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Avocado and Tomato

@avocadowithsalt

Reblogging and Venting they/he, GenderQueerElder, Vegan for 20+ years. πŸ‘‹πŸΎπŸ©·πŸ’œπŸ’™πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ‡­πŸ‡Ή Pfp is from πŸ“Œ

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I care and celebrate trans women and cis women, transfems, transmascs, butches, studs, femmes, stemmes, and assigned female at birth Androgyne, Genderqueer, Nonbinary, and Intersex people.

πŸ©·πŸ’œπŸ©΅ 🀎🧑🀍🩷❀️

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ ♀️ ⚧️

May they be safe.
May she receive care.
May we be protected.

09.03.2026 06:27 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

06.03.2026 21:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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When I posted to my friends & community group that im at risk to be unhoused, or that I was assaulted and need to meet up for coffee and gentle hugs, and the response is a "like" or 'heart" followed by 🀐 then well obviously those humans gotta be 🚫

Time to declutter the friend & community list

06.03.2026 16:11 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

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"Forcing people into the wrong bathrooms, stripping them of accurate IDs, and allowing government-sanctioned harassment doesn’t make anyone safer - it targets transgender Kansans for no reason and will undoubtedly impact many others who are targeted with animus whether or not theyare transgender,”

26.02.2026 18:53 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Extended: Today (February 26th)is the last day to put your order in. Pick up is on the 28th.

#BlackHistoryMonth
#MutualAid

26.02.2026 13:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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What it's like to be black and transmasculine 'Sometimes you just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and find your tribe.'

β€˜People assume that we’re incredibly butch and macho before we open our mouths. I find this hilarious because me and my bois are very soft and open. Not to say that there is any right way to be trans-masculine but it always brings me great joy to smash that stereotype.’

metro.co.uk/2019/01/24/m...

24.02.2026 13:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜”

23.02.2026 23:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

😑

23.02.2026 23:43 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜”

23.02.2026 23:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜”

23.02.2026 21:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ugh, I have mine scheduled for June.

Did the tech give you water or sometime to recover before you had to exit the room?

23.02.2026 18:26 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I believed healing can happen for people who practice White Supremacist ideolgies, and with that healing it would be safe to befriend one in recovery

That is not possible, for the befriending

The ones who recover in the deepest unconscious level still aren't safe for friendship, acquaintance, yes

23.02.2026 15:04 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a man says " god 's honest truth " in a striped shirt ALT: a man says " god 's honest truth " in a striped shirt

Childhood = your pain doesnt exist

Middle age = pain jokes: "wait until you get old, then you'll feel REAL pain - lolzzzz"

Old = ofc you are in pain!!!

23.02.2026 14:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My girlfriend dying by suicide. To be Black + LGBTQIA is to sadly experience a partner or a platonic friend to die by choice.

Few ppl know how her death changed my life, impacted my own queerness and vigilance about my emotional attractions, + discernment about new friends self care and MH care

23.02.2026 14:05 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm a HSP: Highly Sensitive Person.

I require gentleness, softness, calm, cuddles, naps, slow pace job, routine tasks, and stability.

I give all those to myself while the world sees and treats me as tough, hard, fast paced, "ever-evolving roles", and exposes me to chaos and mayhem. 😬πŸ₯Ή

23.02.2026 13:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Nostalgia: for my life pre-hypervigilance entering it

I'm nostalgic for feeling and also being safe

I long for actual psychological and physical safety

To frolic & talk abt my feelings, interests, and dreams with zero hypervigilance nor fear that the listener will take my words and weaponize it

23.02.2026 13:43 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As an adult, its "you're smart!" (often with a gasp and suprised undertone, followed by distance or berating due to their insecurity.)

Ironically as a child I was called a stupid ass dummy, on repeat.

I honestly rather get compliments that are not related to my intellectual capacity

23.02.2026 13:38 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ‘‹πŸΎ Faucet water inside my home (and a filter) although its not small, people take it for granted.

I've experienced drinking murky water, boiling water, and also walking to a well to get water. Those life experiences magnified my gratitude to faucet water.

*also known as Tap Water

23.02.2026 13:33 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The fact: my physical pains

Why? Because I was repeatedly told that my physical pain does not exist, thats its not possible for me to have pain, that I look tooooo good to be in pain, and that my laughter and moving my body conflicts with my reports of having chronic pain.

