Thank you! I do like some of their shoes but I would like to try them on in person and prefer to spend my money at brick and mortar when possible.
I'm also not a fan of pleaser/bordello/demonia quality. I prefer shoes that are made for wearing outside, even if they rarely get there π.
07.03.2026 00:44
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Back in warm and wet Vancouver, and slowly coming out of my wilderness chrysalis.
Where does a femme get high heels these days that don't have block heels? All the stores I've checked out are embracing the 90s Buffy vibe and I am not about it.
Where do I find a closed toe with a 3" or more heel?
07.03.2026 00:12
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A close up photo of a woman's upper torso, with a sheer black top and red hair over her shoulder. She is facing a sunny window
Oh my word, my body is ready for a rest and a romp. If you want to join me in the later, then hop to it and let's get plotting, darling.
I've got time for titillating from March 10th onwards and I usually fill my calendar quickly after getting back home.
Come prove you missed me β€οΈβπ₯
24.02.2026 21:36
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Indeed. I went out to pee in the middle of the night and a tree exploded near me. Crazy sound!
21.02.2026 16:15
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An analog thermometer on a timber post shows -27Β°C. Behind the post is a snowy field with two tiny cabins, a red car, and many snowy pine and spruce trees.
Well golly moses, that'll freeze yer toeses.
19.02.2026 23:38
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Ooooh get on up here! I might just know the guy who does the volunteer coordination π
16.02.2026 20:16
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A view of evergreen trees covered in snow, on either side of a snowy path leading to a river. A mountain rises across the river
Holy, I've been in the taiga volunteering for almost two months! I'm so grateful to have a job that allows me to bodily support causes close to my π.
And though I work 12 hr days, check out the view I see every morning! Worth every minute. Plus, omg my arm muscles πͺπͺ΅
16.02.2026 16:29
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Just a note to folks, I'm still available all December. I'm having issues with @tryst.link and can't get my profile back up. Over $100 worth of credits used but no ads running, still waiting for approval after almost a month, no replies to any messages. December is a crucial month for me. Help?
07.12.2025 19:59
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Ray with her long black hair and long dark lashes smiles looking down and a little coy. Sheβs wearing nothing but a Santa hat and a crisp white sheet. Sheβs wearing nothing holds the sheet around her ample bosom.
Dear Santa,
As you know Iβve been ever so good this year! I thought, that if you have a spare moment, you could take a peak at this letter I wrote you:
rayharridan.ca/gifts
ππππ
Photo by my multi talented bestie @xanthine.bsky.social
04.12.2025 17:36
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It's my birthdayπ I'm unexpectedly home & determined to celebrate this year!
Doing a drop in dungeon/dragon game (Talisman) party with friendsππ
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Updated wishlist www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/... & my website has my email for giftcards. An Uber gift card would sponsor my dinner tonightπ.
12.10.2025 15:19
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READ THIS WHEN THINGS FALL APART: Letters to Activists in Crisis, Edited by Kelly Hayes
image of a person with long hair in a pond, surrounded by trees and the night sky
Sitting here with an advance copy of this and it is hard to imagine a more timely book!
I think this book from @akpress.org/edited by @mskellymhayes.bsky.social will save lives, and I encourage you all to preorder and nudge your local library about it. #BookSky
www.akpress.org/read-this-wh...
20.07.2025 19:17
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A pair of wooden and leather platform sandals on a pair of pale feet, with a plant and white bricks in the foreground.
My duo appointment cancelled! Monday available if you message me quick- before I decide to spend the day in the garden instead.πΏ
Also, bless the man who got me these daytime appropriate 70s wooden platforms ages ago! I'm fully over 6'5"in them. Get over here, tiny humans. Fee fi fo fum!
21.07.2025 03:27
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A redhead woman sitting in a white wooden chair. She is wearing black and holding a knife.
Oops! Someone had to cancel their date with me today. π
That means a rare last minute availability for tonight or tomorrow! Message me quick quick to claim π
18.07.2025 20:56
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A redhead woman with long hair and black shorts standing in front of a brick wall. Sunlight is coming in behind her thru big white windows
Hello darrrrlings! I'm back in Vancouver after a month away and I'm positively aching for indulgence.
Very few dates available left for July, and then I'm gone for all of Augustπ«£
Escape into my cool, quiet dungeon and watch me make the world disappear for you.
10.07.2025 16:39
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A poster reading: Online, live from Vancouver Presented by Karada House, Berlin
BAD IDEAS
A Workshop by Xanthine
July 10th
10am -noon PST
7PM - 9PM CET
Tickets available at https://karada-house.de/events/bad-ideas/
A virtual and literal clown show of as many live demos of truly terrible ideas as we can legally and ethically show you in under 2 hours.
