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she/her; they/them; sie/ihr - but it doesn't really matter anyway tech editor for knitting patterns 🧢 queer and feminist with a long reading list not a woman despite my name www.urbanyarning.com

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Mein Besuch bei The Golden Shop ist schon geplant, liegt eh auf dem Weg zur Stadtbibliothek.

04.03.2026 11:58 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

12. Ein erwachsener Mann sagte im Vorbeigehen zu mir: "Du hast ganz schân große Brüste für Dein Alter." Ich fand das eklig und falsch, denn ich habe mich noch sehr als Kind gefühlt....

24.02.2026 20:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I actually had an updated version of this dream a couple of weeks ago: we had to re-take our school exit exam now, over 25 years later. It was a new rule and we all thought we couldn't do it because there wasn't time to prepare. Fortunately I woke up before we had to go in 😁

24.02.2026 19:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

fortgesetzt: Ich bin davon ΓΌberzeugt, Alena. Die Alternative ist Tod, Tod und Tod. Bis wir irgendwann verstehen, dass wir dazu verdammt sind, zusammenzuleben.""

20.02.2026 10:33 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Morgenbuch 3
Alena Jabarine: Der letzte Himmel - Meine Suche nach PalΓ€stina

Empfehlung!

""[...] Heute glaube ich, dass wir mit ihnen in einem Staat zusammenleben mΓΌssen. In einem Staat. In dem beide VΓΆlker gleiche Rechte haben, Gleichberechtigung in allen Bereichen. ....

20.02.2026 10:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Ein Beispiel: meine - seit etlichen Jahren erwachsene - englische Freundin kann Bluesky nicht komplett nutzen (z.B. persΓΆnliche Nachrichten lesen oder schreiben), weil sie sich weigert, finanzielle Daten fΓΌr die Freigabe zu verwenden (Kreditkarte oder Γ€hnliches).

18.02.2026 09:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The one before this is the one where you asked if we saw your post beforehand which was about your former colleagues. I hope this helps!

10.02.2026 15:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Morgenbuch 2
Lasara Firefox Allen: genderqueer menopause - Navigating menopause for trans, gender-nonconforming, genderfluid and other queer-bodied folx

preparation

05.02.2026 10:56 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Was bei den aufgefΓΌhrten Arbeiten ja auch nicht so auffallen dΓΌrfte πŸ™ƒ

26.01.2026 17:15 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

Garten- und Landschaftsbau ist eine Fachrichtung unter GÀrtner*innen - sie mussten allerdings schon eine Menge pflastern in der Ausbildung. Bei uns (Baumschuler*innen) hießen sie ABC-GÀrtner: Asphalt, Beton, Cotoneaster 😎

26.01.2026 17:02 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

fortgesetzt: "...und GeldstrΓΆme umlenken mΓΌssen. Vielleicht sind lΓΌckenlose Radwege und Wanderwege durch die StΓ€dte nicht so sexy, wie einige sich Hyperloop und Flugtaxi vorstellen. Aber es ist etwas viel Wundervolleres: etwas Machbares! Etwas Echtes!"

26.01.2026 10:47 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Morgenbuch 1 (2026)
Katja Diehl & Mario Sixtus: Picknick auf der Autobahn - Wie wir in Zukunft unterwegs sein werden

"Alles ist mΓΆglich, wenn wir es nur wollen und wenn wir es tun! Andere haben uns den Weg gezeigt, es ist eigentlich Recht einfach, weil wir nur noch kopieren..."

26.01.2026 10:44 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Graphic with a blue background. Several names can be seen in transparent white. In the center above are two large stripes. These read "1 week - 58,000 names." At the top, in white, it says: "The Nazis persecuted millions of people." And at the bottom: "Help remember the victims - because #everynamecounts." The #everynamecounts logo is at the bottom left.

Graphic with a blue background. Several names can be seen in transparent white. In the center above are two large stripes. These read "1 week - 58,000 names." At the top, in white, it says: "The Nazis persecuted millions of people." And at the bottom: "Help remember the victims - because #everynamecounts." The #everynamecounts logo is at the bottom left.

Save the date: January 26! We’re launching this year’s #everynamecounts challenge the day before International Holocaust Remembrance Day. Help us build the world’s largest digital memorial to the victims of Nazi persecution! #StayTuned

22.01.2026 14:45 πŸ‘ 23 πŸ” 17 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 4

"Steinteppich" kannte ich noch nicht

26.01.2026 08:55 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My father also said I didn't need to understand every word to understand the story and that helped a lot.

24.01.2026 23:20 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

That would be worth the fee in any case 😁 I got into reading English books quite early on. My father recommended it to get better at English and it was successful enough that it was noticed by the guy from the state government who checked the quality of our course.

24.01.2026 23:19 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, that's a good reason to avoid it.

24.01.2026 23:13 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

No need to apologise! There are a lot of people on here. I will let you know but it could take a while because I need to convince myself that it's okay πŸ˜‰ but I am willing 😎

24.01.2026 23:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

That is a great idea 😁

24.01.2026 23:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I didn't notice all of it when first reading it because she is good at telling stories. And I stand by that. I am quite angry at her for not using this talent better (this is an unimportant part of my anger but it's part of it). But these books are the ones I could easily give up after a while.

24.01.2026 23:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I don't belong to the people who make a sport from not liking what many other people like, so this is my honest opinion - and I totally forgot about him too 😁

24.01.2026 23:03 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh yes, I borrowed most of Pratchett's books from libraries but the few I have, I'll keep too.

24.01.2026 23:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I tried to read one of his books but I just couldn't. I don't even remember which one it was but I only read a couple of pages - at a time when I was much less critical πŸ™ƒ
And your thoughts sound much more interesting than the book could ever be πŸ˜‰

24.01.2026 20:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, same about not wanting to sell them and hesitating because of the money that's in there. But I know from experience that I won't care so much in a while. It happened with other books I couldn't keep for moral reasons too.

24.01.2026 19:59 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I listened to that one last year, you made me aware that it came out and I told my other friend at once, we both hadn't noticed when you posted about it. Thanks again! And of course, thanks so much for the other recommendations, I am going to have a look!

24.01.2026 19:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Aus aktuellem Anlass der Hinweis: Ihr kΓΆnnt auf Bluesky abstellen, dass Videos automatisch abgespielt werden.

DafΓΌr geht ihr auf β€žInhalte und Medienβ€œ und stellt den Schalter unten im rechten Bild aus.

24.01.2026 15:53 πŸ‘ 447 πŸ” 212 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 9

Das hatte ich vorhin auch gedacht.

24.01.2026 17:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, and I got back into using the library last year, that saves a lot of money πŸ˜‰

24.01.2026 15:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

One of my jobs in my flat this year is to sort through my book shelves. There are some from before my ban of straight white male authors and I think I want to get rid of them but can't bring myself to do it right now. But maybe I can start with a few and keep the others for now (all by N.G.).

24.01.2026 15:53 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe I need to try it. I listened to a few horror short stories in 2024 and they were not that bad. They were recommended by Alexis Hall. So what's your favourite?

24.01.2026 15:50 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0