Eri - Trans Sapphic Dike

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Post with the text "BDSM but instead of punishing You, I remove a star from the "good noodle" board"

Mmmmmmm

Awwwwww you won't be able to hide your face when I'm riding you....

🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤
I can't wait to ride it while I have you tied to the bed.....

Gods I can't wait to take your strap

I'm a hot transfem....
😏

I wish I felt more comfortable in a suit....
Cause I could absolutely do evil things to you....

I'm sorry love...

Ahhhh
The memories~

👀
I see you ~

This is amazing! I love them so much!

Lol
Dork

Buh

Mmmmm
Yeah.....
Purely innocent reasons, I'm sure....

Mmmmmm

Very lewd

Reuploading 'Changing Room' here!

I spent a lot of time (valuable time I could have been viewing/reading my saved entertainment media) arbitrating arguments I didn’t give a shit about.

Right.
And not to be sarcastic, but I think you answered your own question on how not to make it feel forced.
It takes work and growth with communicating boundaries, capacities, desires, ECT..

That's a reasonable interpretation.
I guess I interpret "not forced" as "easy" which I realize isn't what you meant.

On the short term, the start of our relationship, I guess I didn't go in with the expectations of any sort of romantic relationship.
This was my friend, and I wanted to spend time with them. Then, I guess it hurt to be away from them.

So to prefix this, I have been with my partner for 18-ish years.
But there are times when things feel forced.
We have been through some shit over the years. But where we have always settled was that we wanted to be here for each other.
And sometimes that meant forcing things.

Lol
Same, for me that is a more recent acceptance that I'm also Polyamorous. Which I think for me is just a better understanding of my feelings. I want to have deep connections to all the people I care deeply for. And I want the same for my partner/s.

And lastly, for Demi-romantic, there isn't just one answer.
I have two other friends who are Demi-romantic and they have slightly different views on it.
The major overlap for us is that we can only "love" a person we already cared about. And that "love" is slightly different for the 3 of us.

And when I started to have feelings of "I really want to be with this person more, be there for them." We start "dating" which was just doing all the same shit we did before.
I can develop "romantic" feelings, and they feel like a deeping of feelings. Wanting to be that supportive partner for them.

So, for me, a date is just a hangout with a friend. Like you, I can't see the difference between a "romantic" date, and just spending time with someone I care about.
I was friends with my partner for a few years before we dated. 1/2

So I'm Demi-romantic, falls under Aro.
For myself, I find that I have zero interest in dating a person that I don't like as a friend. It's to the point that I can't even imagine it.
Like what's the point? I don't know if I like this person, why date them.
I don't know if that helps...

This is something I honestly am looking forward to.
It's been slowly happening since I started progesterone.

YESSSSS!
Farscape is so good!
Just weird and bizarre Sci-fi.
I love it!