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Hello good evening and welcome | 28 | long-haired weirdo | absolutely flaming and annoying aromantic-asexual | notoriously (annoyingly) sex-repulsed | crafty pleb | biiiig fan of Tsuga canadensis | she/her

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Listen I always say I’m not a rom-com girlie but I did just watch 27 Dresses and very much enjoyed it so I’m not immune

11.03.2026 03:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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On repeat; especially fun blasting on Kansas backroads

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11.03.2026 01:21 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I get yelled at for saying this but for many hundreds of years people went to university not to get diplomas or be employable but because immersion in the humanities was considered foundational to a good life, and school must return to its original purpose: the joy of learning.

08.03.2026 00:22 πŸ‘ 12709 πŸ” 2768 πŸ’¬ 232 πŸ“Œ 195

Honestly didn’t even clock (hah) that day light savings happened until my coworker mentioned it

08.03.2026 15:46 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I’m a white woman and can’t remember a time when a cishet white male politician actually represented me. I’d much rather vote for a black woman.

08.03.2026 15:31 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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08.03.2026 10:38 πŸ‘ 215 πŸ” 135 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 5
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06.03.2026 21:20 πŸ‘ 12721 πŸ” 4682 πŸ’¬ 22 πŸ“Œ 26

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06.03.2026 23:34 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 15 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Never thought of it this way; I’m down to think like this

05.03.2026 14:01 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Fuck, I'm going to have one hell of a therapy session tomorrow

04.03.2026 02:40 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Oluwande Boodhari: Do you want to live?

(OFMD S01E01)

Oluwande Boodhari: Do you want to live? (OFMD S01E01)

Stede Bonnet: That's a tough question. 

(OFMD S01E01)

Stede Bonnet: That's a tough question. (OFMD S01E01)

happy fourth anniversary to stede bonnet being the realest ever

03.03.2026 18:33 πŸ‘ 149 πŸ” 65 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

In case anyone needs to hear this right now.

Escapism is OKAY. I know every day lately brings another insane headline, but you HAVE to rest your mind.

The human brain wasn't meant to process the overload of information we're used to now.

DO NOT feel guilty for protecting your peace. Ever.

01.03.2026 01:35 πŸ‘ 1296 πŸ” 570 πŸ’¬ 31 πŸ“Œ 23

So we cannot treat it as such. We cannot even treat it as another Iraq or Afghanistan. This is another animal entirely.

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Above all; amplify Iranian voices! I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but most major news networks seem to be ignoring Iranian voices (minus the Islamic republic, which does not speak for the people) entirely.

This is a complex situation with no black and white answers, unlike for example Palestine.

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

D) opinions are going to change and perspectives will too, and we should embrace that
E) this isn’t a partisan issue, both major US parties are looking at this in incorrect ways

And also; I’m still learning about this, but I have some Iranian friends who have been very kind in educating me.

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

A) many are celebrating the death of Ali Khamenei and other IR politicians
B) Iranians aren’t stupid. They know the implications of war in Western Asia. They are cautious
C) diplomatic relations eroded before they even started; which does not excuse war as the next best option, but should be noted

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Iranians but said nothing when the IR massacred its own. Their activism has been selective.

I am a staunch pacifist, and my gut instinct has been β€œno war no war no war,” and I am still uncomfortable with the military involvement by the US and Israel.

However, we must listen to Iranians and know

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Weeks ago, the Islamic republic massacred tens of thousands of its own citizens, torturing them, holding bodies for ransom, and overall terrorizing its citizens for protesting.
It is a regime that must fall.
There are many people right now who are against the war in Iran and decrying the murder of

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Not that anyone will see this but we all have to have a looooot more nuance about the situation in Iran, and that will mean more critical thinking and even becoming uncomfortable with our conclusions.
Iranians have been under a highly oppressive, violent regime for nearly fifty years and just a FEW

02.03.2026 17:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Update update: I am standing corrected because someone has pointed out that the screenshot of the telegram post is false and so once again we don’t know. Honestly, it is equally likely that either the IRGC or Israel bombed the school.

02.03.2026 17:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Listen, we all know, I know, that there’s so much I don’t understand about romantic relationships and never will. There’s just so much to romantic connections that perplex me.

01.03.2026 19:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I mean, if you’re spending a lot of time with that person but still remembering to keep up with your friends and family, that’s one thing. But when you delay time and attention to others because now so much more time and attention is paid to just one person, it can feel a little bruising.

01.03.2026 19:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

People you choose and for as long as you choose, but I’ve always been more of a β€œspread the love around” kind of person. I don’t know if I ever came to connect that strongly with someone that I would intentionally or accidentally become distant to other people I’m connected with.
I don’t know.

01.03.2026 19:21 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

And I mean, being aro-ace, I haven’t experienced that, and I don’t fully grasp why that becomes a thing. Like what compels you so much (attraction, I guess) to spend so much time with this person, especially in like a nascent phase of your relationship. You are of course free to spend time with the

01.03.2026 19:21 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

An odd concept. I mean, I guess I understand it? I understand hyperfixations, but I don’t think this qualifies as it, usually. But it’s such a weird thing to me to focus so much of your time on one person as opposed to others, to the point where others notice you’re paying less attention to them.

01.03.2026 19:21 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Something I’ve been thinking about lately is when people meet someone they click with romantically, and then suddenly all their time is spent with that person, or so much of it. The couple just focus on each other and inadvertently connect less with other people in their lives.
And to me, it’s such

01.03.2026 19:21 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Update: the IRGC admitted on their official telegram channel that they bombed (β€œaccidentally”) the school in Minab.

We need to remember that the Islamic republic is no stranger to waging war against Iranians themselves! And even with the death of Ali Khamenei, yes, a relief, but the system is deep

01.03.2026 19:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
I hope you aren’t drunk and took your staff’s advice, Rashida and I don’t know this man and feel confident he didn’t care about us. Please restrain from drinking too much as you have been warned from your staff and stay off social media when you are drunk. I pray in his holy month you find peace and respect for your self,

I hope you aren’t drunk and took your staff’s advice, Rashida and I don’t know this man and feel confident he didn’t care about us. Please restrain from drinking too much as you have been warned from your staff and stay off social media when you are drunk. I pray in his holy month you find peace and respect for your self,

uhhh oh my god

01.03.2026 08:39 πŸ‘ 26026 πŸ” 4730 πŸ’¬ 573 πŸ“Œ 483
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Alice Augusta Ball (1892 – 1916) was an African-American chemist whose groundbreaking work produced the first effective treatment for leprosy. She died at age 24 before she could publish her findings, and others took credit for her work, but her legacy has now been acknowledged. #CelebratingWomen

01.03.2026 09:34 πŸ‘ 455 πŸ” 124 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 3

Oh yeah each year I get more and more aro and ace that’s for sure

01.03.2026 14:05 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0