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@nandortheelf

Just an autistic guy, trying to do the right thing. Yes, I do know better than you. He/him.

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Yeah, I´ll bow out now.
Parting words: women are more than the parts they´re made of. It´d be good for you to find a way to understand that.

Goodbye now 😊

10.03.2026 13:00 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

As explained. I´ve done all the heavy lifting in this conversation, so it´s a bit weird you´re being all smug about your lack of effort and intelligence.
But hey, that´s terf life 🤷🏻

10.03.2026 12:58 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Yep, you´re that simple.
Good to know, thanks 😊

10.03.2026 12:56 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I don´t understand the question, because I´m from a modern country that doesn´t deal with checks anymore.
You can either explain what exactly it is you want to know, or be simple enough to take my non-answer as confirmation for whatever you believe.
... that´s probably how you came to be a terf.

10.03.2026 12:54 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

... is that a question for me?
If so, what exactly are you asking?

10.03.2026 12:49 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Oooh, you mentioned autism. I´m sooo burned.
Meanwhile, women continue to be more than baby-making machines. Oh damn.

10.03.2026 12:29 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Imagine having your gender brought down to ´vaginal lubrication´.
Great grip on what makes someone a woman, there. Stellar 🤣

10.03.2026 12:26 👍 16 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 1

While this won´t work for everyone, it did for me.
I still see all the mistakes, but no longer comment on them.
In my case, it´s because I began working with people learning to read and write (and speak and understand) our language, either from illiteracy or immigration.

10.03.2026 09:52 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Damnit, new rabbithole unlocked.

10.03.2026 08:29 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

You keep arguing with autistic voices, instead of listening to them and reflecting.
I wish you much growth in your future.

And so we end, right at the start.

03.03.2026 19:04 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Oops, didn't think about that!
Sorry for poisoning the well. I'll let them be now, and hope they'll start listening to more voices.

03.03.2026 17:22 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

And we're back to putting her on a pedestal.
If it's widely used, she MUST know it. If she doesn't know it, it CAN'T be widely used.

That's not how this works.

03.03.2026 17:21 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

21 hours is not enough.
That's it. That's the point.

03.03.2026 17:20 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The point stands.

03.03.2026 17:07 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

If you are trying to learn, be open to people saying things you don't agree with/don't understand yet 🤷‍♂️

03.03.2026 17:07 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

And that is the right step to take.
I'm a random guy on the internet, my voice doesn't weigh more than any other. Get your information from real life autistic people in your area.
Then draw conclusions.

03.03.2026 17:02 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I recognise others use it in that way. That's their right, and maybe someday they can reclaim it the same way 'queer' has been reclaimed.
Doesn't negate the fact the other use is also valid.

03.03.2026 16:55 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

21 hours is not enough.
That's it. That's the post.

03.03.2026 16:53 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

👍

03.03.2026 16:47 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Your research to date is very lacking. I've given you tips on how to improve that. You say the research you've done is quite enough.
I can't help you further.

03.03.2026 16:47 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I'm trying to help you (and really, mainly trying to help the autistic community by helping you understand us). You clearly don't want my help.
You want to be told you're right, and I can't help you there 🤷‍♂️

03.03.2026 16:46 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Once you do more research and listen to more autistic voices, you'll understand my answer.
It's okay not to get it yet. No one does in just one day. Learning about autism is a journey, not a sprint. Enjoy it!

03.03.2026 16:45 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I'm just telling you to do more research and learn from other voices, rather than feel you know better from the start.
I don't think I can say it any more plainly.

03.03.2026 16:43 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I like accurate terms. Continue your research and then come to conclusions. You seem to do this the other way around, and that doesn't promote open learning.
Do yourself the favour of going about this in the right order. If you really do care about autistic people, you owe them this.

03.03.2026 16:36 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Great choice! Keep learning.
Be sure to contact autistic-led support groups 👍

03.03.2026 16:35 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

So... less than 24 hours. Yet you still seem to think you know better than people with lived experiences and 20+ years of knowledge on this subject.
And you see nothing wrong with that?

03.03.2026 16:34 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

No, I'm trying to provide you with some insight and help you on your way to learning.
I've already put in too much effort though. It's clear you're not willing to listen to autistic voices, instead focusing on 'allies' and their experiences.
So we're back to how you'd be a great autism mom 🤷‍♂️

03.03.2026 15:36 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Right, and I answered that question: you´ll never find a group so self-absorbed and blind to the public perception of them as autism moms.

All the research you did was today and online, right?
Do you believe that´s enough data to go on?

03.03.2026 14:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Don´t read things into my words that I didn´t put there.
Every single person on earth lacks knowledge. There is not one person on this planet who knows everything.
That´s a fact of life, and not a dig.

She lacks knowledge on this section of autistic experiences. I lack knowledge on submarines.

03.03.2026 14:46 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

That would be the rules for a good-faith discussion, which is not what we´re having.
So far, I (and others) are trying to educate you, while you stamp your feet and keep repeating "I´m right!" until you´re blue in the face.

That attitude doesn´t warrant ANY extra effort from me.

03.03.2026 14:40 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0