtf is this bullshit seriously

12.03.2026 13:45 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

i think jamelle bouie is where i got this point from (though its obviously not unique to him): trump doesnt escape consequences so much as the institutions designed to impose consequences refuse to penalize him. this is absolutely not the same thing. hes not magic, people are just lazy and stupid.

12.03.2026 04:05 πŸ‘ 783 πŸ” 139 πŸ’¬ 16 πŸ“Œ 3

there is a child-like naivety to the way business leaders approach sociopolitical problems that would be really sweet if it wasn't coming from the leader of a company with 30,000 employees and 3 billion dollars in revenue

12.03.2026 11:57 πŸ‘ 3664 πŸ” 550 πŸ’¬ 130 πŸ“Œ 30
CJEU press release:
Member State legislation which does not permit the amendment of the
gender data of one of its nationals who has exercised his or her right to
freedom of movement is contrary to EU law
A Bulgarian national was registered at birth as being male, with a name, personal identification number and identity documents corresponding to that sex. She currently lives in Italy, where she has begun hormone therapy, and now presents herself as a woman.
She instituted proceedings before the Bulgarian courts seeking a declaration that she is a female person and to have her civil status data amended on her birth certificate. Despite the medical opinions and legal assessments confirming the gender identity claimed, her request was rejected.
According to national legislation, as interpreted by the plenary assembly of civil chambers of the Bulgarian Supreme Court of Cassation, the term β€˜sex’ must be understood in its biological sense, excluding any amendment of the particulars relating to sex, name and identification number. The public interest, based on the moral and/or religious values of Bulgarian society, thus prevails over the interests of transgender persons.
Hearing the dispute, the Bulgarian Supreme Court of Cassation has doubts as to the compatibility of that legislation with EU law and has referred the matter to the Court of Justice.
In its judgment, the Court holds that EU law precludes legislation of a Member State which does not permit the amendment of the gender data in the civil status registers of one of its nationals who has exercised his or her right to move and reside freely in another Member State.
The Court emphasises first of all that, while the issue of identity documents falls within the competence of the Member States, they must exercise that competence in compliance with EU law...

CJEU press release: Member State legislation which does not permit the amendment of the gender data of one of its nationals who has exercised his or her right to freedom of movement is contrary to EU law A Bulgarian national was registered at birth as being male, with a name, personal identification number and identity documents corresponding to that sex. She currently lives in Italy, where she has begun hormone therapy, and now presents herself as a woman. She instituted proceedings before the Bulgarian courts seeking a declaration that she is a female person and to have her civil status data amended on her birth certificate. Despite the medical opinions and legal assessments confirming the gender identity claimed, her request was rejected. According to national legislation, as interpreted by the plenary assembly of civil chambers of the Bulgarian Supreme Court of Cassation, the term β€˜sex’ must be understood in its biological sense, excluding any amendment of the particulars relating to sex, name and identification number. The public interest, based on the moral and/or religious values of Bulgarian society, thus prevails over the interests of transgender persons. Hearing the dispute, the Bulgarian Supreme Court of Cassation has doubts as to the compatibility of that legislation with EU law and has referred the matter to the Court of Justice. In its judgment, the Court holds that EU law precludes legislation of a Member State which does not permit the amendment of the gender data in the civil status registers of one of its nationals who has exercised his or her right to move and reside freely in another Member State. The Court emphasises first of all that, while the issue of identity documents falls within the competence of the Member States, they must exercise that competence in compliance with EU law...

Huge trans rights ruling from the EU's top court - if someone moves to another EU country and transitions, their home country can't refuse to amend their registration details to match their lived gender identity

12.03.2026 08:46 πŸ‘ 2498 πŸ” 825 πŸ’¬ 11 πŸ“Œ 39

people make fun of lawyers for lots of things, and they're probably right to do so, but one thing a lawyer might have told you is not to appropriate people's identities in California.

11.03.2026 23:27 πŸ‘ 670 πŸ” 116 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 4
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MUPPET WICKER MAN (Brian Henson, 1993)

Police Sergeant Kermie travels to the isolated town of Summerisle in search of a missing girl. He finds the locals to be a surly and suspicious lot, rustic practitioners of crude bawdiness and Celtic neo-paganism. Starring Vincent Price as Lord Summerisle.

20.03.2025 21:21 πŸ‘ 203 πŸ” 72 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 6
A gray cat rolls over to show her newly shaved belly.

A gray cat rolls over to show her newly shaved belly.

Abandoned twice (that we know of) in West Baltimore, multiple litters of kittens… now Kiki is happily indoors, spayed & ready to break out her bikini & show off her mom bod (& new tattoo)! 😁 She’s SUCH a fun, friendly cat; if you’re in the Mid Atlantic and looking for an awesome cat, get in touch!

