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Eventual published SFF author! #PNW Married Bi Latinx She/They New Mother of 1 ๐Ÿ“– Reading: /12 ๐Ÿ–Š Writing: 0/AMAP

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I'm going to just start a thread that is baby related...

He's tried:

- oatmeal
- broccoli

Currently obsessed with his feet and yelling little roars!

And we think he said Dada this morning while baking in his crib!

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom #SAHM

28.02.2025 17:48 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah I rocked mine for an hour straight once, for his little eyes to pop back open as soon as his head hit the mattress...

28.02.2025 17:15 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That sounds rough!
At least if mine resists, there is only one...

27.02.2025 17:56 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mama Authors!

How old are your little one(s)? And what do you write?
Any tips?

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom #SAHM #AuthorLife #AuthorMom #AmWriting

27.02.2025 17:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One AM wake up...

Pretty sure it's baby trying to digest foods, since we're staying solid! But man, there is a reason mom brain is a thing...

No other time have i survived off so little sleep!

(Gonna try solids earlier in the day)

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom #SAHM

27.02.2025 09:56 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Night Feed!

We haven't had these in awhile and now 2 in the last week. Not sure what's going on...

But we did move him into his big boy crib last night?

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom

12.02.2025 13:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I got to sleep at a decent time last night! Only to have baby:

- wake/self settle at 2 am
- wake/need settled at 4 am
- wake/self settle at 6 am
- wake for a bottle at 7 am

My little guy has slept pretty much 9 30 pm to 7 am since 3 months. So that was hard...

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood

10.02.2025 15:39 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

New tasks:

- wash sheets
- break down bedside bassinet
- break down big boxes
- take to recycling & hope they fit
- decorate corner above crib
- get string lights
- find polaroids with family
- find tiny clothes pins
- ect

And each of those will spawn a new list...

2/2

10.02.2025 07:09 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I swear you do one thing on this never ending to do list & it spawns six or more new tasks...

Crib built & set up in bedroom! Have to wait 48 hrs to use the mattress...

1/2

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom

10.02.2025 07:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm so bad at sleeping! Every night I tell myself I'm going to go to sleep early. So when this early morning feed comes, I'm not so tired...

... and every night without fail I'm up to one cause I want me time!

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom #MomSky #MomCommunity

09.02.2025 16:15 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm so bad at this! Because I know her, she ain't gonna do nothing if I miss this deadline...

08.02.2025 21:29 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Spending part of my morning in bed with my little guy and my husband! Before starting some errands and all the chores...

This is what Saturdays were made for!

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom

08.02.2025 17:45 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The path to success is a squiggle, not a straight line. ๐Ÿฅฐ
#WritingCommunity #goals #success #keeponkeepingon

07.02.2025 03:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 38 ๐Ÿ” 7 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

...currently I read in the dark next to my little one with no place to set a drink.

So no liquid while reading for now!

08.02.2025 04:18 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It might be the whole 4 month regression? I think we're on the tail end of it...

Mine is now self settling, not every time but some of the time. And he's lengthening his wake windows but not his naps. Still rock him, but it's getting less and less.

08.02.2025 04:03 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh I tried!

Because when he wakes at 5 am, he can settle back to sleep but not that first one.

I've been using it as an excuse to read for an hour next to him in bed. This week he didn't wake up every night. So I think he's working on it...

08.02.2025 01:27 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The lack of conservative sleep is a killer!

And yeah, since the regression hit I've been putting him down at night but staying in bed next to him reading. Within 45 to 60 mins he typically wakes up and needs a snuggle, then back to bed until morning.

That started with the regression...

07.02.2025 19:13 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We've started making sure he got a full bottle of 6 oz right before bed, and that helped so much with him sleeping through the night...

07.02.2025 19:10 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is midnight...
Baby has been asleep for 2 hours...
The cat woke him up getting into the window...
Cause another cat is outside...

Kinda mad at everything right now!

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #PNW

07.02.2025 08:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I also give my void punitive cuddles...he is both big mad and loving every minute

07.02.2025 01:27 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean he can...

Just run for office.

07.02.2025 01:26 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Moms that also write books...how are you doing it??

My brain feels like jelly and my *me time* comes in 30 mins chunks where I have to choose to eat, to pee, to rest OR to get something done...

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #MomWriter #MomAuthor #AuthorLife

07.02.2025 01:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mine was slowly going to sleep at 9 instead of 10 (we're a second shift household) and when he did he woke earlier each time.

He's kind of consistent now with 9/10 to 7/8? It's weird right now with the regression and all...

07.02.2025 01:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

He's 4.5 months! Be 20 weeks on Saturday!

He use to wake at 3/5. Went to waking only at 7. And it's back to a 5 am wake up. But he self settles at that wake up now instead of needing a bottle.

I just remember at 2 months I was doing night time feed thoughts. And now he doesn't need those feeds...

07.02.2025 01:13 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Night feeds have turned into early morning feeds...

... and it still feels like I'm getting no sleep!

#FTM #FirstTimeMom #Motherhood #BoyMom #PNW

06.02.2025 17:10 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I forgot to update because life has been a bit of a whirlwind...

#ChristmasGoals Update:

- got a 2 bedroom 2 bath apartment
- brand new couch
- headboard and new mattress
- new crib for baby
- baby sleeps in bassinet through the night
- robe

: and my lovely husband got me a book embosser

06.02.2025 02:07 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's moving day!!

13.12.2024 15:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Choose 20 books that have stayed with you or influenced you. One book per day for 20 days, in no particular order. No explanations, no reviews, just covers.
Day 12
#Books
#BookSky
#BookChallenge

06.12.2024 18:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Choose 20 books that have stayed with you or influenced you. One book per day for 20 days, in no particular order. No explanations, no reviews, just covers.
Day 11
#Books
#BookSky
#BookChallenge

04.12.2024 07:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0