Some days, I don't think anyone actually knows what performative means.
@xoxrevkitty
Host of: CoAc ( @coacupdates ) She/her | ND| 18+ Exploring Autonomy β’ Alt Relationships β’ Psych Topics β’ Social Justice through Fiction β’ Discourse. Advocate | Educator | Blogger | Writer πββ¬ Make ripples, Bubbles and Butterflies. linktr.ee/KHyattProjects
Some days, I don't think anyone actually knows what performative means.
This should be understood. Why do we need to convince you?
Married and non-monogamous. Not currently in another relationship. Met an interesting human last night.
My main WIP centers on a 13-year-old who was being forced into a marriage because in her culture it's a norm.
I had people swearing that it isnβt a thing, and I gave resources.
I originally came up with the idea of the character when I was 13-years-old and child marriage is still a global issue.
There is nothing about this admin that makes sense. When they plan its just about smoke screens, not political strategy that helps the people.
This nation was founded on harm and dehumanization, and people are really starting to understand that the US has been broken since it started. We are honestly at a point where we need to start over.
Breaking cycles because those before me couldn't
it feels like a small thing in context of all of the other things but it is a piece of the larger authoritarian project that there are fewer places to publish essays now and the carefully edited essay as a public form for thinking and responding and criticizing and analyzing is in trouble, i think
Did you know that being a submissive in BDSM does not mean upholding the oppressive power structures of patriarchy?
Its an alternative lifestyle.
We can literally break every other power structure and create our own in our dynamics.
In case you didn't know that.
βIβm not up against the pop girls. Iβm not up against the R&B girls. Iβm up against anti-intellectualism and doing things easy." www.nme.com/news/music/s...
"The system can sustain rage indefinitely."
www.instagram.com/reels/DUgvWi...
Please read Understanding Patriarchy.
When I talk about accountability and snatching your people up by the scruff and setting the right, this is it.
This a message to white people, but its a message of allyship, period.
www.instagram.com/reels/DVbtqE...
βMen make war to get attention. All killing is an expression of self-hate.β
β Alice Walker
βTo be a Negro in this country and to be relatively conscious is to be in a rage almost all the time. β
β James Baldwin
What women are considered classic literature authors?
Yes, I can Google this, but who do we consider Black classic literature authors?
Why are there so many pretty people in the world?
Art everywhere.
10 Strategies for Cultivating Community Accountability
transformharm.org/ca_resource/...
GUIDING
PRINCIPLES FOR
COMMUNITY-BASED
AMENDS civiliansinconflict.org/wp-content/u...
Accountability is not the call-out or call-in. Accountability involves the problem being solved. It involves taking responsibility and using the support offered.
So maybe we can all do a little better especially around the honesty of needing help when we have fucked up, even if we didn't mean to.
When harm occurs, we also have to understand the type of harm and the risks present for bringing external enforcement. Sometimes it's necessary to do so, especially when the community has no enforcementof its own.
If we are, in fact, the community we say we are, then many of our issues can be handled internally without police and government.
Note, to some, this means ignoring it, but community doesnβt ignore problems either. We bring issues to light to help solve them.
When I talk about accountability and snatching your people up by the scruff and setting the right, this is it.
This a message to white people, but its a message of allyship, period.
www.instagram.com/reel/DVbtqEi...
What do you even need to text him for?
I can't imagine how stressed I would have been if I were still in Dal today for the primaries. Never have I ever been happy to be in a small town.
New on my Substack "Writing Out of Limbo"!
kittykithyatt.substack.com/p/stop-writi...
EOD 3/3/26
I have approximate 14 chapters left on the TGA rewrite before I do my next reading through to double-check naming conventions and pronouns, scrap the manuscript for the lore book, and make my final decisions on the ending.
Then I can send it to an editor.
#writing #Readers
It's smart as hell. Can't get robbed. Can't lose the cash. Can use it more easily in other places. A lot of people don't carry cash anymore.
I guess the assumption is that if they are homeless they can't have a phone. Many homeless people work consistently but can't afford housing.