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Justin Hancock

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Sex and relationships educator. BISH (website). Culture Sex Relationships (podcast). Doing a PhD. Solution Focused Practitioner (SFBT). justinhancock.co.uk He / Him

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Justin I'm Justin Hancock, a sex and relationships educator, trainer, writer, and coach.

"What difference will that make?
How will you know?
What's better?
What else?"

The kinds of questions I ask in a Solution Focused Practice session. Find out more here! Sliding scale fees (which I'll have to put up soon)

justinhancock.co.uk#coaching

10.03.2026 08:28 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Advanced RSE Training Course This advanced RSE training course is for practitioners who would like to spend some time thinking about of the core themes in RSE in depth

Now booking October dates for this course. I'm in the middle of the March course now and it's going great. Therapists, RSE folk, youth workers, etc. I keep the numbers small so don't dilly dally!

bishtraining.com/advanced-rse...

09.03.2026 20:26 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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What Does the Green Party Really Want? Will Zack Polanski's party become the main political vehicle of the radical left?

In this brand new #ACFM @jemgilbert.bsky.social, Nadia Idle and I examine the Green Party's shift to the left under Zack Polanski and assess it's prospects by looking at both the history of Green Parties and what's specific about our present moment.

09.03.2026 20:47 πŸ‘ 18 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0
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How I've learned that certainty is the thing to really fear After five decades hosting radio phone-ins and debates, Nicky Campbell reflects on the state of public debate

I found this really frustrating to read.

Mainstream media, including the BBC, prioritised the battle of ideas/2 sides argument as a popular means of coverage. This piece suggests it happened accidentally, or even at the behest of those pushed into these scenarios /1

www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

09.03.2026 19:53 πŸ‘ 30 πŸ” 16 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 5
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Advanced RSE Training Course This advanced RSE training course is for practitioners who would like to spend some time thinking about of the core themes in RSE in depth

Now booking October dates for this course. I'm in the middle of the March course now and it's going great. Therapists, RSE folk, youth workers, etc. I keep the numbers small so don't dilly dally!

bishtraining.com/advanced-rse...

09.03.2026 20:26 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's so rare that we see photos like this one of an Iranian schoolboy. Maybe we need to see more of them.

08.03.2026 16:50 πŸ‘ 50 πŸ” 24 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 0

My favourite international woman

08.03.2026 11:03 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Bookshop.org: Buy books online. Support local bookstores. A better way to buy books online. Every purchase financially supports local independent bookstores.

Happy International Women's Day from your favourite International Woman. To celebrate, why not buy a book about medieval women's history, the cover of which will be marked as offensive on this website?

The Once and Future Sex a book by Eleanor Janega - Bookshop.org UK share.google/78MevtXKrK7I...

08.03.2026 09:58 πŸ‘ 373 πŸ” 105 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 11
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Middle East war live: Israel expands attacks to Iranian oil storage facilities [FREE TO READ] Iran targets infrastructure in Bahrain and Kuwait as Middle East conflict enters ninth day

Our live blog on this shit show is up and running again. Just a mounting nightmare - as.ft.com/r/bbc5b47c-1...

08.03.2026 09:44 πŸ‘ 191 πŸ” 62 πŸ’¬ 9 πŸ“Œ 5
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The War on Iran Podcast Episode Β· Ones and Tooze Β· March 6 Β· 51m

Episode #232: The War on Iran

The war on Iran launched a week ago by Israel and the United States is spiraling into a regional conflict with implications for the global economy. Hosts @adamtooze.bsky.social and Cameron Abadi discuss: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/t...

06.03.2026 18:05 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 2
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Advanced RSE Training Course This advanced RSE training course is for practitioners who would like to spend some time thinking about of the core themes in RSE in depth

New October 2026 dates for my Advanced RSE / CSE / #SexEd training course. More details here bishtraining.com/advanced-rse...

Also, if you're an RSE practitioner in need of supervision, I'm going to run a group supervision session on 15th April 10am on zoom. Get in touch if you want more details

06.03.2026 17:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I've listened to some very good Iran war analysis today. This is really good pca.st/episode/7bdf... this is pretty good pca.st/episode/e2a6... this is very helpful www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mv7n... and this is really really good pca.st/episode/49b8...

06.03.2026 15:34 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here's my very lengthy response to the 'young men are being captured by toxic masculinity' discourse. It starts out a bit 'academicy' but scroll for the advice for practitioners and educators bishtraining.com/the-effect-o...

06.03.2026 13:15 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Young men aren't more misogynistic than older men. The prominence of anti-women influencers like Andrew Tate is an artifact of the algorithms og oligarch controlled social media platforms rather than reflecting a change in attitudes or producing a change in attitudes.

06.03.2026 11:36 πŸ‘ 16 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 3
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How Can We Have a Better Relationship With Our Phones? I want to have a better relationship with my phone, so here’s some advice for me and you (if you need it).Β  What do we do with our phones Let’s think about all the different things we do with our phon...

