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@alienwife99

Headteacher 17yrs, teacher 35. Lover of family, The West Wing, Star Wars (original trilogy obviously), musicals, Iceland and reading.

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You’ll know when it’s time. Everybody told me that, and they were right.
I’ve stood alongside the LA and against them. I stand for the child, nobody else. Doesn’t always make you popular!

08.03.2026 21:17 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

As I move away from Headship (I have 66 more term time days in school) I’m using “what are they going to do, fire me?” more.

08.03.2026 13:42 👍 20 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I remember some pretty freezing winters and struggling to walk up Bank Road and Rutland Street to halls from town. Glorious views from Rockside which was halls of residence then.

07.03.2026 19:45 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Didn’t know you were Matlock. I did three years of my teacher training there. Very fond memories. Love the Peak District - we made a flying visit at half term.

07.03.2026 19:31 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Death wish!

01.03.2026 10:37 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

That’s got to be AI.

28.02.2026 19:56 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Me too! In a restaurant having an evening meal out with my husband was my best one!

27.02.2026 08:56 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Slipping Through My Fingers
Slipping Through My Fingers YouTube video by ABBA - Topic

I’ve gone a bit more melancholy than most today! It’s back to Abba again. “Slipping through my fingers”. They grow up so fast …

#FebMusicChallenge26

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26.02.2026 18:02 👍 7 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0
Lilac Wine
Lilac Wine YouTube video by Elkie Brooks - Topic

Secondly, Elkie Brooks with “Lilac Wine”. What a voice.

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25.02.2026 18:47 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
If
If YouTube video by Bread - Topic

After missing a couple of days I’m going for 2 today.

Artist as food - Bread with “If”, a simple little song that makes me cry (doesn’t take much).

#FebMusicChallenge26

youtu.be/n-cK70DXsSA?...

25.02.2026 18:47 👍 3 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0

Ha! I’m not sure there’s a market for what I really want to say!

23.02.2026 16:04 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Give TAs high quality training and pay them better so we attract and keep good staff.
Prioritise early intervention in EYFS and KS1 with significant additional input so we stop firefighting in older years.
None of this will be enough without societal change. Schools cannot do it alone.

22.02.2026 21:57 👍 15 🔁 3 💬 1 📌 0

Where we should all be working together, now we’re too often pitted against each other.

22.02.2026 19:41 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Persuasion is harder than ever, & yes, “I’m a good parent because I’m doing this” is prevalent. Parents *should* advocate for their children, but it’s gone beyond that.

ChatGPT has a lot to answer for, as does the CoP, & every politician who’s talked up parent power & down our professionalism.

22.02.2026 19:39 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

So much truth in all this, Michael. I’ve stood alongside parents as they fight for what their child needs, and been frustrated by parents who berate us because of their perception of their child’s needs which doesn’t match what we see in school. I don’t know how this gets solved.

22.02.2026 19:04 👍 5 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

You know there won’t be any. If they really want to solve the problems they need to listen to the people on the ground who know where the money needs to be spent.

22.02.2026 18:09 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

And I know how much you love a trip to the dentist 😱

22.02.2026 16:38 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yep, that’s our line every time. Adaptations are in place, there will be nothing else unless the situation changes. Some parents are quite grumpy with us about that.
We only apply for EHCPs when they’re really needed.

22.02.2026 12:08 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I don’t disagree. One of the problems we are currently facing (and we have well over double the National percentage of EHCPs) is that parents of children who are finding literally any learning a challenge do not accept that adaptations *are* support.
They want plans and adults.

22.02.2026 11:44 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

The who is a total minefield now and will remain so. Where is the line between needing some basic adaptations in learning ie what teachers do day in day out, and needing that formalised?

22.02.2026 11:35 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
One Day More
One Day More YouTube video by Release - Topic

The perfect ending to an Act 1 of a musical. It builds and builds and I’m a sobbing wreck!

#FebMusicChallenge26

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22.02.2026 10:45 👍 11 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0

Lewis Collins - Bodie from The Professionals.

22.02.2026 07:56 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Exactly. So much needs to change in education if good staff are going to be recruited and retained.

21.02.2026 23:34 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I loved Dallas! Watched it religiously.
Wasn’t really aware of Rob Lowe in my youth.

21.02.2026 23:33 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

For me it’s never been about the pay, it’s all the other stuff you mention. It’s the things that grind you down & keep you awake either way worry.
For heads of very small schools where they’re not earning much more than a top of scale teacher, pay might not seem worth it for the stress.

21.02.2026 23:31 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Drop a crush from your youth

21.02.2026 21:29 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0
David Bowie - Life On Mars? (Official Video)
David Bowie - Life On Mars? (Official Video) YouTube video by David Bowie

Second:

“It's a God awful small affair
To the girl with the mousey hair”

Life on Mars by David Bowie.

Completely intriguing from the get go, and still no idea what’s going on by the end, but beautiful in its weirdness.

Also AlienHusband’s favourite song.

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21.02.2026 20:45 👍 7 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
The Alan Parsons Project + Turn Of A Friendly Card Part I & II
The Alan Parsons Project + Turn Of A Friendly Card Part I & II YouTube video by The Classic Rock Show

A bit late to the party tonight, with two choices.

First:

“There are unsmiling faces and bright plastic chains
And a wheel in perpetual motion”

From The turn of a Friendly Card part 1 by The Alan Parsons Project.

It just summons up all sorts of imagery.

youtu.be/L7vyHrT-rsc?...

21.02.2026 20:45 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

Me: Let’s visit the farm shop.

Also me: There’s absolutely no way I’m paying £5.50 for a jar of jam or chutney.

Me 2 minutes later: Oh, 2 for £10.00. Ok then.

#HolidaySpendingDoesntCount

20.02.2026 10:03 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Are already taking.

20.02.2026 08:54 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0