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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…)

@withdownes

Linguist/Language Scientist, Australian, Ace, Newbie Stoic, Ex-evangelical, Climate Change Learner, Ambulatory Wheelchair user with L plates. #ReframingFacialDifference Substack: https://beldownes.substack.com?r=holl6&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

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Latte on oat, little blueberry cake, notebook on cafe table

Latte on oat, little blueberry cake, notebook on cafe table

Currently happening in a cafe I’m in, in a fortunate place, writing a 5 minute comedy set that’s going to be awesome one day
👋☕️🇦🇺

05.03.2026 02:07 👍 5 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Quiet and delicious wandering to the cafe today to meet a friend…

Latte on oat and Vegemite and cheese scroll 👋☕️🇦🇺🐨

27.02.2026 12:38 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I wouldn’t trade it for the world!

26.02.2026 00:19 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

So after galavanting around the neighbourhood for the last week my body has decided that I will not be physically doing anything today.

This is a step up from needing to call community nurses in for wound care after toddling around the house for a day.

I like this progress 👋☕️🇦🇺

25.02.2026 23:39 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Went on hiking poles, for taxi reasons, but I now know I could get my chair in there! The new venue is so much better.

Taking the chair out tomorrow. It’s going really well.

24.02.2026 12:58 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Me at Newcastle Comedy Club

Me at Newcastle Comedy Club

Empty stage and seats at Newcastle Comedy Club before crowd flooded in

Empty stage and seats at Newcastle Comedy Club before crowd flooded in

Took myself out for the night. Lasted longer than I thought I would, now happily exhausted at home.
Great new venue 👋☕️🇦🇺
(Photos before crowd flooded in)

24.02.2026 11:16 👍 9 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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Anthony Albanese has become the first Commonwealth leader to confirm support for removing Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor from the line of royal succession

The PM told Keir Starmer that the allegations against Andrew are "grave" and "Australians take them seriously"

23.02.2026 22:30 👍 41 🔁 4 💬 11 📌 6

Had a wonderful, very ordinary day.

That’s worth celebrating in my book 👋☕️🇦🇺

23.02.2026 08:21 👍 10 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Of course I won’t be logging every day, but this is so much better! I can think (because I haven’t had to think about every single foot placement) and I’m physically tired like someone who went outside and not brain deceased like someone doing a maths-olympiad 🧑‍🦽‍➡️👋🇦🇺

20.02.2026 01:06 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

The people around here, in my local neighbourhood, are too kind and thoughtful… Public transport might be another matter 😎😅😂

20.02.2026 00:19 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Hot new wheelchair Day One:

Got a physical workout coming to the cafe (good)

No wounds starting (yay!) and…

Not completely mentally exhausted from trying to work out where to put my feet one after the other, like I was doing advanced calculus (double bonus)

Got here in record time too (for me!)

20.02.2026 00:11 👍 10 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0

Tick on both! 🚗

19.02.2026 11:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Good, now it’s the USA’s turn.

19.02.2026 10:49 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I like the way you think…

19.02.2026 07:41 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

While I can’t carry it for balance reasons, I can lift it folded into a car boot. Which is a big win. (There is a bag apparently though) I own the chair, my friends own the car boots.

19.02.2026 05:53 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

That’s exactly what I’d thought you’d say! 😎

19.02.2026 04:59 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I think I know already, but what suggestions do you recommend?

19.02.2026 04:57 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It is, and it will be! I’m actually still sitting in it at home… Really should get up at do things 😅♿️

19.02.2026 04:54 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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I bought a carriage… Well at least this is easier to park. I walk at home unaided but this will make things a lot easier when I go out. (Feet are wound free now)

This is my choice and it’s a good thing. I was well over all the wounds after each day out with friends.

Open to nickname suggestions:

19.02.2026 04:49 👍 31 🔁 3 💬 9 📌 0

Whoa! 🤦🏼‍♀️

18.02.2026 06:29 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Fortunately there’s no battery. I’m hoping I can use a self-propelled chair. But I appreciate the questions.

18.02.2026 00:52 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Thanks. Appreciate the reminder!

18.02.2026 00:41 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Wheelchair shopping is wild ♿️

This one I’m looking at online:
“When using the wheelchair, ALWAYS follow the Highway Code…’

No, I’d prefer to fight the traffic and break ALL the laws and possibly several bones /s

Sheesh 😎👋🇦🇺

18.02.2026 00:21 👍 10 🔁 4 💬 4 📌 0

He’s not going to enjoy the independent Australian Electoral Commission then 😎🇦🇺

Cope dude.

12.02.2026 23:43 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

A literal half eaten onion breath kiss of death… 😎🇦🇺

12.02.2026 23:18 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

To be completely honest I’m a little embarrassed that the Australian opposition conservative party (Liberals) are so entertaining.

Happy Spill Day (again) 🥸🇦🇺

12.02.2026 23:15 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I really enjoyed the real Super Bowl half time show… Come get me Congressman, I’m an Australian in Australia.

The world is so tired of your nonsense Republicans, and yes you made it our business.

11.02.2026 00:26 👍 9 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0
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As we agreed Bee… 👋☕️

11.02.2026 00:07 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Going to the place next week - I’ve seen ones I like, but I really actually need to talk to someone who knows what they are talking about and try a few models.

Probably not the best thing to buy on looks alone 🤔😅

10.02.2026 11:30 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I’m going to enjoy not being so high maintenance 😂

10.02.2026 11:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0