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Melissa (she/her)

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#IOPsych scientist by day. Mom to 2 humans & 2 pups. Love sports, lettering, puns, public health, dataviz, podcasts, and junk food. DC ‘burbs. Radicalized by basic human decency.

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Yes!!!! THANK YOU!!

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I think that, at least for the men here, there’s a huge impact of gender. Women spend insane amounts of time trying to avoid being angry or shrill or too flirty or bossy, etc. Most men cannot comprehend this second level of contemplation (& I’m insanely jealous).

11.03.2026 11:59 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

It's all three, but there's also something else: weak, atrophied brains.

Typos are one thing but elite messages go beyond that, they show an inability to communicate beyond mere urges and feelings, and the reason they can't communicate beyond those is because they can't think through those.

11.03.2026 11:34 👍 630 🔁 123 💬 18 📌 4

I think we will be feeling the impact of DOGE for generations - from destroying the path to science for so many, obliterating irreplaceable research, and the removal of institutional knowledge. The civil service is what makes government work for the people. And now it’s on life support. Devastating.

10.03.2026 11:52 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Was distracted by a few other developments earlier this week, but I'm resharing my yearly reminder to be careful out there because "spring forward" is dangerous and makes little sense.

10.03.2026 10:54 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

Data/design folks, what is your favorite visual that focuses on the human cost of violence, tragedies and disasters? The most emotionally impactful visualization? The most visually striking?

Please share! I'd like to get as many examples as possible.

03.03.2026 16:15 👍 51 🔁 19 💬 20 📌 7

For some reason (I think it was supposed to make things “walkable,” but it’s horrendous), new buildings haven’t been able to add drive thrus. It is horrific for people with disabilities, very pregnant women, and parents with little kids, IMHO). So I freaking wish. 🫠

01.03.2026 00:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Also, CVS pharmacy folks, y’all deserve a lot more than you get. Holy
+=£!, people are awful.

28.02.2026 16:55 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The real hell is a CVS pharmacy line near a retirement community on a Saturday morning. Grant me the strength…

28.02.2026 16:54 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0

Much lighter thought. Am I the only one who feels like Hilary Duff’s new album feels like what I had hoped Taylor Swift’s TLOAS was? Nostalgia & clever lyrics to describe real life. Especially for moms, long-term relationships, and approaching the middle ages (as the country goes Middle Ages).

27.02.2026 19:03 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The media and academia have an obligation to not remain neutral in the face of authoritarianism. These institutions need liberal institutions to exist in any meaningful way. Authoritarianism is an existential threat. Our devotion to "neutrality" will keep us from fighting for our own survival.

27.02.2026 13:46 👍 542 🔁 174 💬 5 📌 11

Evan nails it here. Committing to being an independent journalist is a fundamentally hopeful position that we can build something new from billionaires’ scorched earth, having no idea if it will actually work.

27.02.2026 15:05 👍 1829 🔁 314 💬 20 📌 6

Health insurance is so unbelievably broken in this country. The cruelty is unreal.

26.02.2026 22:38 👍 3 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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23.02.2026 01:32 👍 165 🔁 69 💬 6 📌 3

I swear these girls are making “Stick It” but figure skating in real life. And it is glorious. ❤️

21.02.2026 00:56 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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NJ lawmakers introduce the FUCK ICE Act.

The bill "permits civil action for violations of US Constitution related to immigration enforcement."

20.02.2026 14:04 👍 5703 🔁 1754 💬 88 📌 396

It’d be cool if the NFL did any of what it said it would about not tolerating violence against women. Playing in the NFL is a privilege and it should be revoked a lot faster.

20.02.2026 14:54 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Cam Newton: 'Women's value gets lower the more children that they have' The NFL season might be over, but that won’t absolve Cam Newton from dropping outlandish takes. And he just dropped a particularly bad one.

Thanks to Cam Newton for absolutely refusing to understand how to NOT be a hateful misogynist. I look forward to his politics era. 😤

20.02.2026 14:50 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yes! Our dogs are pretty big and clumsy and it’s a disaster when they think they see someone who might have treats (or be a kid wearing some leftovers, haha).

20.02.2026 14:45 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

We have a neighbor who carries dog treats on his walk and I love it so much. Unfortunately our pups (who are pretty food-focused and never been accused of being too smart) overgeneralize and think everyone might have a surprise pocket treat for them. 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

20.02.2026 12:53 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Laila Edwards is a gold medalist. Absolutely fucking amazing. 🥹

19.02.2026 21:00 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Maybe it’s the I’m desperate to see joy and see the U.S. succeed, but these Olympics have felt so much more devastating and heartbreaking than any I can remember. 💔

18.02.2026 01:08 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Really wish there were more examples of what age appropriate conversations about this might look like. Just stuff people said that didn’t traumatize their kids more… I can’t believe any of us have to have them, but they feel like dancing on a knife’s edge. Thanks for nothing parenting “experts.”

17.02.2026 14:33 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

And yet most Dems don’t seem to know how to replicate AOC’s formula, which is pretty much not bullshitting people and asking them to wait - she’s angry, she speaks “regular person,” and she communicates repeatedly on every platform. (And she’s not secretly a monster.) This can be replicated…

15.02.2026 18:28 👍 9 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

And her kiddo was adorable! Always amazed by a mom with little kids being an Olympian… whole other level of hell you’re body has experienced…

11.02.2026 23:02 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

That’s true. And we have access to a lot more amazing independent journalism!

11.02.2026 23:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

How many winter Olympians would be left if anyone who had a parent or grandparent who was an Olympian competed separately? It just seems like such an insane unfairness in nature AND nurture…

11.02.2026 23:00 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Maybe I’m the minority, but I LOVE that they’re legalized again! And I remember watching Surya as a kid and she was my favorite because she just seemed so punk rock badass!

11.02.2026 12:50 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yes and they seemed pretty determined to be tools and remind us that they’re not trustworthy. 😤

11.02.2026 12:47 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

That’s amazing - thank you! I will definitely look into this and cheer for this athlete!

11.02.2026 12:45 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0