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Writer, tabletop game designer, occasional artist. Maybe: future friend? He/him. My games: http://a-smouldering-lighthouse.itch.io

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A Guide to Creating Your Own TTRPG Today's letter is something a little different: an article I wrote about how to create your own TTRPG. I don't usually share guides or resources here, but I...

Someone in one of my tabletop communities asked how to make her own TTRPGs. I didn't LOVE any of the articles I came across, so I wrote one of my own fueled by stubbornness and Vyvanse.

This is the best 101 I can provide on the process of taking an RPG from idea to finished game. Hope it helps.

11.03.2026 17:26 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have rolled
the dice
that were in
the dicebox

and which
you were probably
saving
for saving throws

Forgive me
they were shiny
so neat
and unrolled

03.03.2026 12:23 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

loving the expressiveness you folks coaxed out of those puppets!

02.03.2026 20:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
graphic that says no ice in Minnesota itch.io charity bundle

graphic that says no ice in Minnesota itch.io charity bundle

The No ICE in Minnesota Charity Bundle has officially LAUNCHED!

There are 1,439 games to discover for a $10+ donation to Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota!

Purchase the bundle here: itch.io/b/3484/no-ic...

09.02.2026 14:33 πŸ‘ 3608 πŸ” 3389 πŸ’¬ 34 πŸ“Œ 365

he really, honestly does

17.01.2026 23:52 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Stories that aren't mine (from places I haven't been). Hello darlings. I’ve been sipping at an idea these past weeks. Nursing it like a drink on a night that’s on the edge of over. Stories don’t really belong to...

Stories that aren't mine (from places I haven't been).

A letter with a few feelings about mailing an object I mistook for a friend, the peculiarities of translation, and a bittersweet feeling in a place that's been abandoned.

buttondown.com/Kurt/archive...

14.01.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A crude MS Paint drawing of a small person smiling nervously. In front of the small person, a placard reads "Kurt Refling: Baby / Imposter." On either side of Kurt, the shoulders of two people can be seen, heads out-of-frame like adults in a Charlie Brown cartoon. The left figure wears a suit jacket; the right figure wears a blouse.

A crude MS Paint drawing of a small person smiling nervously. In front of the small person, a placard reads "Kurt Refling: Baby / Imposter." On either side of Kurt, the shoulders of two people can be seen, heads out-of-frame like adults in a Charlie Brown cartoon. The left figure wears a suit jacket; the right figure wears a blouse.

i'm sitting on a couple panels at a convention this year. i know deep down that i'm Smart & Helpful Guy Who Knows Stuff, but do y'all ever feel like --

12.01.2026 15:52 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

See you at Breakout? πŸ‘€

03.01.2026 23:30 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

oh my god

02.01.2026 21:03 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

never before has a sock puppets post included video. now i am spoiled forever. listen to this perfect bumpo.

31.12.2025 05:12 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’›

25.12.2025 05:53 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As one of the KS rewards for Sock Puppets β€” a LARP where you make and operate actual puppets β€” the inimitable @kurtrefling.bsky.social offered the chance for backers to play a game with Herman, the puppet Kurt built to hype the game.

So what game did I pick? SOCK PUPPETS.

25.12.2025 00:54 πŸ‘ 21 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

thank you!

21.12.2025 18:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Closing this thread: I would love to know if you've ever watched a how to play video for an RPG! They're so common in the board game space, but I feel like it's largely absent from TTRPGs. If you have, link it below so we can see it too!

21.12.2025 17:40 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

If people want to pirate a game, there are much easier ways to do it than squinting at a screenshot from a tutorial.

But I am always looking for better ways to open the door for people to play. It's part of what makes @helloalexroberts.bsky.social's game For the Queen such a beautiful thing.

21.12.2025 17:40 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

"But Kurt," says a straw man. "Your RPG is like 40 pages. What if people just watch this video instead of buying your game?"

Thank you for asking, imaginary person.

I believe that people WANT to support art. We tip buskers because a moment of music is moving enough to invite something in exchange.

21.12.2025 17:40 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
How to Play Sock Puppets, ft. Herman
How to Play Sock Puppets, ft. Herman YouTube video by An Open Hand

In an act of radical approachability & mediocre puppetry, I made a quickstart video for Sock Puppets: a TTRPG about puppets and their problems.

I made this because I want more games you can just... play. No homework. No tests.

I also wanted to make bad, embarrassing jokes.

youtu.be/DcAZH6iwcXU

21.12.2025 17:31 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Just couple of OVAs, but they're hard to track down these days

20.12.2025 22:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

...Which means I also didn't know what a "black deck" was. Or that every card in the deck is like, "rotten corpse" or "bone devourer".

Which is how I found myself on my birthday, with my in-laws, playtesting a game about girls attending a school for young... necromancers. [2/2]

20.12.2025 20:49 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I wrote a magical girls game that uses Clow cards as oracles. During playtesting, I quickly realized it could work with any cards that have interesting art, so I asked my brother-in-law to bring Magic cards over.

I do not know anything about Magic. [1/2]

20.12.2025 20:49 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Hey, did we mention we have Desperation back in stock?

12.12.2025 01:34 πŸ‘ 31 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

So many people do not have a place in their lives where they can play with other people. I mean really be playful. And the capacity is always there, just waiting to be let out.

11.12.2025 22:14 πŸ‘ 23 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I know this story wasn't fishing, but I will never pass up on an opportunity to tell you again what a smart smart thing you made.

11.12.2025 22:36 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Of the many things that make FtQ so genius (revolutionary!) is that and truly embodies games as conversation. You're just answering questions! It's such a perfect way to transition from natural discussion into this place of creativity and imagination.

11.12.2025 22:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

After games of For the Queen, I've had people sheepishly tell me that they'd borrowed some idea from a piece of media they love, or it was just a reframing of something that happened to them.

And I'm like, darlings! Sweet lovelies. Please. That's where all stories come from. You're doing great.

11.12.2025 22:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

God, yes, this exactly. People are so scared that they won't be clever or funny or cool, but none of that is what makes a good story. Good stories come from a place of honesty.

11.12.2025 22:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

writers are such magicians with storytelling games. always a treat.

11.12.2025 22:12 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
An amateur watercolour painting of a forest scene. A gnome couple sits in the foreground at the root of a tree. Behind them, a forested hillside angles upwards to the right, while a creek passes by on the left.

An amateur watercolour painting of a forest scene. A gnome couple sits in the foreground at the root of a tree. Behind them, a forested hillside angles upwards to the right, while a creek passes by on the left.

went to a white elephant gift exchange this weekend where everyone had to bring something hand-made.

nobody said i *wasn't* allowed to bring watercolour gnomes, so obviously that's what i did.

08.12.2025 16:35 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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A Smouldering Lighthouse

10 - I tricked you, there's no 10th footnote. You're just reading this because you like reading, nerd. Go read one of my games instead.

a-smouldering-lighthouse.itch.io

Some are even free.

itch.io/c/3144634/li...

Or maybe read my newsletter? I'm fun there too.

buttondown.com/Kurt/archive/

08.12.2025 16:30 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

9 - If this still sounds high, look into "marginal tax rates"! If you can understand how that works, you'll be a lot less mad about taxes (and a lot more informed than most people).

08.12.2025 16:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0