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Cody Daigle-Orians

@dadstoyevsky

Writer and queer sexualities educator. educator. Also: Books. Horror. Hockey Theatre.

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Republicans didn’t care when millions of people died during Covid. You can’t expect them to start caring about dead Americans now.

05.03.2026 12:03 👍 15 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Stephen Graham Jones’ New Horror Novel 'Off the Reservation' ‘Stole’ His Sleep — See the Cover (Exclusive) PEOPLE can exclusively reveal the cover of Stephen Graham Jones' next horror novel, 'Off the Reservation.' The book, due out this fall from Saga Press, brings back a character from the author's 2020 b...

On the bookshelves October 13th. Hope y’all like it:

04.03.2026 14:03 👍 510 🔁 122 💬 35 📌 50
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Don’t realize? Mama, this is the POINT.

02.03.2026 16:11 👍 21 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

I’d like to hear less from straight white people on whether something is political or not.

26.02.2026 09:05 👍 38 🔁 6 💬 1 📌 0
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Next digital workshop coming up March 1 --

Register: www.crowdcast.io/c/resisting

16.02.2026 15:56 👍 12 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0

No worries friend. I’m not here as much these days. All good!

16.02.2026 01:24 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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The Potential of (A)Speculative Fiction... with Amelia Burton In this One on One, Amelia Burton and I talk speculative fiction and the ways it can illuminate aspec experience

Fiction can provide a space for aspec people to imagine themselves into the world. Amelia Burton and I got into this in this One on One.

12.02.2026 16:25 👍 14 🔁 4 💬 1 📌 2

You still get to be gay even if you don't use "sportsball"

08.02.2026 23:47 👍 0 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

It wasn't funny last year either, Kyle.

08.02.2026 21:22 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The annual ritual of gay men posting, "Who's watching the (insert artist here) show today? I hear there's some kind of sports game happening?"

08.02.2026 21:20 👍 25 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0
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Indigenous-Led Collectives Are Keeping Minnesotan Communities Safe From ICE Members of the American Indian Movement and the Many Shields Warrior Society are patrolling the streets of Minneapolis.

truthout.org/articles/ind...

08.02.2026 02:40 👍 32 🔁 18 💬 0 📌 0

Having you a part of any event, virtual or in-person, was always an absolute pleasure.

06.02.2026 18:40 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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Want some advice? Be critical when reading advice columns. The subtle ways allonormativity shows up in sex and relationship advice

Sex and relationship advice can send messages that limit what aspec people can aspire to and ask for in relationships.

06.02.2026 18:38 👍 18 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0
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"I'm aromantic but allosexual. Can I want a sexually exclusive relationship?" We shouldn't shut down our possibilities before we can properly explore them.

"I think this is one of the most fundamental gifts aspec people can give themselves when it comes to relationships: releasing social norms as truth and giving yourself possibilities."

04.02.2026 14:17 👍 13 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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First-of-its-kind aspec representation looks like Lola A little inside look at LOVE LOOKS LIKE LOLA, the first aroace picture book.

Here's LOVE LOOKS LIKE LOLA, the first aroace picture book!

30.01.2026 15:17 👍 26 🔁 8 💬 1 📌 3
The 2026 Rainbow Book List « Rainbow Book List

THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE is a selection for the American Library Association's 2026 Rainbow List. Yay!

29.01.2026 17:08 👍 22 🔁 4 💬 0 📌 1
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Identity labels, gatekeeping, and making our own meaning I take a deep dive into the functions of identity labels and how we choose and use them.

"Our process of meaning-making about our own experience is how we get to know ourselves... What works for an individual is what works. What matters is that the process produces self-understanding."

We go deep on identity labels in this one.

28.01.2026 18:56 👍 19 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 1

I’m happy to hear that human ghouls are having a bad time.

26.01.2026 20:10 👍 28 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0
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ICE killing #AlexPretti should remind you of police killing #PhilandoCastille. Both men had concealed weapon permits, did not draw their guns, & were killed in Minn. These homicides are the price of unaccountable policing. These deaths are variations on the same fatal theme.

25.01.2026 04:35 👍 11126 🔁 3220 💬 85 📌 73

Hey gay men: that pic of you in your jock captioned with your thoughts about Minneapolis is not praxis.

25.01.2026 15:51 👍 24 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 1

I worry for folks down south who aren’t individually prepared in municipalities that haven’t had the need to be prepared for this. Dangerous for folks.

24.01.2026 23:20 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Aw I miss those

24.01.2026 23:03 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

The endless gay ritual of chatting on the apps about a snowstorm and guys making dick size jokes out of the forecast.

24.01.2026 22:47 👍 16 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Watch through to the end. Important context and a good message—esp.: calling back to the radical notions of freedom from tyranny that the Founding Fathers set forth in the revolutionary docs that many Americans hold dear. It’s 2026, our 250th anniversary: what sort of world are we fighting for?

24.01.2026 21:01 👍 140 🔁 40 💬 0 📌 0

Care is an act of resistance. Engage as much as you can in direct forms of resistance now. But don’t discount the value and necessity of care.

The actions you take to provide care for your community are necessary for survival. Don’t think you’re “doing nothing” when providing care to people.

24.01.2026 20:41 👍 62 🔁 20 💬 0 📌 0
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The life we lead is the solution, not the test. A lesson in standpoint theory reminds me that we don't "overcome" who we are. We overcome the world.

Your identities and experiences are not struggles you "get over." They're the building blocks of your power in the world.

24.01.2026 13:43 👍 18 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0

The Oscars today was that one gay guy with a BFA who's drunk at the bar absolutely ranting at how shitty the second act of WICKED is.

23.01.2026 00:43 👍 12 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

So what you're saying is corporate executives are less skilled than an algorithm but hoard wealth and exploit workers with actual skills.

21.01.2026 11:27 👍 13 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Your weapon against queerphobia? Authenticity. Bring yourself to the table of your life. It's a pushback to the forces fighting us.

"By sharing who we are both within and without our aspec identities in our interpersonal relationships, our neighborhoods, our community, and every other place we are part of a human network, we are telling the story of what it means to be aspec."

20.01.2026 23:24 👍 15 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 1

Not hard to believe. It’s been happening to Black citizens for ages.

19.01.2026 02:44 👍 29 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0