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Mae Wagner

@rainydayinmay

She/Her πŸ’šAward winning author, Spoonie, ally, mentor, womanist, and witchy soul. πŸ‰βœ¨ πŸ“– 18/100 πŸ’œdogs, movies, music, books, coffee, creativity NO-DMs unsolicited #memoir #womensfiction #writerslife #writingcommunity #lifewriting #spoonielife

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This is a great time to invest in yourself and connection in a slow, analog way! Snail mail is magic! (Plus the bookish lovers gift is pretty fantastic!) rainydayinmay.com/about/the-um...

08.03.2026 22:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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silly joys as resistance a list

In case you need some ideas for silly joy to use as resistance… maewagner.substack.com/p/silly-joys...

04.02.2026 16:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Oh Captain, my Captain a self-care list

Here’s a little list of my favorite movies and shows about writers, paired with a list of Self-care pairings for these exhausted and overwhelmed times. maewagner.substack.com/p/oh-captain...

29.01.2026 16:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Lehigh County in Pennsylvania is tired of ICE not paying the rent on their local field office, so they’ve officially evicted them! So, where’s all that taxpayers’ money going? DHS owes roughly $ 100K back rent!

#DefundICE #FuckICE #FarronBallanced #ProudBlue #Resist #Punks

23.01.2026 18:55 πŸ‘ 250 πŸ” 127 πŸ’¬ 17 πŸ“Œ 8

One dog spilled my coffee all over a book while the other one said β€œI’ll see your coffee damage and raise you a pair of AirPods”, as he proceeded to eat my husband’s air pod pros…

It’s been a Monday.

26.01.2026 18:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Where are all of the β€œdon’t tread on me” people now? Still defending the regime???

24.01.2026 23:39 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So many large, political TikTok creators love to say β€œTikTok is suppressing my content”…

This has become such a common statement, while their videos continue to have thousands of comments and hundreds of thousands of likes.

WE CAN SEE they are not.

23.01.2026 19:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Teatime, masks, and things worth smiling about January Nota Bene

Time for some good news and a check in! Come share yours! maewagner.substack.com/p/teatime-ma...

15.01.2026 16:40 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

How the hell have we only been in this horrible year for one week?

09.01.2026 16:53 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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My thoughts on the past 24 hours…https://maewagner.substack.com/p/here-we-are

08.01.2026 16:27 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Have a heartfelt piece about yesterday about to go live on Substack, only to now learn about ANOTHER mass shooting… does no one with power give a shit?

08.01.2026 16:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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the wild year a reflection on the journey of 2025

Recapping my WILD year maewagner.substack.com/p/the-wild-y...

29.12.2025 16:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The majority of us find the Mara Lago β€œdecor” tacky so why are we standing by while there’s talk of even more cultural icon buildings being remodeled in that β€œstyle”?

27.12.2025 16:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

This sounds extraordinary!

27.12.2025 01:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Reflections of my best 2025…https://maewagner.substack.com/p/top-25-in-25

15.12.2025 19:43 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The co-opting of gratitude... Back in the early social media days, (how does that feel an eternity ago when the big scope of my lifetime had no such thing?) November became the trendy time to turn the idea of daily gratitude into ...

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26.11.2025 19:07 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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A few good things! November Nota Bene

Over on Substack, it’s our mid-month good note! maewagner.substack.com/p/a-few-good...

17.11.2025 19:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Ten Little Autumn Luxuries (and why they matter) Romanticizing your life

Ten luxuries for autumn and why you need them!

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28.10.2025 15:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Luxuries... Roughly a decade ago, when I began this journey of intentional living, I quickly realized that one of the most powerful ways to show love and nurture myself while staying engaged intentionally was by ...

These days, more than ever, it’s important that we stack our days will small luxuries that recharge us… maewagner.substack.com/p/luxuries

18.09.2025 15:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t mean to brag but I walked in the door from vacation 90 minutes agoβ€”half our laundry is done, most of the other unpacking is done, and it feels really good.

01.09.2025 22:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Books, Sunflowers, and Bees... August Nota Bene

Let’s collect good things to balance out the bad! Here’s some of mine, what are yours? maewagner.substack.com/p/books-sunf...