11.03.2026 20:40 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

- went back to urgent care who took a lung X-ray and ekg that were normal but they told me to go to the er to rule out pulmonary embolism
- er said no embolism + normal bloodwork and there's nothing else they can do
- so I'm staying at my sister's house again and hoping an allergist can help me πŸ₯²

12.03.2026 01:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
pink text of different languages' words for "love" on a purple background. in lighter pink in the middle is the title of the show, "love languages." at the bottom, also in lighter pink, it says "2nd thursdays @ 8pm, morenoiseradio.com"

pink text of different languages' words for "love" on a purple background. in lighter pink in the middle is the title of the show, "love languages." at the bottom, also in lighter pink, it says "2nd thursdays @ 8pm, morenoiseradio.com"

Tomorrow is the first episode of Love Languages, my monthly online radio show! Each month, I'll be exploring music in a different language, along with some info of its linguistics. 8pm EDT at morenoiseradio.com!

11.03.2026 15:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Close-up photo of the legs and feet of JD Vance and Marco Rubio showing some comically oversized shoes

Close-up photo of the legs and feet of JD Vance and Marco Rubio showing some comically oversized shoes

It gets better. Here's Vance and Rubio in the Oval Office...

11.03.2026 09:15 πŸ‘ 4412 πŸ” 682 πŸ’¬ 380 πŸ“Œ 950

what always gets me about this is that companies that make a bit of a show of being "inclusive" get a dedicated customer base who will eagerly hand them moneyβ€”and whether that pandering is good or bad is up to youβ€”but there doesn't seem to be an upside to the alternative

11.03.2026 15:20 πŸ‘ 116 πŸ” 26 πŸ’¬ 12 πŸ“Œ 0
a neil gaiman defender contests a response of 'no' to a link to a substack, and is told 'I see that like Neil Gaiman, you don't understand that no is a complete sentence'

a neil gaiman defender contests a response of 'no' to a link to a substack, and is told 'I see that like Neil Gaiman, you don't understand that no is a complete sentence'

you want to see a murder

11.03.2026 03:49 πŸ‘ 3945 πŸ” 713 πŸ’¬ 38 πŸ“Œ 30

Especially their little poster boy

11.03.2026 12:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

LRP never trust a Scientologist

11.03.2026 12:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

oh good can we stop acting like tom cruise is cool like everyone suddenly started doing like 5 years ago for reasons i still don't fully get

11.03.2026 05:36 πŸ‘ 236 πŸ” 47 πŸ’¬ 8 πŸ“Œ 3
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Her name is John Waters and she’s the best

11.03.2026 01:28 πŸ‘ 204 πŸ” 30 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 4

- professionals said we have some mold but it's not a Problemβ„’
- gp prescribed me an inhaler and I came home but the inhaler doesn't help πŸ™ƒ
- anyone got any allergist recs?

11.03.2026 12:24 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

""I'm afraid I could be arrested if I travel to that state for your wedding and need to use the restroom at the venue ..."

11.03.2026 08:59 πŸ‘ 2374 πŸ” 788 πŸ’¬ 21 πŸ“Œ 39
Preview
Viral 'Quittr' Porn Addiction App Exposed the Masturbation Habits of Hundreds of Thousands of Users A couple of 20-year-old developers make $500,000 a month promising to help men to stop watching porn, but exposed their private porn watching habits.

A couple of young, viral developers are making $500,000 a month with β€˜Quittr’; an app to help people with porn addiction. Insane money, living in a mansion, etc. We found they exposed the masturbation habits of 100,000s of users, then lied about fixing it www.404media.co/viral-quittr...

10.03.2026 14:15 πŸ‘ 817 πŸ” 228 πŸ’¬ 47 πŸ“Œ 112

worth remembering, David Lynch directed β€œfix your hearts or die” specifically at transphobes. it wasn’t a generic β€œno mean people allowed” statement, it was said by his Twin Peaks character in defense of a trans woman he cared for and deeply respected.

10.03.2026 15:40 πŸ‘ 11487 πŸ” 4707 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0
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Real patriots ride the train.

09.03.2026 00:37 πŸ‘ 688 πŸ” 140 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 47

i sort of think part of the problem here is that accurately portraying american sentiment about this war would shred a lot of other assumptions about the second trump admin that much of the political press have been running with since the start

10.03.2026 22:38 πŸ‘ 686 πŸ” 144 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 0

Long-time buddies Timothy McVeigh and Terry Nichols were out for a pleasant van drive in Oklahoma when, all of a sudden, their lives would change.

10.03.2026 13:19 πŸ‘ 9483 πŸ” 1906 πŸ’¬ 176 πŸ“Œ 38

Reminder that when you say Israel is causing antisemitism, you are saying that unreasoning hatred of all Jews is a logical and expected reaction to the behavior of a political nation state, and doing so takes responsibility away from antisemites for their antisemitism.

09.03.2026 14:49 πŸ‘ 47 πŸ” 11 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 1