John

Of the people who do get my messages, its being sent as RCS, which is strange since they also have iphones

My phone has been weird too... the iMessage on my iphone no longer works and hasnt for over a week, and it feels like people who normally respond to me arent responding?? strange.

I love it 😍 hope you get alot of hump interest

Im already spoken for that weekend in vancouver, but you’re high on my list, will catch you when you come back ❤️

I agree, and that’s totally fine. I’ve definitely met some who don’t actually date outside of the job, because the men treat them better in the client space, but others keep it totally separate. I’ve become friends with a couple of former companions though so that is awesome :)

so i'm just like 'whoa, the #'s have dropped substantially".

Pretty substantial drop!! I've been so busy seeing someone for a year that I haven't really done much of a deep dive on active companions, but with the transition here to Bluesky, most of the companions I used to follow have dead X accounts and havent moved here,

looking at the # of pages has dropped alot within the usual search parameters I use. Not to say that there is 'slim pickings' by any means, but I once had a list that was like 15-20 long of companions I want to eventually meet, and now, of the active ones advertising, i'm down to maybe 3 or 4?

yea, I was looking up some companions off another companion's website, and literally every single one of them have dead websites, or websites that haven't been updated in over a year, and aren't visible on any ad site, and there was like 8 listed on her site. And even on Tryst,

Is it me or has the # of active companions in the vancouver area dropped a ton in the last six months? Are there only a select few holding out?

Im so glad you’re not taking it personally, i know this stuff has caused alot of stress for you before! So glad to hear you are handling it better. It doesn’t make the actions of these guys right, but its important to not let these guys rattle anyone

Im getting tired of these review boards personally. One section of perb is now domimated by these old farts who clearly have no respect for women or the service providers, and the language used and the way they talk pisses me off, and this is coming from the client side

I think the most misunderstood thing about men is that sex isnt the primary goal of our love or interest in women.. its being seen, feeling safe with our emotions, being respected and sharing wonderful life experiences together. There’s more joy in that than simply having a romp

Oh boy...

They all brought a different benefit to my life. So when I grieve the loss of a particular person, im grieving the loss of that person, and what they bring to my life, and im not going to find that experience again. Thats the truth

Im a big believer that there is no such thing as “better”, that instead, we find other connections that offer a different perspective and a different connection, but there is no comparison. Of all the connections i’ve ever had with people, especially lovers, not once would i compare any of them.

When you meet someone and that person uniquely brings you certain benefits and enjoyment to your life, when they leave your daily presence and the connection changes, oftentimes, you’ll hear “you’ll find better” or “you’ll find someone that meets what you need later on”.

The shared intimacy, the connection, the fun date nights, its all amazing. And i imagine it feels incredibly special to the companion as well if the connection is solid

I wish i could talk to someone in this industry about the recent heartache and pain im going through. So much has changed in the last 30+ days and i feel so alone :(

Invest in someone else for awhile. I’ve put myself out there for more than 2 years only to end up back to the same place. Everytime i finally feel happy and feel full of life, something happens and its exhausting, mentally taxing and exhausting.

Invest, i will do everything to make her feel happy and appreciated, and all i ever want is a chance for that connection to be long lasting. I am totally okay with the container that exists in these relationships, but i still will care about them. I just don’t know if i have the energy to full on

It’s tough as hell. I don’t mind the transactional nature of what im getting involved in, the benefits far outweigh the costs, but real connection building is still my priority. When i connect with a companion long term, ill treat her like id treat anyone i care about. I will give warmth, i will

The more depressed i tend to be. I just want things to work long term, and i want to find someone i can thoroughly build a connection with long term, these one year bonds start to get to me, because it takes a year to fully connect to someone… so to do it all over again just once its peaking

Life has taken a turn the last 30 days… things rarely turn out to work in my favour, and this idea of “find the next” person is always interesting to me.. how many “next” people are there? In theory, billions, but sometimes, i just want stability and consistency, and the more inconsistency i find

The easiest solution is to hire a SW’er as mentioned above. If your goal is to find a “unicorn”, yea that will likely never happen ethically

I was there once, now im 6 digits in debt 🤣🤣🤣 but my desire for connection and intimacy supercedes my desire to rid my debt 🤣🤣 i hope you enjoy it! Being debt free is the best thing ever❤️

Fun fact: Rates are non negotiable and seeing a provider is a luxury not a right. If you can’t pay, don’t do it.

This sounds like a fun idea just to do with your part-time BF, just to get the acknowledgement haha

Im planning another trip to MTL in the late summer, it might become a yearly tradition for me :D

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