nailed it ✅ 🎃

Acknowledging your teeny, tiny trauma recovery "wins" at the end of the day is not some feel good "participation trophy" bullsh*t. It's how we reinforce & build recovery supporting habits in our nervous system, & also how we track what is & isn't working.

Let’s see if anyone asks if I’m selling my broom on walk home lol

God that was terrible. There’s a huge conference near target but I NEEDED silverware so I can eat.

Just breaking in my new apt bathroom lighting as one does ;)

Trauma recovery is not "just letting yourself feel." Survivors often feel things at 1740% intensity.

"Letting ourselves feel" isn't the problem-- the problem more often is we've been left to feel overwhelming sh*t w/ no support or tools to realistically process or metabolize it.

I am straight up not having a Baja blast rn. Shit has hit the fan entirely & I just really want to buy myself a treat today.

I am… uncomfortably horny rn

Just like the way I look these days 🤷🏼‍♂️

Okay where tf do yall get your jeans? This happens like after 6 months no matter where I get them. Help me! I’m too poor for all this 🍑

The way my watch just asked if I took a big fall because I’m trying to mute my laughter watching Freakier Friday by slapping my leg 😂

I’m so tired of being so broke. I fucked up. I’m about 250 in the hole til the first since I don’t get this fat check for the festival til god knows when. I’ve got $11 in food money til the 2nd & no food lol.

That was gonna be my guess lol

Swapped. Stopped. Suppose.

a woman in a purple shirt is crying and making a funny face ALT: a woman in a purple shirt is crying and making a funny face

@foodfortheangels.bsky.social angel!!!! You literal angel!

Felt really hot last night. Too bad dysphoria ruined it & left before I got name suggestions.

there was a time when we had no shortage of spaces for young artists, fringe artists, queer artists, to set up shop but now?

there's plenty to be said about this, but it will never not piss me off that we have soooo much wealth accumulated in SF yet we're all still struggling to keep lights the on

Gonna be couch surfing come August & low key wanna just get rid of everything I own except my bed & like 2 weeks worth of clothing

This thread has given me so much serotonin thank you bluesky! ❤️

moaning “im gonna cum” during sex but pronouncing cum like I would for cum laude

Well, I finally slept. Like 2:30am-4pm. Only woke up at noon to pee & feed my son. I needed a place to myself to not think about anything for so long.

Just a sliver

Drag performer taken by ICE, morning after Pride Week pageant - 48 hills HIlary Rivers was detained during a scheduled immigration appointment in downtown SF after Miss & Mr. Safe Latino Pageant.

We need answers—now. Where is our sister Hilary Rivers? ICE took her the morning after Pride with no warning, no due process, and no communication. This is not justice—this is kidnapping. We demand transparency, accountability, and her immediate release.
Read more: 48hills.org/2025/06/drag...

People who actually love you don't expect you to sacrifice your safety, stability, or authenticity as the price of admission to a relationship with them.

Love cares about how you feel & function.

Well, powers out on multiple blocks. On the plus side, we don’t have much in the fridge?

I do not understand loud and proud transphobes. if I was a creepy weirdo who was obsessed with the genitals of strangers, I would take that information to the grave.

When you’re writing smut and you’re running out of ways to describe dicks and cum

So gd exhausted & run down. 🫠😩 but Oliver is alive so there’s that