35 Lessons I’ve Learned from the Hardest Year of My Life
Aka… things to help you if you’re grieving or having a hard time human-ing right now
My dad died unexpectedly 10 days before Christmas last year, and grief has been a wild ride.
If you’re experiencing grief (big or small) this holiday season or are just feeling rattled by the state of the world, I hope these lessons that I have learned this year help you feel seen and comforted.
20.12.2025 19:23
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6 Essential Ingredients for Winter Wellness
Aka... how I care for myself during the dark season and a ton of ideas/links to help you do the same
How do you care for yourself in the winter?
If you aren’t sure what works for you, my 6 ingredients for wellbeing and a pile of links can help you get started.
humansleading.substack.com/p/6-essentia...
10.12.2025 15:00
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6 Essential Ingredients for Winter Wellness
Aka... how I care for myself during the dark season and a ton of ideas/links to help you do the same
How do you care for yourself in the winter?
If you aren’t sure what works for you, my 6 ingredients for wellbeing and a pile of links can help you get started.
humansleading.substack.com/p/6-essentia...
10.12.2025 15:00
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You Don't Have to Be the Best
A reminder to give yourself a break this season
This post is a short reminder for all of the recovering perfectionists out there (*raises hand*).
If you find your perfectionism rearing its head as we approach the holidays, this one is for you.
humansleading.substack.com/p/you-dont-h...
#PedsICU #MedSky #Perfectionism
08.12.2025 19:26
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You Don't Have to Be the Best
A reminder to give yourself a break this season
This post is a short reminder for all of the recovering perfectionists out there (*raises hand*).
If you find your perfectionism rearing its head as we approach the holidays, this one is for you.
humansleading.substack.com/p/you-dont-h...
#PedsICU #MedSky #Perfectionism
08.12.2025 19:26
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Happy to have just made my first donation after a long day in the #PedsICU. Let’s go #KidVengers!
#HCWvsHunger
30.11.2025 01:49
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Joy is Necessary
You can't have a satisfying life without it. Discover how to create more... no burying your head in the sand required.
Joy is a key ingredient for a satisfying life.
And cultivating it allows us to resist and persist through difficult times.
You can learn how to create more joy in your life in this week’s post.
#PedsICU #MedSky
open.substack.com/pub/humansle...
14.11.2025 17:39
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You Won't Save the World via Your Phone
Reflections on an increasingly screen-filled life
Our phones can be helpful tools. But they can also be a barrier between us and our real lives.
This week, I explore my own relationship with my phone and my desire to spend less time on it.
If you’re looking to do the same, the reflection questions I provide can help you get started.
07.11.2025 14:05
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Where are my pediatricians at?! We need to get every single one of us sharing accurate medical information. Even if it just means sharing each other’s content. It’s easy and it helps. The solution to...
TikTok video by Jaime Friedman, MD
I miss the days of the tweetiatrician. We built so much community under the shared purpose of sharing evidence based child health information. The methods and platforms may have changed but that doesn’t mean we can’t keep going. Follow pediatricians. Share our messages.
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMjGmB2j/
30.09.2025 20:37
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One of the new ACIP goons is advocating for randomized, placebo controlled trials of the MMR vaccine. This would be like now randomizing seat belts for kids or car seats for infants.
It’s so laughable that people this stupid are in charge of our health.
19.09.2025 14:23
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By decreasing vaccine access and encouraging vaccine mistrust, they drive down vaccine uptake.
And then point towards low vaccine uptake as a reason to not have the vaccines anymore.
19.09.2025 15:56
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So cute!
19.09.2025 16:02
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Protecting Your Energy This Fall
My 5 essential ingredients for wellbeing (including 3 favorite Fall recipes!)
What do you need for your wellbeing this Fall?
I’ve learned that knowing your essentials helps you take care of yourself even when times are busy or stressful.
Today, I’m sharing a few tips to help you get started.
#PedsICU #MedSky
open.substack.com/pub/humansle...
