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Ms. Beady Bead πŸ’†πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ’žβ™οΈ | πŸ“NC | Love is a verb! "My soliloquy may be hard for some to swallow, but so is cod liver oil" β€” Andre 3000

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Happy Birthday πŸŽ‰

10.01.2026 09:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

You’re not alone 🫣

29.12.2025 13:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

No judgment… that was a lesson that you needed to learn at 22.

06.12.2025 03:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

This!!.. And it’s a very thin line for me.

14.11.2025 23:22 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

❀️

30.08.2025 01:52 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I think I think too much

14.08.2025 22:23 πŸ‘ 17 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

🎯

14.08.2025 22:03 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I’m with you..🫣

13.06.2025 22:02 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

My family hates when I say β€œthat ain’t got nothing to do with me” bc yeah.. that ain’t got nothing to do with me lol

24.05.2025 03:46 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Grief really comes in waves. One day you’re good and then the next day you wake up and you feel everything all over again

25.04.2025 22:12 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

Try getting in a good workout if you can… the sweat is like trapped tears.πŸ€—

18.04.2025 03:08 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

One thing life gave me is resilience.

Resilience is, far and away, the single greatest factor to anything good that I have in my life.

Someone recently asked me what I want for the kids in my life. It’s this. Resilience. Because life ain’t fair & you gotta live it anyway.

11.04.2025 13:50 πŸ‘ 1388 πŸ” 216 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 22
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26.03.2025 22:03 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Learn when someone’s season in your life is over and let them go. Don’t prolong the inevitable. Don’t try to hold on. If something leaves/ends, it’s absolutely necessary and FOR you!

21.02.2025 14:33 πŸ‘ 228 πŸ” 79 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 20

Anything you put your hands on will flourish

Every step you take will lead you to success

Your name will be mentioned at places of opportunities

If you should miss any chance it should be because there’s better waiting for you.

God’s got you!

Happy new year πŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™πŸΎ

01.01.2025 09:31 πŸ‘ 36 πŸ” 12 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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17 years ago today, Mary J. Blige released her album β€œGrowing Pains.”

What are 3️⃣ of your favorite songs?

18.12.2024 05:04 πŸ‘ 16 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 14

When it’s your time, God will cause the universe to work together for your good. Everything will align. Every line will fall in the right place. The right people will hear your name. Money will move to you. Opportunity will track you down

It will be like a dream.

18.12.2024 11:24 πŸ‘ 16 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Me, as soon as I arrive at any social event:

18.12.2024 10:51 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Being a trusting person by default speaks to the safety you felt as a child but can be detrimental in adulthood. Snakes are not always in the grass…

18.12.2024 12:36 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I refuse to feel rushed just because the world around me doesn't know how to slow down & breathe

15.12.2024 17:21 πŸ‘ 180 πŸ” 77 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 7
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10.12.2024 13:02 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The greatest distance between two people is misunderstanding.

30.11.2024 07:59 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

That line dance where they flick their fans on TikTok? I'm up trying to learn that rn.

30.11.2024 07:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Same!

30.11.2024 07:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It’s a nice balance of righteousness and ratchet-ness #balance

20.11.2024 17:04 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I gotta tell you something so come in close…

You’re not an imposter, the other folks at the table are. Let’s work on renewing our thoughts.

20.11.2024 13:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The peace on Bluesky has made Twitter seem WORSE.

19.11.2024 19:40 πŸ‘ 11453 πŸ” 1600 πŸ’¬ 395 πŸ“Œ 305