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@thegayfatnerd

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I need a hug from a guy with big pecs or a big belly :(

It rained, then that froze, then it snowed something like 6” in five hours. It was an exhausting night. And my school didn’t close, so after a late night I had to be on the road to school by 5:45 am on roads that really weren’t any better.

20.02.2026 01:15 👍 31 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0
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I don’t drink bourbon from a wine glass because I’m fancy, but because it’s the third glass I tried and the first that the ice cube fit in.

Tonight’s bourbon: Chestnut Farms

02.02.2026 04:00 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Hey, after we butch cosplay, let’s get beers at the Saloon, kay?

30.01.2026 17:13 👍 24 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Statement from Michael and Susan Pretti
Parents of Alex Jeffrey Pretti

“We are heartbroken but also very angry.

Alex was a kindhearted soul who cared deeply for his family and friends and also the American veterans whom he cared for as an ICU nurse at the Minneapolis VA hospital. Alex wanted to make a difference in this world. Unfortunately, he will not be with us to see his impact.

I do not throw around the ‘hero’ term lightly. However, his last thought and act was to protect a woman. The sickening lies told about our son by the administration are reprehensible and disgusting. Alex is clearly not holding a gun when attacked by Trump’s murdering and cowardly ICE thugs. He had his phone in his right hand and his empty left hand is raised above his head while trying to protect the woman ICE just pushed down, all while being pepper sprayed. 

Please get the truth out about our son. He was a good man. Thank you.

Statement from Michael and Susan Pretti Parents of Alex Jeffrey Pretti “We are heartbroken but also very angry. Alex was a kindhearted soul who cared deeply for his family and friends and also the American veterans whom he cared for as an ICU nurse at the Minneapolis VA hospital. Alex wanted to make a difference in this world. Unfortunately, he will not be with us to see his impact. I do not throw around the ‘hero’ term lightly. However, his last thought and act was to protect a woman. The sickening lies told about our son by the administration are reprehensible and disgusting. Alex is clearly not holding a gun when attacked by Trump’s murdering and cowardly ICE thugs. He had his phone in his right hand and his empty left hand is raised above his head while trying to protect the woman ICE just pushed down, all while being pepper sprayed. Please get the truth out about our son. He was a good man. Thank you.

Kare 11 local news just read, in full, this statement from Michael and Susan Pretti, the parents of Alex Pretti.

"Please get the truth out about our son."

25.01.2026 00:43 👍 24924 🔁 12848 💬 200 📌 448
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It’s -17*F out.
Here’s an oldie but a goodie, we’ll call it side fat Friday.

23.01.2026 16:35 👍 276 🔁 17 💬 3 📌 0
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Those trunks are perfection on you

08.01.2026 13:03 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I’m guessing you two tore that center armrest out …. I don’t believe for a second either of you two would have fit in airport seating otherwise. 👀

30.10.2025 12:23 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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Little cutie idiots were pondering if they should keep munching on breakfast or jump into traffic.
I get it deer, same feels some days.

30.10.2025 12:15 👍 19 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Damn!
(To the tube of Chappel Roan’s Pink Pony Club …. Because I can be basic sometimes)
Thick muscle cub!
…. I don’t know any other words to the song so that’s all ya get.

28.10.2025 12:51 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Might’ve put on some weight while on vacation.

13.10.2025 22:11 👍 251 🔁 19 💬 4 📌 0

Big belly and Farm Sim!? 😍

13.10.2025 02:07 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yes, and they’ve been peer-reviewed so we know it’s trustworthy reporting.

Peer reviewed …. I’m funny.

04.10.2025 01:15 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Power day for a fat boy is BRUTAL.
I think I lost 10 pounds just to sweating, sheesh.

01.10.2025 12:07 👍 212 🔁 9 💬 2 📌 0

If it’s the comment I just saw …. Weird is an understatement.

Your progress is sexy AF, truly jealous what a big beefy build you’ve got!

30.09.2025 14:15 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Showing off how much you can grow in two months!
I’ve added an inch!

…… to the length of my hair.
I guess what I’m saying is, I need a hair cut.

24.09.2025 14:45 👍 223 🔁 13 💬 4 📌 0

Ooof, what I wouldn’t give to be rubbing that big tank 🤤

22.09.2025 14:28 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Putin promised grifts!

18.09.2025 20:42 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Your whole back is like, whoah.
Never seen such a big dude with so much muscle definition, really helps inspiring me to get my ass in the gym.

18.09.2025 12:17 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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After the day I’ve had which included spiraling into depression and feelings of hopelessness at the office, you’re a single-serving juice box, Bota Box.

10.09.2025 23:38 👍 14 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I screw up from time to time, deleting everything on Bsky was a screw up. But I’m working on being less critical of myself, and others.

Thanks for listening and putting up with me while I have my dumb bitch moments. I’m working on it.

04.09.2025 16:26 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I’m also a deeply shy and introverted person, and that’s left me feeling isolated and alone.

I don’t know what the future holds, and that’s scary as hell, but I’m moving forward, I’m trying to improve myself, my mental health, and starting a new career path.

04.09.2025 16:26 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I’ve been in a dark place for a very long time, and the loss of my job has pushed things even lower. I blame myself for not working harder, not making myself somehow invaluable. I’ve never considered myself smart, clever, or creative, and this situation I find myself in feels like validation.

04.09.2025 16:26 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I dumb bitched out and deleted everything.

I’ve hit a point where what I want from life and what’s possible are incongruent, and that has me reevaluating everything.

Despite how hard I’ve worked, my career has ended, and that really showed me how much of my self-worth was derived from my job.

04.09.2025 16:26 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Doesn’t the current fit suggest validation of the claim? 👀

19.08.2025 17:23 👍 11 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Damn, that feels way too familiar.
I have to switch my meds, the ones that work amazing and make me feel like a person who shouldn’t just die in the corner alone are also putting me on track to die in an altogether different way.
Mental health blows.

24.06.2025 12:10 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

If you’re in a breakfast mood, Fat Nat’s in New Hope …. Again, not Minneapolis proper, but the portion sizes are generous and the food is great. Lots of Local Bears™️ frequent it. My suggestion, the earlier you get there, the better. They get busy.

17.06.2025 14:08 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

@plushsizedbear.bsky.social and I really like KPot, it’s hotpot and Korean BBQ, it’s all you can eat. It’s in Maplewood, which is a bit of a hike if you’re in Minneapolis proper.
There’s also Sawatdee, a Thai place which is actually close to downtown, and two blocks from The Eagle Mpls.

17.06.2025 14:06 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Same.
Ended up being a “Thanks, I hate it.” Moment.

05.06.2025 12:12 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Abbott can eff right off. From their misleading “HIPAA privacy notice” which ACTUALLY allows them to sell your data if you agree, to the garbage sensors, to the app that you can’t permanently silence alerts if you don’t need them. I switched to Dexcom and I’m not sorry I made the switch.

05.05.2025 21:04 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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05.05.2025 12:30 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0