ruinista's Avatar

ruinista

@ruinista

Film photographer with a day job. Silas and Hennie’s human. Doing the Guardian Quiptic puzzle in chronological order. Wants specifics on the general idea.

1,500
Followers
325
Following
1,992
Posts
17.07.2023
Joined
Posts Following

Latest posts by ruinista @ruinista

For reasons that are not that important: I now wear my wedding ring on my right hand (as does husband). Tonight at a bar, random dude I was (I thought) having a pleasant convo with: "why are you hiding your wedding band? Is this a trick??!" It didn't escalate, but JFC guys, what the actual fuck.

12.03.2026 01:39 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I'll tell you, if a woman who cared about sports had written this, it would have been taken as evidence that she didn't understand sports.

11.03.2026 16:47 👍 497 🔁 76 💬 16 📌 4
Large dog hanging his enormous noggin over the edge of the coffee table, tongue hanging out, looking happy.

Large dog hanging his enormous noggin over the edge of the coffee table, tongue hanging out, looking happy.

Glorious mastiff Pyrenees mix standing on a slope of rocks in the woods, looking majestic and derpy both.

Glorious mastiff Pyrenees mix standing on a slope of rocks in the woods, looking majestic and derpy both.

Beige mastiff Pyrenees mix smiling, exuding pure love and maybe hoping for a milkbone.

Beige mastiff Pyrenees mix smiling, exuding pure love and maybe hoping for a milkbone.

Lost him three weeks and one day ago. Really miss him. Our beloved Mr. Man, Silas.

11.03.2026 12:20 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

@sampotts.bsky.social just now, while watching Celtics-Spurs miss 6 3-pointers in a row and lamenting this new era of Not Passing: "I don't know if you could tell, but these kids are ON MY LAWN."

11.03.2026 01:16 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Hello good folks of Bluesky! Might you have Knoxville food/drink recommendations? We are visiting a dear friend there at the end of May. Other suggestions for activities welcome! Dollywood is sadly not in the cards this trip; JC Holdway definitely is.

10.03.2026 19:39 👍 0 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0

“Don’t ever be the first to stop applauding.”

-- Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn, writing about the unfortunate director of the local paper factory

mannerofspeaking.org/2010/05/12/s...

10.03.2026 13:45 👍 2299 🔁 693 💬 82 📌 17
09.03.2026 11:45 👍 3033 🔁 707 💬 26 📌 6

I have never been more ready for a thing, minus one thing, in 2026.

09.03.2026 02:48 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I guess the trade off for losing an hour of sleep this morning was getting to open all of our doors (for longer than a burp!) to herald in False Spring.

08.03.2026 16:58 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

When I was a teenager, my mom and I were shopping in a vintage clothing store on Melrose Blvd. Store owner was telling her assistant in French that she should keep an eye on us as possible shoplifters. Mom grabbed my hand and as we walked out she whisper-yelled a bunch of curses in French at them.

07.03.2026 21:03 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Amidst everything else going on [waves arms around], thanks to Instagram I now know what soaking and also shaking the bed mean, in the Mormon parlance, and I just need to walk into the woods with a book or three and not come back for a while.

07.03.2026 18:34 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

My therapist, normally a pretty private person, told me today she'd recently been listening to Geese. "They're 23, so young! Maybe that will help you feel more alive too!"

06.03.2026 23:21 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
The Simon And Garfunkel 'Sounds Of Silence ' album cover except they're being chased by a Cylon from Battlestar Galactica.

The Simon And Garfunkel 'Sounds Of Silence ' album cover except they're being chased by a Cylon from Battlestar Galactica.

Simon And Garfunkel next. #totp

06.03.2026 20:58 👍 399 🔁 90 💬 10 📌 20

Oh yeah, it's in the Dad Movie Hall of Fame!

06.03.2026 14:41 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Last night the guys on my husband's ice hockey team in the 50+ beer league had never heard of The Pitt but half of them spontaneously went into rapturous discussion on the choreography of the fight scene in The Quiet Man (1952).

06.03.2026 14:08 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Senate comity is going to destroy our country. These people are all in a little club together, and they care more about each other than they care about the people they serve.

06.03.2026 02:22 👍 465 🔁 103 💬 18 📌 13

Democrats may not be able to prevent Mullin's confirmation, but they can certainly turn his track record of offense and stupidity into two days of televised humiliation so spectacular that he is wounded in Trump's eyes from day 1. That is the job.

05.03.2026 20:14 👍 7368 🔁 2036 💬 156 📌 88

This is what heroin must feel like

05.03.2026 19:35 👍 2063 🔁 204 💬 30 📌 5

I'm legit tearing up just remembering the Frank scenes in that Chicago high rise. I didn't know pandemic-me needed that show as much as I did.

05.03.2026 00:19 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

One was a math teacher and the other (who passed away when my dad was very young) was known for a time as the Playboy of north Vietnam, which I'm going to assume was very much A Living.

04.03.2026 22:16 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Hey, remember how we let a nazi near-trillionaire annihilate the US state capacity? I know it was a whole year ago, but it turns out that this has consequences beyond "murdering 14 million people by ending USAID" (which apparently no one cared about).

03.03.2026 15:56 👍 1181 🔁 409 💬 12 📌 10
ROSALÍA - Berghain (Live at The BRIT Awards 2026) ft. Björk
ROSALÍA - Berghain (Live at The BRIT Awards 2026) ft. Björk YouTube video by RosaliaVEVO

Everything is absolute shit, but at least we live in a world where we can marvel at the Rosalia ft. Bjork performance of Berghain on repeat. (You're likely gonna hit repeat many times over.) Very cathartic, every mood all at once.

03.03.2026 16:17 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I also recently found my perfect skin cream and now wonder if I need to find a toddler to make sure it passes the old makeup smell test!

03.03.2026 15:20 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Mom, come pick me up, the best lack all conviction and the worst are full of passionate intensity.

02.03.2026 16:46 👍 2418 🔁 512 💬 29 📌 14
Photo of RFK Jr with the headline "The Golden Bachelor is coming back"

Photo of RFK Jr with the headline "The Golden Bachelor is coming back"

Photo of prisoners inside CECOT with the headline "The Refs are not Trying to Screw You"

Photo of prisoners inside CECOT with the headline "The Refs are not Trying to Screw You"

I've seen these gems on Feedly

02.03.2026 21:11 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Was gonna say: please do come by the next time Swedish Grief Meatballs transpire!

02.03.2026 02:54 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Thank you, old friend. ❤️💔❤️

02.03.2026 02:53 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

At the stage of dog grief where one makes 80+ Swedish meatballs, and look, I want to make space for wherever the grief takes me, but this is madness. Eighty meatballs! Also I miss our dog.

02.03.2026 02:41 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

"The Islamists oppose women getting an education," I mutter, as I aim my missile at the girls school

28.02.2026 18:53 👍 23612 🔁 5973 💬 141 📌 66

folks we’re going to see some wild litigation between the world’s worst people

01.03.2026 16:03 👍 1968 🔁 317 💬 16 📌 14