Exactly! Assumptions are very dangerous, and I make sure to nip it in the bud ASAP. And if they take it personally and then try to project, itβs a βthemβ problem for sure.
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5β8β (172 cm), 320+ pounds (145kg+), growth season ongoing. Love lifting, learning, writing, eating, cuddling/hugging, anime, tech, music. Open mind, open heart, but remember to beware and be aware. ππΎπͺπΎπ₯°
Exactly! Assumptions are very dangerous, and I make sure to nip it in the bud ASAP. And if they take it personally and then try to project, itβs a βthemβ problem for sure.
New level unlocked. 12 plates per side. Now to get more comfy with it for reps. #mehr #melanin #mutate
Still here. Still around. Still lifting, growing, mutating, surviving. #mehr #2026 #lift #grow #mutate #expand #melanin
Ah okay. Give it one more try.
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No, just an open and honest discussion. Can happily agree to disagree. You have the day you deserve too.
Itβs very related. What am I to do if Iβm supposed to βrelyβ on others and need them and I am completely shut out on all fronts? Needing is one thing; receiving that need is a whole other thing. As a result of not having even the most basic of needs acknowledged or fulfilled, it affects everything.
And if anything, Iβve tried to be there for others and got shunned or told I was unloved and unwanted. So again, some people donβt need βcertainβ people as well.
And you missed what I said. Despite needing each other, not everyone gets that help and have to rely on oneself to survive. Iβve needed people and never got that aid. I did that for myself. So not everyone can have a quote or glittering generality come true for them. And thatβs real life.
But it doesnβt hurt to give added true and lived experiences. Every person Iβve tried to trust or rely on damaged me. Yes we all βneedβ people. However, not everyone gets that help or is seen as worthy. So they have to help themselves and trust no one because the quote isnβt lived up to by some.
Lol. Realistically nah, there will always be a gym for me to fit into. If not, then how would I work out and grow more? Besides, the gym I love going to currently has a chain that opens a bigger and bigger gym each time. So I donβt have to worry about not fitting into a gym for a while.
Aww, thank you. Whatβs crazy is that despite seeing myself expand, Iβve been able to stay around the same weight. Lmao. Itβll be crazy once the bulk truly shifts in.
Indeed I did. And will get bigger over the weekend too.
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So glad that Christmas is over. I never do well with holidays. The workouts were intense but great. Looking forward to more this weekend. Onward and forward. #mehr #melanin #newera #growth #teamnoneck
I wish this were true. But to those of us who struggle just to be acknowledged or treated as an actual human being, weβre left with no choice but to depend on ourselves just to survive. ππΎ
I laugh in general when people have to call themselves or make people call them anything. Itβs all in how one carries themselves so thereβs no doubt in anyoneβs minds and it comes naturally. ππΎπ―
Whatever makes YOU happy. Otherβs opinions of YOU should hold no sway. ππΎππΎπ―
No problem. I know better so I try to do better and ignore the gay hivemind in any way, shape or form. I carry myself online the same way I do in everyday life and would not co-sign bullshit that is to my detriment. π―ππΎππΎ
First, youβre commenting on something/a comment from over a year ago. Second, youβll see by the punctuation that the emphasis is on βkink belonging at prideβ as per the original posterβs post. And third, notice how βBlack Lives Matterβ is followed by a period. Please re-examine/re-assess. βπΎ
You already are powerful and noticeable enough as you are. And to associate an amount of melanin to power or attention like itβs something trivial or to collect donβt vibe well with me. Do the internal work and you wonβt have to worry as much about the external. π€·πΎββοΈ
Still here, still around, still lifting, surviving, growing, mutating. #mehr #greaux #mutate #melanin #flex
Iβve been craving donuts lately too. Or donut holes too, lol.
One of a few goals for sure.
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Did a lot during my birthday period. Including a couple things on my bucket list. But, I never stop moving, never become complacent, and never settle. Got more to share from recently pretty soon. #mehr #muscle #grow #expand #noboundaries #melanin #sweat #flex
This weekend was semi-planned but fully embraced. Some things were spur of the moment and others had been weeks in the making. Either way Libra season and my birthday are both about to arrive and things will get more random, massive, bulky, flex-centric and stylish. Stay tuned. #mehr #greaux #expand
Even though my initial spark for growth/lifting came from seeing them on TV decades ago, I ultimately look to myself as my main inspiration and only competition, and what I potentially will become.