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Did you know when you make it at home you can add as much gochujang as you want??? No one can stop you

A bowl of rice, shiitake mushrooms, carrot shreds, spinach, mung beans, cucumber slices, topped with a fried egg and gochujang

[ food ]

Now that I don't have to be as nail-bitingly careful about food as before surgery, I'm wanting to pick up some new cooking skills

So I'm working on learning a favourite in bibimbap

The final two blank panels of a meme, showing Amakin Skywalker (circa Episode 2) giving a serious look and Padme looking worried in response

A black and white sketchy comic. The first 3 panels are of Monster Boy laying in bed looking perplexed, with cologne smell wafting from the pillow next to him. He sniffs it and rolls away from the cologne pillow, grossed out. The text below reads: "A thoroughly unsatisfying encounter left a STRONG cologne smell on my linens. I don't know if it melded with my detergent or what..." The next illustration is of Monster Boy holding the pillow tight and huffing it enthusiastically. The rest of the text reads: "...but a couple days later it's changed and smells REALLY NICE. So at least there's that, anyway."

Small comforts lol

Honestly this comic fundamentally changed my reaction to her demanding attention from "baby I'm busy" to "you're right, you're more important" and my life is better for it

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Genuinely it's the closest I have to a "shove in people's hands and urge them that it is important" book

yuuup

A white trans woman with blue hair. A tabby cat named Maddie is in her arms and nuzzling her face

My most demanding coworker

I'm glad I could help. If finances are a barrier to picking up a copy lemme know, I've straight up bought this for strangers before who needed it but couldn't afford.

Yeah. 🫂 I'm sorry. It sucks to see out on paper but was also a kind of relief for me because seeing it on paper meant wait, this isn't the only option?

Crowdfund to buy a copy of this book for every transfeminine person I know honestly

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Take a group of people who
-Have largely experienced trauma in childhood from abuse and/or dysphoria with incorrect puberty
-Are frequently quite neurodivergent
-Have internalized messages about men taking up too much space and made themselves small as a response
-Are scared & want approval

Hey trans siblings

Your existence is not a debt you need to repay to your partner(s), your family, your loved ones or acquaintances.

Any relationship where you are treated as on the back foot, always scrambling to keep up and work "hard enough" to be kept on? Is one you don't need.

Babe you know how torrid prices their t shirts even for the bit it's not worth it

Genuinely want to buy every transfem a book on cptsd

Torrid has a t shirt that says JUST HERE FOR THE TAILGATE and I'm giggling about the idea of scratching the GATE part off and wearing to a furry con

A werewolf in a latex suit transforming and ripping it appart while getting closer to her lover, a hunger in the eye and licking her own snoot.

#Werewolf time for this #TfTuesdaY ? 🐺😳

(one doesn't require cptsd to be trans and vice versa obviously, but boy the pattern I see in a lot of transfem people I've met is a, uh, statistically significant correlation)

Overly apologetic? Eager to please to a self-sacrificial and martyring degree? Neglects himself to care for others? Lonely and yet startled by affection as if he doesn't deserve it?

Yeah bud here I've got some cptsd books and a bottle of hormones for you let's work it out

One must imagine Ralsei happy and on estrogen

Me and my love interest have to fight the enemy... but there was only one mech?!?!

Wufei in Mobile Suit Gundam Wing in his mech, saying 'I don't kill bleeding hearts or women."

sorry it's a day late but happy international women's day

writing a negative-first person novel that is about negative knowledge and makes you stupider

becoming instantly rich thanks to a dedicated internet fanbase

Writing my book from the zeroth person point of view. It's not about anyone and isn't directed at anyone. It's blank inside. It is being praised as the most accessible and least challenging literature ever written

Finishing things is such underrated writing advice. You need to learn your habits and what tools you use not just to have an idea or start a story, but to finish them. You need to get used to it, and then observe how you can do it better. That starts by finishing stories at all.

I love my creative trans friends. We can grab each other by the shirt and growl “Yeah be the weirdo you want to be” at each other.

The incorrect buzzer is silent but still extreme

She Pav on my Lov till I drool uncontrollably