14.08.2025 15:34 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I really need to grab my kindle from 2 feet away, but my cat is sleep on me. Anyone want to come help a girl out?

13.08.2025 03:06 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

What is the equivalent of SA for men? (I’m not saying boys/men are never SAd) something that will make them see ignoring this issue, labeling women to erase their guilt, and rewriting laws in their favor is beyond deplorable…

12.08.2025 16:37 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

And what if it is? Just because someone attacks an old woman distract from the bank robbery down town doesn’t me we don’t need to deal with the attack, attacker, and the victim. How do they think that permits silence?

12.08.2025 16:34 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I just wish some random dude would pop into my DMs, tell me I’m beautiful, and offer to send me 7k… oh waitβ€”that happens 40 times a day on TikTok and alsoβ€”I’ve never actually wished for that.
Go away…

11.08.2025 13:57 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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How do we create when times are hard? Simple self-care for hard times...

Creativity in the hard seasons and why it’s essential! (and easier than we think!) maewagner.substack.com/p/how-do-we-...

07.08.2025 15:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I saw a TikTok and now I really just want a chocolate muffin

16.07.2025 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Having some major realizations about self-doubt these days, and it’s repeat visits by spiders (of all things) bringing me to my senses.
Lessons in self-love we all need!

maewagner.substack.com/p/for-the-un...

10.07.2025 15:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ahhh chicken wings… food where I came feel like an evil, monstrous rabbit or chipmunk while I tear a tiny piece of meat to shredsβ€”all while making the biggest food mess.
Delightful

03.07.2025 02:51 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
First shelf: The Lesbiana's Guide to Catholic School (Reyes), Learning to Fall (Morris), I Love You S'more (Desombre), She Gets the Girl (Lippincott & Derrick)

Second Shelf: All That's Left in the World (Brown), Caught in a Bad Fauxmance (Rose), Heartstopper Vol. 1 (Oseman), The Darkness Between Us (Schaeffer)

Third Shelf: Going Bicoastal (Adler), Where the Dark Stands Still (Poranek), Never Ever Getting Back Together (Gonzales), Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute (Hibbert), Flowerheart (Bakewell)

Fourth Shelf: Hell Followed With Us (White), I Wish You All the Best (Deaver), The Sunbearer Trials (Thomas), Dead End Girls (Heard), The Sacrifice (Chupeco)

Fifth Shelf: Loveless (Oseman), Icarus (Ancrum), Summer Bird Blue (Bowman), Radio Silence (Oseman), The Weight of Stars (Dow), Sawkill Girls (Legrand)

Bottom Shelf: I Kissed Shara Wheeler (McQuiston), Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda (Albertelli), Nimona (Stevenson), Forget Me Not (Derrick)

First shelf: The Lesbiana's Guide to Catholic School (Reyes), Learning to Fall (Morris), I Love You S'more (Desombre), She Gets the Girl (Lippincott & Derrick) Second Shelf: All That's Left in the World (Brown), Caught in a Bad Fauxmance (Rose), Heartstopper Vol. 1 (Oseman), The Darkness Between Us (Schaeffer) Third Shelf: Going Bicoastal (Adler), Where the Dark Stands Still (Poranek), Never Ever Getting Back Together (Gonzales), Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute (Hibbert), Flowerheart (Bakewell) Fourth Shelf: Hell Followed With Us (White), I Wish You All the Best (Deaver), The Sunbearer Trials (Thomas), Dead End Girls (Heard), The Sacrifice (Chupeco) Fifth Shelf: Loveless (Oseman), Icarus (Ancrum), Summer Bird Blue (Bowman), Radio Silence (Oseman), The Weight of Stars (Dow), Sawkill Girls (Legrand) Bottom Shelf: I Kissed Shara Wheeler (McQuiston), Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda (Albertelli), Nimona (Stevenson), Forget Me Not (Derrick)

A customer told me she couldn't believe this store would put up a Pride display, because what if children see it??

Anyway, it was my display, and I'm proud of it, and you (and your children) should all see it. #BookSky πŸ“šπŸ’™

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