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A forum celebrating and promoting women in the law and their war stories. And occasionally outing stupid sexist stuff. #LadyLawyerDiaries

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Yes. But also—fighting for gender and biologically neutral paid *parental* leave is more important. When paid maternity leave is the only available parental benefit available companies foster “mommy track” promotion and comp paths. That’s not good for women/mothers.

11.03.2026 15:52 👍 9 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0

Power tie 💅

11.03.2026 05:36 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Amazing!

11.03.2026 05:36 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Personally I was always fortunate to stand on the shoulders of various giants, from @pamelasamuelson.bsky.social and Jessica Litman to @marktushnet.bsky.social , but I'm excited to hear people's career firsts!

11.03.2026 01:40 👍 4 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0

🫡🫡🫡

11.03.2026 01:35 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Speaking of firsts, do you feel like sharing which firsts you hit in your career? Do not be shy. This is the time to brag.

10.03.2026 23:43 👍 7 🔁 3 💬 2 📌 1

Super congrats! It is wild that it is 2026, and we are still hitting some firsts, but proud of @maybell.bsky.social for getting that honor.

10.03.2026 23:34 👍 25 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 1
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Happy Monday #LadyLawyerDiaries - what’s going on?

09.03.2026 14:02 👍 5 🔁 2 💬 6 📌 0

The votes* are in—we’re all working.

*there were no votes

09.03.2026 00:39 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Happy International Women's Day to all my sisters who have completely had it with this bullshit.

08.03.2026 21:35 👍 14 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0

Gender pay gap in #law @ladylawyerdiary.bsky.social @abovethelaw.com #lawtwitter #lawsky #internationalwomensday

08.03.2026 16:14 👍 4 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0

How do Lady Lawyers spend their weekend? Drop a line below and let us know!

07.03.2026 18:30 👍 6 🔁 2 💬 6 📌 1

Next week!

07.03.2026 18:29 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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We made it to Friday, fam! Which also means it’s time for #FollowFriday. Drop the @ below of a Lady Lawyer account you think others should follow and why.

06.03.2026 17:21 👍 3 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 1

This week, two different employers told me--totally unprompted--that they wish their interns/externs asked more questions.

Ask questions: It doesn't make you look bad. It makes you look smart and engaged.

06.03.2026 12:56 👍 4 🔁 3 💬 0 📌 0

That’s key.

06.03.2026 17:18 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Let the guys underestimate you all they want.
It's better for your client.

06.03.2026 04:05 👍 6 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

Being a person makes you a better lawyer anyway.

06.03.2026 04:19 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

About ten years ago someone wise told me that I should be louder about personal matters, to embolden younger lady lawyers (and fellas) to take time for their families and themselves. I started telling people I was going to the dentist or taking my kid to the pediatrician instead of a vague

06.03.2026 03:53 👍 12 🔁 2 💬 2 📌 0

It’s a long life in a small town - from my dad. Guard your reputation.

06.03.2026 03:43 👍 3 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

🫶🏼

06.03.2026 03:28 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yummy!

06.03.2026 03:27 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

It’s okay to love the job but understand the job will not love you back.

06.03.2026 03:20 👍 11 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

💯

06.03.2026 03:27 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Even if you feel unqualified for a job you’ve been given/assigned, you’re almost certainly better than any other option. Feeling guilty over not doing/being enough has made me WORSE at jobs I care MORE about. Don’t fall for it, ladies ❤️

06.03.2026 03:17 👍 6 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

Okay, I’ll start. Before making public appearances for your job, make sure you still have that job. #LifeHacks

06.03.2026 03:10 👍 39 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0

I‘m a lady lawyer and my issue is that I am asked to join calls every day. I can’t stand it because I’m autistic. What do I do dear community?

05.03.2026 16:19 👍 4 🔁 1 💬 3 📌 0

If you’re having a lady lawyer issue at work and would like to ask for help anonymously, you can always DM us and we will ask the community for you. Don’t hesitate to reach out!

05.03.2026 16:15 👍 8 🔁 5 💬 1 📌 0

It’s #ThoughtfulThursday! Share a tip that has improved your life, whether professionally or personally. Give a shoutout to a mentor. Or take a moment to reflect on your career and what you’re thinking of doing next.

#LadyLawyerDiaries

05.03.2026 16:15 👍 6 🔁 3 💬 9 📌 1
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If you send us unsolicited links with no context…yeah that’s not happening

05.03.2026 14:07 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0