Taming Dante by Joel Abernathy is stoking fantasies of dubcon Daddy/boy role play as part of a month-long confinement. There’s footie pajamas and train sets and bedtimes and punishments. It’s pretty great.
Sometimes I wonder if my desire to fit in eclipses my commitment to my current dynamic, and I feel sad at the prospect.
I didn’t anticipate life as a conference producer would include grappling with my abandonment fears. I find I often breathe through my worry that my decisions, communication, or work will lead my team to leave me. But I have to trust in our mutual respect and hope they’ll talk to me when they need.
I am itching for Sir’s mark on my body. I’ve been thinking about a tattoo of his symbol lately. I’m fairly certain piercings will be in my future, but that’s at his discretion and he’s taking his time. But darn if having another semi-permanent reminder would be great.
Congratulations!
I’m excited to return to MAsT Laurel Women this Saturday to share my class on Strategies for Navigating Flexibility in Power Imbalanced Dynamics. My main strategy? Bring my own structure, bumps and all!
Join us here: fetlife.com/events/2026/...
I would like a word with the person who coined the term “pracademic.” -.-
I’m appalled that doing self care activities improves my mood and outlook on life. The audacity!
I have a date night planned very close to both Steak and Blowjob day and Pi Day.
I guess my dinner menu’s set. ;)
Great caption. ^_^
Another day, another reminder that in BDSM, service isn’t only for submissives! Anyone can provide or receive service, regardless of role.
Yes, this is a hill I will perish upon.
I want a gender expression that’s best described as unattainable. I want the ability to be so beautiful that people don’t understand how I’m human.
This month’s Service Chat features a discussion on Pet Play and Service facilitated by @nyxlunaea.bsky.social! Bring your stories, ideas, questions and more this Saturday as we explore what’s possible!
Details here: fetlife.com/events/2026/...
I’ve finished my annual viewing of Old Fashioned Cupcake (2022). Given the weekend, I had a hankering for the tension and connection the actors give in this well-paced short drama. It never disappoints.
$4 MILLION!! #P4A2026
Comic of a shark celebrating valentines day by giving themselves flowers and chocolates "Today i got some roses and a big box of chocolates. From who? From myself
Happy valentines day 🦈
#art #sharks
Don’t let clothes come in the way of progress. Anything worth doing at all is worth doing in fuzzy pants.
I am grateful to serve a prospective owner who doesn’t mind when I yelp in surprise seeing the overwhelming mountain of laundry I’m to help put away.
There is no keener self-humiliation for me than staring at something I know I just learned but forgot how to do, and needing to weigh asking the person who taught it to me to do so a second time.
Where does the need or desire for flexibility show up in your life, relationships, and/or power exchange/ authority transfer dynamics?
By flexibility, I mean the ability to readily adapt to significant change in expectation or process within a short time.
Sir Ian McKellen performing a monologue from Shakespeare’s Sir Thomas More on the Stephen Colbert show. Never have I heard this monologue performed with such a keen sense of prescience. Nor have I ever been in this exact historical moment.TY Sir Ian, for reaching us once again.
#Pinks #ProudBlue
I’m dismayed by my increasingly habitual tendency to book time off from the job I get paid for to do other work.
“What are your plans for vacation?”
“Oh so exciting - clean my house, do taxes, check on conference work, volunteer some, recover from burnout.”
This.. isn’t how this should go, no? 🤪
How about a promo day? If you're a Black author, please share your work here and how to best support you :) OR, share your favorite recent read from a Black author #WritingPrompt
A lone metal chain secured to an anchor point on a blank white wall hangs down to a solid, rigid metal collar. The collar sits on a black padded surface secured down by four rings fastened to the floor.
“You will be taken to a place and kept there. You will not know where or for how long. The elements may be in your favor, or against, as you realize that you are utterly alone and no one can hear your screams or pleads for help. No one is paying attention anymore”. Special Offerings sneak preview!
Flat single-colour white vector lineart of a chastity cage and a heart-shaped lock, in an alternating grid pattern
Keep your love locked down 💖🔒 #chastity
In solidarity with today's ICE OUT OF MINNESOTA blackout, MinnMax is donating $1 to the Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota for every share of this Bluesky post for the next hour.
I’m grateful for friends who, when I tell them I’m trying to not stare into the void for too long, send pictures of their black cat so I have a better void to stare into.
Someone said to me, "I'm sorry but I got your book from a library." Nobody should ever apologise for that. You read my book! That's brilliant! I grew up hanging out in libraries and the idea of a world without them fills me with dread. Without libraries, authors, like readers, will only suffer.
This month’s Service Chat features a presentation on a personal journey with service in, “The Reluctant Boy.” Join us this Saturday to find inspiration for learning one’s own service style and voice.
Details here: fetlife.com/events/1970618
Here’s the thing: “The worst they can say,” isn’t, “No.” There are worse things they can say, separately or additionally. It’s why my forearms and biceps tingle with anxiety when I write out a request. “No,” is, in fact, one of the most tolerable responses.
