Cara, a tall femme with dyed red hair, is standing in black jeans and a black bra holding a bottle of soy sauce and a bottle of Sapporo beer
Is that @cara.city topless double fisting soy sauce and a Sapporo you betcher ass it is
In other words, I have to think critically, take into account multiple present and future circumstances, and be prepared to play a long game. These aren’t things your brain does passively, they are skill sets you need to cultivate
Because these pieces are all one of a kind and cannot be replaced, I have to really consider their role in my closet, the condition they come in and if I’m willing to make repairs, and be careful in their handling if I want them to last
I cannot buy 20 pieces for dirt cheap instantly when I hunt for vintage pieces. I usually visit the same place multiple times, walk away without purchasing anything the majority of the time, and be ready to hop on one, maybe 2-3 gems
Being dead serious rn, I consider thrifting my clothes and developing an active role in sourcing and curating my style as tied into literacy and general skill
Aaahh okay I can answer this one: the first 5 months or so are just gonna suck ass. Become very routine oriented so executive functioning doesn’t take a nosedive. And I know this sounds trite, but just try to curate good, warm, small moments with platonic connections
If they do we’ll sicc Basil on em. He’ll bite
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“A few years ago” yes I am talking about Boomer parents. Like late 90’s/very early 2000s school age
“But why would rich families not get a diagnosis” my mom knew I had dyscalculia and didn’t tell me till last year. Gen Z doesn’t quite get this but the prevailing attitude of Boomer parents was that if you never acknowledged it as a thing, your kid would just learn not to be disabled anymore
Okay so this is my theory: people like this most likely had a learning disability (dyslexia, ADHD, etc) that went undiagnosed so they developed a resentment for the material itself rather than admit to being less than their idea of “perfect”
If you took your kid to the doctor recently for any reason, there's a one in five chance you walked away with an off-label prescription. Nearly half of all pediatric prescriptions are off-label.
Huh, I can understand that. My whole thing is, there’s this capitalistic, influencer-esque vibe to dating apps that feels inauthentic and seems to encourage not really going beyond surface level small talk and posturing. But I also get that separation can make things more low stakes
I mean I can’t talk, I grew up in a suburb of Memphis that doesn’t exactly have a reputation for quality inhabitants
That’s so interesting! Why do you like them?
We have this thing where we want dating to be this perfectly safe, zero risk activity both physically and emotionally and that’s just impossible. There is no such thing as safe sex and there’s no such thing as safe dating
I am famously a dating app hater and staunchly refuse to get back on them but I’ve also fucked my fair share of strangers I met at raves and play parties and that was a way riskier move
Revuelta Queer House! Combo queer bar and art gallery and they have an axolotl living on the roof
Bartender was literally like “you can come play with my gun anytime” hasksksks 😭😭
A pink gun with a camo handle except it.ms not a gun it’s a bottle opener
THE SANTA CRUZ WINE BAR HAS A GUN BOTTLE OPENER WTF I LOVE THIS
We are going to a beach that requires climbing down a literal cliff face to the sand and my instinct is to wear my cute completely one of a kind friend-made custom jeans
Bro you can still go sit on a swingset in the snow and have to go through the whole day with a wet ass as a result this is an easily replicable experience
We gotta annex Wisconsin tbh. Nothing good happening with those guys
Look this is just me trying to flex having an amazing ass okay
Pros of dating me: I can do the stripper booty cheek clap thing, and the butt cheek isolation twerk thing
Cons of dating me: I will *thoroughly* use this to my advantage
Me doing the stripper booty cheek clap thing alone in my room on a Monday
I’m gonna be basic and say Midsummer bc it was the first play I saw in high school and it immediately made me realize what my English teacher was talking about when she said his shows are meant to be seen live, not read
I was specifically thinking of Sausalito but, also, yeeaahhh
The thing with the Bay Area is that there are these neighborhood pockets that are so stupidly beautiful and idyllic and that’s how you know they are inhabited by the absolute worst people on earth
Victoria winning!
