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Welcome to my brain. I'd ask you to wear gloves, but they're more for your protection. I would be hard to get more filthy in here than it already is, but I'm game if you are. She/her Poly Pan

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This is my favorite way to be roped up: quick, confident, competent.

09.03.2026 23:21 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Damn fine reason to get strong. I hope you get to see and hear the joy your work is giving her.

07.03.2026 04:14 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I got to open my windows today and leave them open for hours, breathing in the post-rain air. It felt so good. I didn't want to close them but it's going to storm again overnight.
A little fresh air is better than none, right?

07.03.2026 04:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You deserve better. You fill a need for so many people and you do it without harming anyone whenever you can help it. Hell of a lot better than the people legislating against you.

07.03.2026 02:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I heard you then, when Backpage was taken down. I heard you when credit cards started refusing to take your cash, as if it were dirtier than anyone else's.
I wish I had enough voice to amplify yours.

07.03.2026 02:34 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's almost like they sit down in committee and try to come up with new, stunningly cruel ways to drive the US to being a 3rd World country.

05.03.2026 05:02 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Bonus: they also work with TENS. In fact, one piece i have has a port one one side.

04.03.2026 04:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I got a beautiful day collar from someone on Etsy who does things with tiny rings that speak to me. CaptiveCollars out of WI.

04.03.2026 04:46 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I've used a variety of vendors, but my personal favorites have come from Chicago Toolworks, which doesn't seem to have a website (they may be using a reseller). A lot of their handles are airplane-grade tooled aluminum, which keeps them lite, easy to clean, & able to be used in temperature play.

04.03.2026 04:28 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I would hate for there to me something unsaid between us, my ursine friend.

03.03.2026 22:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I hope this matter has been rectified to your (mutual) satisfaction.

03.03.2026 22:00 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Do not get your appendages stuck in that. The ER will have to call in the fire brigade because they have the right tools. (Source: my child got a finger caught in the hole on a wooden pizza peel.)

03.03.2026 16:39 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

*crossing fingers*

28.02.2026 00:14 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

apparently when I said I wanted to see Les MisΓ©rables someday, I should have clarified that I did not mean "unfolding on the streets around me in real time"

27.02.2026 18:41 πŸ‘ 317 πŸ” 46 πŸ’¬ 5 πŸ“Œ 0

Are you ok?

27.02.2026 00:45 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

For real. My kid's get the day off, but i have to Be An Adult? Pure nonsense.

27.02.2026 00:13 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

With that prominent curve on the left, I might have to lean toward Dolly or Jayne.

26.02.2026 19:04 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I donate platelets. Let's go.

23.02.2026 19:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My voice cracks, breaking as another wave of sensation rolls through me. You've taken me from agony to ecstasy and back so many times tonight. How could the cries of delight ever expect to keep up?
You pause to let me catch my breath, then set me moaning as you build a wave again. I gasp,wordless.

23.02.2026 14:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Have you tried tajin?

23.02.2026 05:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

If I am going to remain an *ethical* slut, I might have to stop hanging out with people who haven't hit the "half my age +7" guideline

23.02.2026 05:43 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Would you recommend reusable eggs or something that dissolves in situ?

22.02.2026 18:03 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

If you insist

22.02.2026 18:01 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

What would "doing something" look like for you?

22.02.2026 17:58 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

History books aren't long enough to include everyone. They aren't even long enough to include all the immediately relevant people for pivotal events. Most of us will be left out of the edits. But you might figure very prominently in someone's personal history. This is still a good thing to have done

22.02.2026 12:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm pale enough that I could work as a bounce for a photographer and i think that comment is bullsh!t. How can he just say "African American skin" like there isn't a huge range of beautiful tones and undertones. Ahh, the history of racism in photographic technology πŸ™„

17.02.2026 15:05 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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It looks to have some good advise and a link to a video in the comments.

17.02.2026 14:57 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a black and white dog are looking at each other . Alt: a black dog offers comfort by hugging their white dog friend

Lemon, I am so very sorry that your heart has been hurt like this. And I am sorry that our language is inadequate to explain why the breaking of a non-romantic love could hurt so deeply. It is love, after all. Why wouldn't its loss hurt? I hope you can find comfort as you sort through the pain.

17.02.2026 12:21 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

One orgasm is just getting started. Let's double it and pay it forward.

16.02.2026 21:13 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

When meeting someone in person, what is the first thing you usually notice?

16.02.2026 20:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0