Want some novelty in your recreational activities? Join me July 10th (10 am PST) for a live broadcast of Bad Ideas, an onslaught of silly things to keep your scenes "interesting". Presented by Karada House Berlin. Let's get WEIRD!
karada-house.de/events/bad-i...
30.06.2025 18:32
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A journal on a table in front of the ocean
A jigsaw puzzle with two deer in the distance
A rare camas bloom in a field
A journal with a farm in the background
My last week was a much needed camping, hiking, and writing trip to the Gulf Islands.
This weekend I'll be in Victoria teaching at Brash (an intimate & unhinged women's conference), & then I'll be off volunteering for all of June.
Books filled for May. See you in summer, loves!
18.05.2025 23:16
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A redhead woman in a blue velvet robe and a lace top sitting in the sunshine coming through a window. Her eyes are cropped out of the photo and only her torso is visible.
Waiting for @rayharridan.bsky.social to hand our delicious bound man back to me for his post-romp massage.
An excellent plan designed by this clever man! We are delighted to tailor your back and forth and back again fantasies in our Tag Teams or duos.
01.05.2025 21:48
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Wednesday is spoken for, thank you!
28.04.2025 18:03
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A redhead woman sits in a window, sun coming from behind her. A top hat is in front of her face and she is wearing short shorts and a garter belt.
Hello darlings! I've had a cancellation pop up for this Wednesday the 30th.
Currently booking for May 16th - 29th and away volunteering all of June. Indulge with me while you have the chance, or pine away until July ππΈ
27.04.2025 18:44
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Wowza, look at this picture from demonstrations in Turkey www.reuters.com/world/middle...
24.03.2025 18:51
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I really enjoy this kind of rope (tying people up while they struggle) but I don't get many requests for it! We need a collab, lol.
I also adore slow rope, where the rope becomes an extension of your hands. I love the idea of it being a slow down, mindful activity.
25.03.2025 16:20
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A naked person is reclined in a cedar sauna. Their legs are folded for modesty. Their face is hidden.
Still in the woods volunteering but thinking of being naked in a cedar sauna.
I'm booking for Vancouver starting March 24th, prioritizing longer dates and repeat clients.
Been thinking about me? Come feel these strong legs wrapped around you, and welcome me back to libidinousness.
15.03.2025 17:22
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pacesociety
In keeping with our ethics around
transparency, we are reaching out today to ask for your support.
We regret that we must inform our supporters and the public that PACE Society is currently experiencing an unforeseen and temporary reduction in services due to the sudden resignation of our Managing Co-ED, and an urgent financial shortfall.
We are working as hard as we can to get back on our feet and get back to providing support, counselling, and our 3 regular weekly groups as quickly as we can.
We are asking our community, followers and partners to help us out by sending donations, so that we can continue to provide support to the members and community during this challenging time.
Donations can be made to info@pace-society.org*.
Thank you for your support, now and always.
Love, PACE Society
PACE is an incredibly important organization for sex workers in this city, and they need our help.
Iβll be making a donation of $500 to match my girl @expcharlee.bsky.social βs Freak.
Will you join us? Send me a screenshot of your donation and Iβll send you a sexy thank you. Any amount counts!
28.02.2025 06:01
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I donβt know but it kinda seems now would be a good time to commit federal crimes
25.02.2025 08:13
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A person with long red hair is sitting on a green chair, wearing green leather boots and a rose patterned skirt.
I'm joining Karada House @ Queer Intimacies, an online conference based in Berlin, March 1st.
I'm doing the theory version of my trauma informed kink class, Inside the Crucible
Join us as I call in from the wilderness, and stay for the whole weekend!https://karada-house.de/events/queer-intimacies/
23.02.2025 20:07
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TikTok's 'cute winter boots' trend explained
As the U.S. government seeks to enact stricter controls over online speech, TikTok users are adopting more coded 'algospeak' to criticize and resist the government
The reason βcute winter bootsβ is taking off isnβt because itβs some secret code (the code has already been revealed and all of MAGA tiktok has made videos on it) itβs bc using product-focused language allows users to circumvent algorithmic downranking. Theyβre hijacking TikTokβs e-commerce push.
25.01.2025 18:34
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Though I'm grateful to be on a writing/admin retreat this week, I'm having a hard time being satisfied with my work, and also not actually relaxing.
This delightful situation at a private spa yesterday certainly helped on the latter front.
I seem to have a hard time combining the two?
21.01.2025 20:14
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Every leather, kink, or LGBTQ event must have on-site voter registration now. No excuses. Nonprofits can register voters if they don't demonstrate partisanship. Once registered, we have to hope most of these marginalized people will vote for decency and civil rights.
21.01.2025 09:07
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"First time, huh?" Meme
Seasoned sexworkers watching TikTokers lose their shit over being deplatformed.
17.01.2025 21:13
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