♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
There are some people in this world that just love to give to others, like me. But something I've learned and would like to share, is that you need to learn how to set a limit to how much you give. Solely because, the takers of this world. Normally don't have any~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
People often come and go in everyone's lives. Some may be temporary; some may be a bit more permanent. That just varies on the dynamic between the two of you. But what is most important about these encounters. Is that everyone should teach you something about yourself.
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
People in pain often fall into 3 states of mind:
😡 They're angry at the reason for the pain.
🥲 They internalize it to not show to others.
🧑🏫 Or they help and teach others about it, so they may not repeat the same instance that caused it.
My question is: Which one are you~?
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Just because someone is brave, that doesn't always mean they are fearless. Everyone is scared of something at some point, and I don't really believe that Bravery is the absence of fear. Instead, what I think bravery is, is when you push forward anyway despite that fear~
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Achieving success may come with some drawbacks like sacrifice. Unfortunately, that's how it is sometimes and it scares a lot of people But I'd like to ask this:
If the cost of success is too high for you,
how much more are you willing to pay for the regret that'll follow~?
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Optimism isn't the key to everything. I know that I post a lot about it. But I understand, that kind of positivity can be toxic if it's not taken with a realistic mindset. Of course optimism isn't the key to everything. But it is a factor to make life feel more worthwhile~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Giving feedback may feel easy. But it's more about how it's said that makes the difference. When said genuinely, it can even be constructive. You don't always have to agree with it. You may not even apply it either. But sometimes, it should at least be worth hearing~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
I often hear from people that, "One day they will be somebody" or "I'll be somebody once I'm successful" Yet they forget that they are already somebody. You're already yourself before you start. Try to never degrade yourself before you get there. That's how doubt comes in~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
It doesn't always take nice cars, clothes, or money to influence people. The legacy you lead isn't about what you have, but who you helped. The real flex is how many lives you can positively impact while you're here. Because that always outlives any material you can have~
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Wishing upon a star can only take you so far. It takes hard work, dedication, and a persistent drive for your passion to reach your dreams. And if by chance it doesn't come out to what you wanted it to be. Well, that's the thing about dreams. You can always have a new one~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
The mind likes to play tricks sometimes. It may lead you to think that success is too far away. But just because something is far away, doesn't mean you can't work towards it. After all, today was far away from 5, 10, 25, even 50 years ago. But you still made it. Good Job~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
In life, I hope that you come to realize sooner rather than later. That some minds just cannot be changed no matter how hard you try to show them your perspective. You shouldn't waste any more of your energy trying to convince a fly that honey tastes better than crap~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Living life is going to be so much better. Once you stop living it for the validation of others. People don't have to like you; they may not even respect you. Heck, they barely like or respect themselves. What will ALWAYS matter, is that you like and respect yourself~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
We live with a continuous mindset that success is, "not that simple." When in actuality, it can be. You see, the body will go as far as you believe it's worth continuing. Just because you don't know how something works yet, doesn't always mean it's impossible to figure out~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
If you live with the continuous mindset that, "It's easier said than done." Then I truly hope that you'll eventually be okay and try something new. Because that sounds like a very miserable way to live. To live cautiously is to live without fun or a sense of adventure~
Sending love right back Risa-chan~♡
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Self-Help books, guides, and even advice given. Is generally written with the implications of helping others. But they'll only help if you choose to help yourself by utilizing that information. Words on a page won't be able to do as much without the assistance of action~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Happiness can be very tricky to explain. It can be felt, experienced, even shared with others. But you are the one who has to choose to be happy in that moment. I know it's easier said than done, it normally is. But you'll never know what you're capable of unless you try~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Expecting something in return for what you give is being selfish. Kindness shouldn't ask for anything when they give to someone. Otherwise, that's just a business transaction, not kindness at all. While it is nice to be given something back, don't always expect it. Okay?
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While being appreciated is nice. You shouldn't make that define your value. Because if that praise isn't heard, or you listen to the ridicule of others. That may cost you more than you could give. And you'll never be happy for being unable to meet everyone's expectations~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Most people think that when they're running empty. That's when they should give up. But I don't really believe that should be the case for every situation. Sometimes, when you feel empty, that just means that you can fill yourself back up with whatever suits you the best~
♥︎Marina's tip of the day♥︎
Real Healing is a very messy masterpiece. With time as the paintbrush and you as the canvas. Some days you're feeling okay, like you can do this. Others it may still hurt like it freshly happened. It's a process that everyone goes through. But I believe that you'll be okay~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Most people don't know what they want to do in life. Kids, teens, even adults too sometimes. You don't always have to have everything in life figured out. And that's what makes it so special. Because that just means you'll have to try and live at your best in the moment~
♥︎Marina's tip of the day♥︎
There's a difference between Perception and Perspective. Perception is how you interpret the world around you that's unique only to you. While Perspective is like observing the world from outside of yourself. The trick is how to utilize both to your advantage~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Do you know why most people don't become who they really want to be? It's because everyone is too attached to who they've been. If that seems to be working for you, that's great! I however, refuse to stay in a state of consistent mediocrity when I know I can still improve~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Failing at something shouldn't be the end of the world, especially your world. Why? Because you should Never allow those failures to define who you are. Instead, you need to let those failures that you experience in life teach you how to become the best you can be~
♥︎Marina's tip of the day♥︎
Life is one heck of a journey. With a lot of twists and backroads and beautiful scenery. But what matters the most is that you have to continue moving forward through it. Even on the rough days where it feels hard to do so, you have to still be kinder to yourself. Okay~?
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
Sometimes, the hardest decision to make and the right decision to make can be the same thing. Life is never going to be easy, so that just means that nothing meaningful in life is going to come easy either. To truly get what you want, you're going to have to work for it~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
The world's greatest love is the love you have for yourself. Because at the end of the day, in your last moments. It is up to you how fulfilling your life was and how much you loved yourself to achieve what you could during that time. Self-Love is the best form of love~
♥︎Marina's tip of the Day♥︎
There's no need to take life too seriously. You're allowed to feel your emotions. You can smile, laugh, even cry or anger sometimes. Just remember, if you spend your life with your nose to the grindstone every single day. All you're doing is shaving off what makes you, you~
