a little masochism to clear the fog
11.03.2026 05:18
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a little masochism to clear the fog
Lol to be fair, they were relatively tame and I came out mostly unscathed. But deeeeeply inappropriate. Learned a lot about my personal willpower.
Just got hit by “inappropriate relationships with older men.”
They said “everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” And I took that personally.
1. Books (fiction) + tumblr
2. Communication, clarity, and it is a measurably different experience than any other type of intimacy.
3. Everything falls under the umbrella of power exchange.
4. Race play, elements of age play, lot of restrictions around bodily fluids, etc.
in need of dissociative levels of impact and a joint
My vibe...awkward 🙂↕️
The secondhand dildo episode was my last 😭
It makes sense…but…
I can’t do that level of secondhand embarrassment
memory. foam. infomercial.
the way it feels to kneel
mounting pressure
endless successive impacts
artfully increasing tension
Like pressing a bruise
To be made to feel
To be made to cry
Silly! But that does sound nice.
I want
No, it belonged to a Dom at an event I was at. But if you google dragon tongue whip, it comes up. Usually in a leather.
I tested out a rubber/latex one once, but haven’t gotten to really try it fully.
Hand
Dragon tongue
Paddle
I prefer a stinging feeling over denser impact.
I need a full body massage with a happy ending
Anyway, like that one post said, sometimes I just want to bounce on it because I’m horny not because I never had a trampoline.
You can also be into something a little or circumstantially and have no need to claim it as a kink.
However, I feel reframing the thought process offers clarity on what you really do and don’t like. Which is foundational. Plenty of people made this point far more eloquently than I can right now.
Book learning, but I like the cheekiness
