This video idea will come to fruition but delayed bc life *gestures to everything* but stay tuned!
This video idea will come to fruition but delayed bc life *gestures to everything* but stay tuned!
These guys are insufferable. Even if theyβre just doing it for money and donβt actually personally believe in this BS, pushing the ideology for profit is just as bad if not worse
Watching the Netflix manosphere documentary. Jesus
As someone who had a celebrity crush on hugh jackman I might need to make a falling out of love with video about him
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π‘ it takes a village, but what happens when your village is toxic?
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maybe thats part of US car propaganda.
but to see bike riding without helmets as so common and possible, it blows my mind a bit bc ive been taught to see bike riding as inherently dangerous and unsafe
bc it makes biking seem dangerous, more dangerous than driving even, and it then deters people from seeing biking as a mode of transport. 'you could die on a bike!' was a thought put in my head to just never try riding a bike unless it was in a controlled area
and in the U.S. as a kid with bike safety we're taught to always wear a helmet ofc, but i think the safety training went too far.
i was watching some videos about japan and how bike culture is really big there, and in a lot of the world people ride bikes as a mode of transportation, but no one uses bike helmets (at least theyre not that common)
in drake voice: "God's war, God's War God's War"
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The future includes trans people period
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ποΈ it takes a village, but what happens when your village is toxic?
new video this weekend diving into parent child estrangement, parental entitlement and toxic villagers
This is the next video topic btw
Parallels ποΈ
βI see youβre struggling now and Iβll step upβ a vice versa NOT βmy struggle is worse than yours help me nowβ
Making the village transactional (I wonβt be there for you if youβre not there for me) turns it into βwho has it worseβ rather than βI acknowledge your struggle and you acknowledge mineβ
Not saying that those without kids donβt deserve a village either or that their own struggles are less than those with kids but rather that the saying is βit takes a village to raise a childβ hence the village stepping up to raise the child
Without expecting the same friendship or relationship pre baby. And if you want to cut off a friend bc they had a kid and you canβt relate anymore thatβs fine but donβt pretend itβs because βtheyβre not a villagerβ when they just became a parent
WITHOUT THE EXPECTATION that theyβll be 100% there for you in this very vulnerable time in their life
But if you are childless and have a friend with a child (and you consider yourself a villager) you should be stepping up and helping and caring for your friend and their newborn
I do get that before if they werenβt engaged as a friend or family member fine, maybe they were never part of a village to begin with
How do you expect new parents to be villagers when theyβre not sleeping at night? When theyβre with a new born? It makes no sense to me
But my issue with it is that it frames the village as wholly transactional. You get what you put in, when it shouldnβt necessarily be like that. New parents for example need a village bc they have babies and toddlers
And I do think thereβs a lot of entitled parents out there and when itβs your kid youβre biased bc theyβre the center of your world but not to others etc
The argument is that the parents expect a village without being villagers aka not nurturing the relationships with those around them and thus they are undeserving of the village bc theyβre not pulling their weight
Just my own thoughts but Iβve been seeing an interesting argument when it comes to opting out of βthe villageβ when it comes to new parents needing family and friends to step up
Watching Horton hears a who (2008) and god itβs bad