lydia (writing irm and many other wips :'3)

i know thats real i know thats right (also poor lil old man losing his teeth. hes just a BABY!)

i'm so so sorry friend, that is so unbelievably hard. thinking of you.

i love u hasan as drawn by looth

happy international women's day to trans women everywhere. 🏳️‍⚧️🩵🩷🤍

it is a tiring time of year for Sure, i feel that

a grainy picture of pikachu gasping or smiling

hi everyone. how are you? :3c

a digital collage with a pink, purple, green, yellow, and teal gradient overlaid on all the images. the images include a horse carrying a bucket, a cluster of mushrooms, a grub, a birds talon, a cicada, five spiders, two flower buds, a hand with an eye over the back of it, and a microscope slide of atoms. there is white text that reads "get weirder or die miserable." the background is black and there is a slightly grainy texture

get weirder 🫵

so glad u like it wheeeeeeee <3

it's steddiethan but i think the ship name for jonathan/eddie is flashfire so i think their name should be kingflashfire or somethin like that ! :3

LOVE this btw

writing canada winning the gold medal in the final game at the olympics in my hockey rpf just to feel somethin

LMAOOO

can massive government powers stop being fascist for a sec? i would like to time to read my friends' perverted, queer little fanfictions

Jayce Talis and Viktor in a sparsely decorated room with an iron-framed bed. Jayce sits on the bed while Viktor sits on a pillow on the floor between Jayce's legs. Both are sparsely dressed - Jayce is nude, a blanket pooled in his lap. Viktor wears a simple dark robe, which hangs open. Jayce is brushing Viktor's hair from behind, while Viktor tilts his head up, eyes closed, with a satisfied smile. He is a kitty :)

Our new home by the sea 💙🩵🤍 #arcane #jayvik

A drawing of wives Anna and Allyson embracing and holding hands. The pair are coloured in a limited pink palette. Anna, the taller of the two, wears grid patterned short sleeved shirt, trousers and trainers. Her light hair is short with a small curtain parting to the side. Allyson wears a striped hoodie, black waistcoat, trousers and laced boots with a jacket tied about her waist. Her hair is also short but without a parting. The decorative frame behind them consists of succulent plants in a green colour palette.

🪴Anna and Allyson 🪴

Another Valentine's commission, this was for Anna for her wife :^)

we love you local library!!!!! we love you libraries with blu ray players!!!!! we love you libraries with seed libraries!!!! we love you libraries!!!!!

a screenshot of an article with the headline 'Libraries across Canada and US are offering unlimited downloads of 'Heated Rivalry e-books and audiobooks with a byline: The Toronto Public Library is the latest to make the "Heated Rivalry" audiobook available without a waiting list, thanks to a licensing option from the publisher' with a photo of bookshelves underneath it

everyone say thank you local library, we love you local library! :] (my library does this too)

no thinking about the recovery time u will need instead is very very wise love that

Lunar New Year Art of an elongated tiger creature with mandarin oranges. There is a red envelope in the middle with the Mandarin character for luck/prosperity.

🏮Leading up to Lunar New Year festivities, I'm bringing back the ones I did for prior years!🏮

🧧 祝你好运 🧧

this is sooo cool and real of your local library bc blu ray dvds have much better longevity than regular dvds but so many ppl do not have a compatible player.

love that. love your local library. love thing libraries. YEAH

i cant remember when i first came up with it honestly but there are 🥲 always 🥲 dishes to do

but i really really hope this helps you make things clearer!! <3

body scans are soo helpful yes yes yes < 3

before undertaking any activity i would love to know what they are 📝 do you have a 'would i be able to stand for 30 mins and wash the dishes' question or test or threshold? tysm! <3

so i am here with love and solidarity to say we need to listen to our bodies and advocate for ourselves, lest we end up in a spoon deficit / pain flare up that is hard to come back from, especially as we age.

but yes if any of you have! spoon gauge questions that you ask yourself

and i did just want to add that i have very rarely regretted listening to my gut and respecting my decades worth of experience. almost all of the time i've said no, someone has reported back to me and said 'you were so right, that would've been way too much for you.'

but hopefully next time i'll be able to go in some way, either with modifications, or do something similar. so my question to you is, do you have a spoon gauge, a litmus test, some kind of question you ask yourself before you are totally overworked / in pain / exhausted / struggling with a flare up

if and when i need to? / if i need to go home can i do that with relative ease? etc etc etc. sometimes, after all those questions are answered i will still go, but often if i know that i can't stand and wash the dishes for 30 mins after i get home

then i have to say no to that particular invite

would i be able to stand and wash the dishes for 30 mins after i get home?

if the answer is yes, then i will most likely go. if the answer is no, then i have to factor in other things. am i working the next day / did i sleep well the night before / will i be able to take breaks

time of day / whether or not i'm working / if i am dealing with a flare up from one of my chronic illnesses etc etc etc.

but my spoon gauge if someone invites me to do something (like go to the dog park, for a long walk, go to a concert / festival) is this:

also, to my fellow disabled friends & follower beloveds, i would love to know, what is your spoon gauge? for transparency, i am disabled and have cerebral palsy which means my body has hard limits on what it can and cannot do. these limits are impacted by a myriad of factors including weather

if! if! if i were to ever finish this hockey rpf i am writing would anyone want to beta read it? i Love rae forever and ever but i would not want to subject my beloved dykette to the horrors (tm) of hockey rpf