Gay & Tonic

this is A LOT of people

once again, body modifications (dental, surgery, etc) is high up on the list of things you shouldn't try to get a "deal" on. cuz wtf

oh yes!!

lmaoooo whimsy! and nonsense!! yes!

lmaooo BYE (but low key I wanna know)

Sometimes I’m like “wow! This is my life” other times I’m like “wow, this is my life” lol

the birds are back gossiping at 6am. LOUDLY smh

I saw a flower pop up I guess from the warm couple days. Poor baby in for a rude awakening as it drops lol. But also...that means pollen is in the air and I'm already itchy

Will be circling back to this! Cuz I guess I need to roll up on someone!

Like what do you even do with that lmaooo we need a community meeting lol

👀👀😡

This community lmaoo

Damn someone said blockheads woulda been the move today and I miss New York so bad 😩😂. Rip blockheads. A real one

Can’t. Wait.

All those late nights leaving the function, drunk af and dewy bc it was hot as fuck in there, loud talking and laughing because we carried the convo outside, already recapping the night before we even go home, and grabbing a slice before we hit the uber? Yeah. Turn them summer nights UP 😭

Even if partnered. You need an ecosystem of care. A network of ppl who you pour into and that pour into you. It can’t be all on your partner but so many folks neglect building strong friendships

But while my friends and I age. Folks need more medical care. Surgeries. Etc. Most single + living alone.

And it’s a joy to see us all rise up to fill in the gaps. Making food. Sending Money. Just being there. Etc. We are going to be okay because we have each other.

My friend had surgery so I made some food for her and her mom. Taking it over in the bag i stole from her. 😂 (and low key want to take back with me)

Did you get tickets yet? NYC has a similar event too I need to decide. That sounds funnnnn

House heads picnic 👀

That last one!!! Yes. Appreciate your actual face

All thanks to EDMR therapy. Helps to reprogram the brain and I learned that

the brain doesn’t change the narrative by just thinking positive thoughts (for me, a trauma survivor).

You need new data.
experiences and getting proof you are indeed a wonderful thing until the brain has enough information to accept it as accurate.

Therapy — addressing the root of the trauma & limiting self beliefs.

Be around ppl who hype you up.

Change the narrative by doing things that make you feel smart, capable and pretty. The brain needs evidence to believe something new.

These companies are often paying ppl more than they’d ever pay a person (I’ve seen $90-$150/hr for my own skill set) to teach an AI to replace a person.

It is sick.

Fight for my life.

Julip.
and why isn’t it in styrofoam 🧍🏽‍♀️

A what??? Oh tell me there is a photo 😂

Oh summer comes with all the things here too lol. But it is a black ass groundhog of good weather at least

Just saw my first slingshot with somebody blasting oldies.

Raise the hem on those shorts it’s almost time!