I kinda love Die Antwoord, and my husband wants to divorce me whenever I listen to them.

Welcome to the gay bear ex lawyers club!

Is a congratulations in order?

I'm contemplating voluntary unemployment but wondering if that will really just be a slow slide into "I didn't mean to retire at 50, but here I am."

I love that Evil Under the Sun is your thing. Clearly that movie was formative on us as gays of a similar age.

Is Lancelot your real name? (Speaking as another Arthurian named gay.)

I hope everything is okay.

I love it!

What is the art above you?

I'm the dean of an academic college at a university