dare sayer

The feminist culture writer to unwitting throuple defender pipeline

My friend’s dad developed a terrible drinking problem coming here daily when they lived in Burbank. Dudes rock

Imagine having garden roses, hydrangeas, and ranunculus in the house. For one local woman, it came true.

A side effect of reading a detective novel is that you begin narrating your own life.

God I love purchasing products

Something about a wrap dress makes me feel like a Business Woman going From Day to Night

I have face blindness with this one guy, an acquaintance’s husband. I previously introduced myself to him multiple times (including at my birthday party they came to 🥴). Every now and again, my husband will hold up a picture of him and I’ll squint and go “Is that Adam Richman?”

My boobs came up in conversation two different times at work this week. Which isn’t a lot but weird that it happened twice

Three-night minimum stays should be banned. Four-nights… punishable by firing squad

Linda Cardellini has indisputably always Had It

Why’re ya goin to the airport? Flyin somewhere?

Honestly my type is everyone

Ugly, short, smart mouth, bad attitude?… this ALF fella sounds like my type

Sigur Rós - Hoppípolla & Með blóðnasir (Live In Ásbyrgi) [Remastered Heima Extra] YouTube video by Sigur Rós

Oh to be seeing Sigur Rós performing in a glacial canyon in Iceland with my blonde wife, pre proliferation of camera phones youtu.be/nlVA_e6WQhw?...

Kinda looks like your Wario

You WILL perceive me, dammit. Unless I don’t want you to

📣 WHEN I SAY LESLIE YOU SAY FEIST!
LESLIE-

When your friend grows a mustache and starts posting in tank tops, you know his 10+ year relationship has ended without even having to ask

Hearing Father Figure in its entirety made me realize I’d never actually heard the verses before

Acoustic Alley: Mel Washington - Losers (The Belle Brigade cover) YouTube video by William Haun

Mel Washington’s cover of The Belle Brigade’s “Losers.” He goes to the creek and plays for the frogs. Sparse, powerful, full of heart. youtu.be/tIBv0vZqd_I?...

So much of a nice life is just… Going to the Trouble. Arranging flowers even if they die. Cleaning your jewelry so it sparkles more for a few days. Dragging out the juicer so you have OJ for the weekend. Getting things out and putting them back, forever

People don’t call each other “Squirt” anymore

If anyone ever said “I forgive you” to me unprompted, I would be so pissed off

Damn I kinda don’t care how other people live their lives (as long as they aren’t hurting anyone)

My favorite Modest Mouse song is the 11-minute Truckers Atlas, which I put on mix CDs for everyone for years

I don’t love Modest Mouse, to be fair. Thought they had their moments. But I think Dramamine is not a good song and its popularity baffles me

No single podcast episode should have 628 comments on its Reddit thread

Reading the Lindy West discourse because one thing I know for sure - people are very normal toward fat feminist non monogamous women

If I get complimented on my outfit 3 times in a workday, I’m legally obligated to go have a hotel bar happy hour martini

The director, who I have talked about before, got fired and then sent lewd texts to all the female direct reports who reached out to express condolences. Legend has it, that has even happened much more recently! Hell of a company

Resisting the urge to comment “even 15 years and 500 jobs later, you can’t stop kissing his ass” on a LinkedIn comment my old coworker made on our old Director’s post