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I don’t know how long I have to be here. But I’m getting what I need, and that was inaccessible in Atlanta. I’m privileged to have had the option to move, as hard as it was.

I have a cozy apartment, a cute kitten, and a very sweet boyfriend. I still miss my friends and husband but we frequently hang out on discord and play games together which is nice.

Just remembered I haven’t posted here in a while. Life update: I’m still in New York. Turns out my health is in more concerning shape than I even thought. But I have a healthcare team and we’re making progress.

I’m really mad that I have to learn the metric system if I want to make friends up here

Thank god for the discord server I made for my friends because I am getting so fucking sick of "Meta"

Just need to make some progress in a part of the country that doesn't render me invisible.

Have made the very hard, but necessary decision to up sticks to upstate New York for cheaper healthcare. It's going to be a very lonely time as my husband and our cats must remain here. But I'll be closer to my Mom as I try to speedrun blue state services.

Appetite stimulants were a godsend to us with Ruckus. I hope all her treatments go smoothly. Pls feel free to talk to me whenever

never waste your time on people that just don't like you

good call lmfao

Wow, thank you for this. Becoming disabled has very cruelly affected my ability to get hot and horny. I hope to use this to work back to a sexier place. In the meantime, just going to imagine you topping me 🥵

Can’t stand the people hating on jarlic. Be serious would you rather have some flavor or no flavor

Last night I made a facebook post recollecting a moment in my 20s that I thought was really funny and still joke about today. I woke up to a bunch of care reacts instead of laughs and that's uhhhh not a good feeling

There's these moments at night when my insomnia gets me, I'm just scrolling endlessly and feeling entirely disconnected and angry at every post, and then I have to remind myself that I am lonely and need to talk. But to said insomnia, nobody around to yap at.

DOUBLE INDEMNITY 80
"I'm rotten to the heart."
"Yes, I killed him. I killed him for money, and a woman, and I didn't get the money and I didn't get the woman. Pretty, isn't it?"
#TCMParty #Noirvember

I don't think I ever hated drawing hands when I was learning. I love drawing hands. They are so expressive. But if you hate drawing hands, don't draw them.

I think about this constantly

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i'm a certified bugbear myself

My Aunt Rachel 1945–2023

With trans panic everywhere these days, resurfacing my tribute to my Aunt Rachel Pollack, who I only learned later in life was trans and a hero to many other people theracket.news/p/my-aunt-ra...

Trying not to get sucked into some nasty petty drama, but I’m absolutely spilling all the tea to my lil birb on the Finch app. Look at this guy, you KNOW he loves to kiki

Trying to read more books in light of the reality we are living in. Just finished Tomorrow and Tomorrow andTomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin. Great book.

Yikes!!! Do not leave bed, get as much sleep as possible, and I wish you a speedy and full recovery!

I keep thinking about those congresspeople kneeling in the rotunda wearing kente cloth scarves, very performative. There has been no loud, visible, unified support for Sarah McBride from the democrats. It’s a real disgrace. That is your colleague! They are bullying her in your faces. And silence!

I was happy to move on from a toxic 18 yr friendship but it’s kinda hard when the first thing he does when he joins this app is mischaracterize me as some kind of hysterical lib.

glad LeVar Burton is adhering to the bluesky rules (getting really into DS9)

not surprised but WOW

Obedience in advance is going to kill thousands.