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@xobeanxo

just for fun. minimaximalist. good soil.

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I wrote about this a bit in my last book but it really shakes me that a defining feature of this catastrophic era is that we just keep going to work. We work through pandemics, we work through natural disasters, we work through economic calamity, we work through coups, we work, we work, we work.

09.04.2025 13:03 πŸ‘ 11638 πŸ” 2764 πŸ’¬ 367 πŸ“Œ 289

And 100/100 doesn't just mean finances, it means everything. True partnership, radical vulnerability, total effort.

Sometimes, one of you will be up and the other down, but if you're 100/100 you're both doing everything you can for each other, always.

Otherwise, in THESE times? You won't make it.

03.04.2025 20:02 πŸ‘ 32 πŸ” 15 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 1

It's the 20s. If you want to be in a real relationship, a real PARTNERSHIP, in the REAL world... the only way it can work is if it's 100/100.

And that's not the same as 50/50. It's HARD out here for EVERYONE and if you're gonna make it with someone it'll take everything that you BOTH have to give.

03.04.2025 19:56 πŸ‘ 75 πŸ” 24 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 6

Playing games and taking half measures and trying to exploit power dynamics just means that you're not serious about anything to do with the relationship. You're trying to get something for yourself and it might work short term but that's it.

If you're SERIOUS, it's 100/100 or nothing.

03.04.2025 19:59 πŸ‘ 29 πŸ” 12 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

accurate! and the dj bought us a round of drinks. 10/10 recommend! Lol

15.02.2025 13:13 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I love this little spot. The food is sooooo good and the bartenders are amazing. I can’t wait to go back.

15.02.2025 13:00 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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xoxo, love bean. πŸ’•πŸ₯‚

15.02.2025 02:55 πŸ‘ 19 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

S M T W Th F (S)love.

25.01.2025 18:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Just wait until I look how I’m really supposed to look.

23.12.2024 20:59 πŸ‘ 135 πŸ” 77 πŸ’¬ 8 πŸ“Œ 35
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a nice time was had. β™₯️🍷

15.12.2024 05:53 πŸ‘ 24 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

giving it my nothing today.

02.12.2024 14:17 πŸ‘ 16 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 2

i miss shoney’s! that was my favorite breakfast buffet as a kid lol

02.12.2024 03:43 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯°πŸ₯° thank you gorgeous!!

01.12.2024 19:43 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

🀣🀣🀣 but i promise!

01.12.2024 18:31 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

thank you gorgeous! πŸ’•πŸ«ΆπŸΎ

01.12.2024 18:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

☺️

01.12.2024 18:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

thank you gorgeous! Loll

01.12.2024 18:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

aht aht!! we not doing that on the bluesky lmaoo

01.12.2024 18:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

lollll thank you

01.12.2024 18:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

thank you!

01.12.2024 18:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

thank you gorgeous! 😊

01.12.2024 15:38 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ₯°πŸ’• thank you so much

01.12.2024 04:03 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

β˜ΊοΈπŸ’•

01.12.2024 03:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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ive been radiant all weekend long and feel the need to document. 🀭

01.12.2024 03:35 πŸ‘ 258 πŸ” 15 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 1

thank you beautiful πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

29.11.2024 03:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

β€οΈπŸ™πŸΎ

29.11.2024 03:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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thank God 4 me.

29.11.2024 03:03 πŸ‘ 46 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 2
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10:11 on granby.

28.11.2024 03:15 πŸ‘ 31 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

😭😭😭😭😭

27.11.2024 23:00 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0