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@genagorlin
UT Austin faculty, psychologist, founder coach; author of Building the Builders Substack (genagorlin.substack.com), where I write about the psychology of ambitious self-creation; wife & baby mama to @matt.kitchen @Gena_I_Gorlin on Twitter
If this is you, then come check out the newsletter and subscribe! And let me know what you think, since itβs as much as ever a work-in-progress.
This is a new kind of self-help for those who (rightly) roll their eyes at self-help.
They are, or aspire to become, high-agency humanists.
They are neither well-served by traditional therapy and mental health tools, nor content to sacrifice themselves at the altar of βhustle culture";
They are ambitious builders and creators who want to approach their lives entrepreneurially, whether or not they are entrepreneurs.
New year, new title: say hello to my freshly rebranded newsletter, βThe Psychology of Ambitionβ
builders.genagorlin.com
This title reflects the thinking I've done in the past year to clarify my ideal audience. Hereβs what Iβve learned about the people who resonate most with my work:
Read all about my amazing wife Anne Briard, courtesy of @genagorlin.bsky.social. Goes without saying that the scare quotes are important.
builders.genagorlin.com/p/the-courag...
The βleaden meanβ: when the middle path between two extremes is costlier and more disastrous than either extreme π€¦π»ββοΈ
Discussion thread just dropped: open.substack.com/pub/genagorl...
Come explore the concept, read my embarrassing examples, and perchance share your own
Pleased to share the culmination of a 5-year research effort involving the largest team of coauthors Iβve ever assembled
Our big takeaway: self-honesty can be measured (sort of), and it matters!
www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10....
What did absconding to Utah to study fantasy fiction and mingle with Mormons teach @shl.bsky.social about building his startup?
The one thing Silicon Valley couldn't teach himβthough it's arguably the most important lesson of all.
Read the full story here:
builders.genagorlin.com/p/fantastic-...
Sigh, fair enoughβ¦. No free lunches or free Substack comment integrations, alas
Aaah, I want this for my Substack posts!!
@matt.kitchen, help? :D
How I taught my 4yo how to read by (in part) setting her up to send text messages
higherground.substack.com/p/friday-not...
Here for the link-sharing binge Iβve craved for so long
Starting with my Substack, which explores the moral psychology of ambition: builders.genagorlin.com
Recycling this from Twitter, since itβs my rallying cry:
On surface, self-honesty is just a negationβa refusal to stay self-deceived a moment longer than one can help it. But what it manifests & affirms is a deep, abiding love of existence: a commitment to living for real, not just for pretend.
I am (genagorlin.substack.com), and I just added you to my Recommendations list. Thank you for already having me on yours, hah! π³
Ooo- where do I find this feature??
Hmmmmm
Does this mean I can post all the other photos you havenβt let me post before because you have no shirt on?
Dude
Also, is βblueskyingβ a verb yet?? Feel like maybe we can fast-track that linguistic evolution in this case?
Sooo what are peopleβs strategies for getting started on here? Do you just copy-paste your Twitter profile & start duplicating your tweets? Do you experiment with a new BlueSky persona to complement (or, perhaps, replace) your Twitter one? Do you try to βread the roomβ & then decide?