"Let’s be real, when we’re on our phones we are probably not really relaxing. We’re constantly attentive, thinking, clicking, and working. We might be having a sit or a lie down but, we’re probably a bit activated and maybe a bit stressed."

www.bishuk.com/relationship...

05.03.2026 18:37 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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How Can We Have a Better Relationship With Our Phones? I want to have a better relationship with my phone, so here’s some advice for me and you (if you need it).Β  What do we do with our phones Let’s think about all the different things we do with our phon...

"Let’s be real, when we’re on our phones we are probably not really relaxing. We’re constantly attentive, thinking, clicking, and working. We might be having a sit or a lie down but, we’re probably a bit activated and maybe a bit stressed."

www.bishuk.com/relationship...

05.03.2026 18:37 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Can Sex Feel 'Too Good'? Sometimes sex feel a bit too good and we can get overwhelmed. If we are too excited then we can stop enjoying it. Here's how to deal with it

"The key to enjoyable sex is to do it in ways where you can both be relaxed and excited at the same time. This means that at the very first sign of it feeling a β€˜bit much’, you may need to breathe out, slow it down a bit, or try something else."

www.bishuk.com/your-questio...

05.03.2026 08:42 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Migration is part of what makes this country great.

We're not an island of strangers - we're an island of neighbours.

The Green Party will always support fair & managed migration.

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NHS official pushed to add patient data to Palantir platform whilst also advising company

NHS official pushed to add patient data to Palantir platform whilst also advising company

A lobbyist who worked directly for Peter Mandelson, on the Palantir board, and on the board of *four* NHS trusts.

Lobbying the NHS to hand over even more patient data to Palantir.

This absolutely stinks. Get Palantir out of the NHS. Sign my petition:

you.38degrees.org.uk/petitions/st...

05.03.2026 08:50 πŸ‘ 3423 πŸ” 1562 πŸ’¬ 139 πŸ“Œ 73

At this point, honestly, what are "Labour values" apart from a truly sadistic adherence to "hard choices" that always come crashing down on the most vulnerable?

05.03.2026 09:08 πŸ‘ 57 πŸ” 14 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Can Sex Feel 'Too Good'? Sometimes sex feel a bit too good and we can get overwhelmed. If we are too excited then we can stop enjoying it. Here's how to deal with it

"The key to enjoyable sex is to do it in ways where you can both be relaxed and excited at the same time. This means that at the very first sign of it feeling a β€˜bit much’, you may need to breathe out, slow it down a bit, or try something else."

www.bishuk.com/your-questio...

05.03.2026 08:42 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Just catching up with this now. It's really really good.

(These folks must really hate what I do: socialist, materialist, pleasure focused, queer, inclusive, pro choice, pro decrim, feminist, critical sexology, sex and relationships education. www.bishuk.com/support/ )

04.03.2026 18:28 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

This is really excellent expert analysis and well explained and should be part of a public service broadcaster's remit. As it is CPP is another lefty crowdfunded project (that I'm happy to support). If I win Euromillions I'll become the Rupert Murdoch of left wing media.

03.03.2026 23:22 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Nice

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The spike in the gas price (a prime driver of UK electricity prices) is substantial in the context of the last six months, but as the second image shows it isn't a Ukraine war type spike. CONT

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Aftercare What is aftercare, what does it do, who should do it and how? Expert advice from Justin Hancock. All free, ad free and AI free.

It's assumed that it’s the β€˜top or dom’ that does the aftercare, but everyone should offer to give/receive the aftercare. That doesn’t mean that everyone should do the same amount of aftercare at the same time. They do, what I’m going to call, Triage Aftercare.

www.bishuk.com/sex/aftercare/

01.03.2026 13:35 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

It took just one phone call from Donald Trump for Starmer to jump into yet another Middle East illegal war, failing to learn the lessons of the tragedies of Iraq, Libya and Syria.

01.03.2026 21:57 πŸ‘ 2647 πŸ” 784 πŸ’¬ 115 πŸ“Œ 47
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Aftercare What is aftercare, what does it do, who should do it and how? Expert advice from Justin Hancock. All free, ad free and AI free.

"Check-ins can be really helpful, but it shouldn’t replace the care that should happen before and during a scene, or any kind of erotic activity. Care and consent go hand-in-hand, because it’s all about how you make something feel as good as it can all the way through."
www.bishuk.com/sex/aftercare/

01.03.2026 16:39 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Aftercare What is aftercare, what does it do, who should do it and how? Expert advice from Justin Hancock. All free, ad free and AI free.

"Check-ins can be really helpful, but it shouldn’t replace the care that should happen before and during a scene, or any kind of erotic activity. Care and consent go hand-in-hand, because it’s all about how you make something feel as good as it can all the way through."
www.bishuk.com/sex/aftercare/

01.03.2026 16:39 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Quite!

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