19.09.2025 16:02
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What does success look like? What brings them joy? Why do they do what they do?
We get to decide what successful careers look like for ourselves.
And sharing the lessons I've learned the hard way is part of what success looks like for me.
16.09.2025 18:52
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Today I delivered my favorite career talk of the year during the Business of Medicine rotation at Corewell Health West.
It's my favorite because it brings me joy to have the opportunity to encourage the trainees to think broadly about what their careers and lives will look like in the future.
16.09.2025 18:52
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Build Your Resilience Toolkit: 7 Strategies to Navigate Hard Days
Because we all have hard days
Having a toolkit won’t save us from hard times, but it will make it a lot easier to navigate them.
Learn to build yours with the 7 strategies in this podcast.
#PedsICU #MedSky
open.substack.com/pub/humansle...
25.08.2025 16:20
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😳😳
That’s so many books!
26.08.2025 15:44
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Build Your Resilience Toolkit: 7 Strategies to Navigate Hard Days
Because we all have hard days
Having a toolkit won’t save us from hard times, but it will make it a lot easier to navigate them.
Learn to build yours with the 7 strategies in this podcast.
#PedsICU #MedSky
open.substack.com/pub/humansle...
25.08.2025 16:20
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The World Won't End if You Do 1% Less
Learn how to start doing less to live more.
Doing too much?
Feel like you can’t stop because the world will fall apart?
Try doing just 1% less.
#PedsICU #Womeninmedicine #MedSky
humansleading.substack.com/p/the-world-...
22.08.2025 09:30
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The World Won't End if You Do 1% Less
Learn how to start doing less to live more.
Doing too much?
Feel like you can’t stop because the world will fall apart?
Try doing just 1% less.
#PedsICU #Womeninmedicine #MedSky
humansleading.substack.com/p/the-world-...
22.08.2025 09:30
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What We Get Wrong About Resilience
How broadening your understanding can help you and your team.
Resilience doesn’t mean not being affected by adversity.
It means knowing that there will be times that we need help and giving ourselves permission to seek and accept that help.
No one who experiences adversity is truly unaffected by it.
#PedsICU #MedSky
14.08.2025 19:41
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We know that free food isn’t the solution to physician burnout.
And yet creating intentional spaces where people can connect and feel valued is part of creating a culture of wellbeing.
Happy to have done a little of this for our residents and fellows this morning.
#MedEd #MedSky
14.08.2025 14:53
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We know that free food isn’t the solution to physician burnout.
And yet creating intentional spaces where people can connect and feel valued is part of creating a culture of wellbeing.
Happy to have done a little of this for our residents and fellows this morning.
#MedEd #MedSky
14.08.2025 14:53
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I’m officially “conference mom.”
(Read: old 😂)
If you are a resident at a conference, I will come ask you about your project, cheer you on, and ask if you need a picture to send to your actual parent or support system.
We can all take actions to create a culture of support in medicine.
#MedSky
24.07.2025 18:02
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What We Get Wrong About Resilience
How broadening your understanding can help you and your team.
Being resilient doesn’t mean not being affected by adversity.
It means that you seek and accept help when you need it.
And it means building organizational resilience by creating a systemic culture that supports people instead of shaming them for being human.
#MedSky #PedsICU #MedEd
18.07.2025 13:46
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You Don’t Have to Get Used to It: My Journey to Well-being Leadership
Small steps are the only way to build a career you love.
As with most things that matter, my career as the Medical Director of Wellness for GME didn’t happen overnight.
In this short ep, I share a story of how confronting toxic culture in medicine pushed me to become a fierce advocate by changing the systems in which we work one small step at a time.
15.07.2025 13:23
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Today at 4pm ET!
14.07.2025 12:41
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As a #PedsICU physician, I’m reminded every day that life can change in an instant.
Don’t take it for granted.
14.07.2025 13:19
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And in the supply closet 😬
09.07.2025 17:57
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