23.02.2026 13:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Abusers using the term "protecting my peace" as a means to practice Avoidance after they caused harm

23.02.2026 13:24 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The disease of "Cruelty Dependency", that affliction and its symptoms: individualism, lack of accountability, blame and shame literally harms all sentient beings and the planet.

23.02.2026 13:22 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

For my laughter

23.02.2026 13:18 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

⚠️ "I understand that you need to do self care during the times I am giving you silent treatment. But I don't want you to be silent with me, even though I understand that my silent treatment gives you depression and anxiety"

23.02.2026 02:53 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

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"Your reactivation and response to me being vague is making me feel uncomfortable"

23.02.2026 02:47 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The requests for my unpaid labour is never ending. I have no energy to write, sign, or verbalize "no".

I'm around until he is self sufficient, then I can delete.

I can not financially afford to exist.

22.02.2026 15:41 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’š

22.02.2026 03:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

If you see this, post a princess πŸ’•

21.02.2026 03:25 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

Perfect example of not respecting Indigenous food ways, animal cruelty, and entitlement to comfort.

Vegan liberation is extending compassion to these chickens and the Indigenous folks who may witness a needless slaughtering of these sentient beings.

19.02.2026 14:21 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Slide 1:
there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide

title: green text on yellow background reads β€œMazarae Mutual Aid Meals” with two black stars on either side

body: black text
Lookin to support a Black queer trans household this Black history month? Look no further! Mazarae Mutual Aid Meals is a fundraiser to support a Black QT household! Try out Ghanaian cuisine at an affordable price!

Slide 1: there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide title: green text on yellow background reads β€œMazarae Mutual Aid Meals” with two black stars on either side body: black text Lookin to support a Black queer trans household this Black history month? Look no further! Mazarae Mutual Aid Meals is a fundraiser to support a Black QT household! Try out Ghanaian cuisine at an affordable price!

Slide 2:
there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide

title: green text on yellow background reads β€œMenu” with two black stars on either side

body: black text
Kelewele (spiced plantains): $7.50

Chichinga (2 beef kebabs): $12

Red Red (beans stew with plantains): $15

Peanut Stew with white rice: $15

Collard greens: $8.50

bottom note: red text on yellow background

*All meals are vegan except the Chichinga! Please note that all foods will be cooked in a kitchen with peanut products

Slide 2: there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide title: green text on yellow background reads β€œMenu” with two black stars on either side body: black text Kelewele (spiced plantains): $7.50 Chichinga (2 beef kebabs): $12 Red Red (beans stew with plantains): $15 Peanut Stew with white rice: $15 Collard greens: $8.50 bottom note: red text on yellow background *All meals are vegan except the Chichinga! Please note that all foods will be cooked in a kitchen with peanut products

Slide 3:
there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide

black text on yellow background

Orders can be submitted February 15th-February 19th and pick up will be on February 21st at two locations: The Mission (San Francisco) or West Oakland (both locations are accessible via BART). Order using tinyurl.com/mazaraemeals or using the link in bio.

Order soon! Limited plates available. Payments can be made via Zelle, Venmo, Cashapp, and PayPal (more information provided via the link)

Slide 3: there is a red checkered pattern at the top and bottom of each slide black text on yellow background Orders can be submitted February 15th-February 19th and pick up will be on February 21st at two locations: The Mission (San Francisco) or West Oakland (both locations are accessible via BART). Order using tinyurl.com/mazaraemeals or using the link in bio. Order soon! Limited plates available. Payments can be made via Zelle, Venmo, Cashapp, and PayPal (more information provided via the link)

San Francisco/West Oakland, California

Lookin to support a Black queer trans household this Black history month? Look no further! Mazarae Mutual Aid Meals is a fundraiser to support a Black QT household!

Orders can be placed using this link: tinyurl.com/mazaraemeals
#BlackHistoryMonth #MutualAid

18.02.2026 23:23 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
Endometriosis in Biological Males? Doctor Explains
Endometriosis in Biological Males? Doctor Explains YouTube video by Dr Sermed Mezher

youtube.com/shorts/_W7Dl...

"Many of the recorded cases involved [non trans] men who were undergoing prolonged estrogen therapy for prostate cancer or individuals with severe liver cirrhosis, which can lead to an inability to properly metabolize estrogen."

18.02.2026 19:36 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0