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Dee Whitnell (they/them)

@s3xtheorywithdee

🩷 Multi Award-winning Sx Educator ⭐️ Sx Health Worker 🍌 Beyond Bananas and C0nd0ms πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ @transkidsdeservetogrowup πŸŽ“ Sx therapist in-training Sep’26

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5/ Regardless of whether you’re cis, nonbinary, trans, questioning or unlabelled - THE gender binaries can be EXHAUSTING which is why exploring beyond these boxes is beneficial for everyone!

Happy gender-exploring! 🩷✨

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4/ One line in particular from this interview hit me as a nonbinary person: β€œI believe everyone has all of it in them. I’ve always felt like that” & that’s something I’ve personally felt too, that every individual has elements of them that exist outside the binary they were forced into at birth.

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3/ Colman shares that she’s β€œnever felt massively feminine in my being female”, & that she’s β€œalways described myself to my husband as a gay man” - a feeling many gender conforming individuals feel in relationships, particularly when dating a cisgender straight individual!

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2/ Colman discussed her feelings about gender in an interview promoting her latest film, Jimpa. Saying that she has β€˜always felt sort of nonbinary’ & that the binaries of gender are problematic to many folks, even cisgender individuals!

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🩷 Olivia Colman reminding folks that exploring your gender, & allowing yourself to not squeeze yourself into boxes that don’t fit you is okay!

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I learnt how to give head to a vulva owner in my mid-twenties I was a late bloomer, so here's some tips!

Check out my substack for my cunnilingus tips as a late bloomer πŸ‘‡

Dee-Myth 🩷✨

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🩷 As a few of you may know, I am in my first T4T relationship, and even though I have been out as queer for many years, I was too anxious to ever be intimate with a fellow vulva owner.

As a late bloomer, and neurodivergent individual, I was anxious when the time came….

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Was Joan of Arc Nonbinary???
Was Joan of Arc Nonbinary??? YouTube video by Dee Whitnell

πŸŽ₯ New YT video out now! Was Joan of Arc Nonbinary?…

A perfect video to start LGBT History Month! Head over to my YT & why not subscribe! ✨

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Sex with a fellow trans person put me off cis men for life My only regret was not meeting my trans boyfriend earlier; it would have saved me a lot of time soul-searching.

🀭 Boyfriends are out… but my trans bf is in!

Here’s a piece I wrote this week for Metro on why I will never date a cis man again as a nonbinary person.

metro.co.uk/2025/12/07/s...

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Aussie mum wants to sue school after this sex ed lesson: lets investigate πŸ”Ž Another article, another sex educator picking it apart! πŸ‘

πŸ”¬ Every so often, a story hits the mainstream media of a parent unhappy with the S3x Education their young person has received in class.…

Here’s the deets & my thoughts as a S3x educator πŸ‘‡

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/aussie-mum...

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Deadnamed by someone who commissioned me... again Oops they did it again...

πŸŽ™οΈ Oop… they did it again…

I think it’s important to use these moments for educating others on how *not* to act when hiring a trans+ individual & how *to* support someone who has been misgendered or deadnamed in front of you!

πŸ”— s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/deadnamed-...

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πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ Every-day ways to be a Trans+ ally 16 Days of Activism:

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ This #16daysofactivism, I made an easy-every-day list of ways you can be a Trans ally!

For the full piece, head over to my Substack & why not subscribe! ✨

I’m trying to post every week so if you have any blog ideas, let me know below!

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/every-day-...

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Penis filler is on the rise in Gen Z... but why? Yes, young penis owners are getting penis filler!

πŸ†β€¦ ever heard of peen filler before? It’s a new trend amongst Gen Z peen owners

Here’s what you need to know πŸ‘‡

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/penis-fill...

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Why are vaginas and periods so scary?! As a sex educator, and a horror fan, I want to know: why are vaginas and periods so scary?!

πŸ“Ί Growing up, there was one horror film that was always talked about, purely for its topic: a vagina with teeth that bit off penises…

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/why-are-va...

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🚨 It’s finally happened!! Emergency contraction is now free of charge from local pharmacies! πŸ‘‡

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πŸŽƒ Checking your chest isn’t scary.. so let’s check ours this Halloween, with help from some pumpkins!

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Bush-gate ... the hairy vagina saga ... insight from a sex educator who has a bush πŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈ

Free the pubic hair.. don’t buy it?!

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Checking your chest isn’t scary πŸŽƒ

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πŸŽƒ Checking your chest isn’t scary.. so let’s check ours this Halloween, with help from some pumpkins!

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Day in the life as a s3x educator 🩷✨
Day in the life as a s3x educator 🩷✨ YouTube video by Dee Whitnell

Day in the life of a s3x educator πŸŽ₯

youtu.be/Ct-hHIIwrmQ?...

23.10.2025 16:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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⏰ I ALSO provide discounts on multiple commissions and commissions for charities!

Book me while you can! 🩡 Drop me a DM or email me @s3xtheorywithdemi@gmail.com

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🩷I have worked with NHS England, Urban Outfitters, Brook, Dr Martens, Glisten Cosmetics, Cosmopolitan, Durex, The Guardian, Channel 4, Pride in London, BBC to name a few!

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