the pendulum swings
I might do that at some point. Very difficult to get a diagnosis when I don't check all the boxes. But, there's a new Ehlers-Danlos clinic at UVA and I'm at least on their waitlist! I just need some good guidance.
and living alone. What I can say is that I'm very fortunate to have good friends and neighbors. Also, just really monitor my energy outgo. Oh, and pain levels. We don't live in a culture that supports our humanity and it sucks. I manage, but it's usually not easy.
So, I'm not at the level you're describing, but after a lifetime of weird "things" and always, always fatigue I'm coming to the conclusion I have connective tissue stuff. And now that I'm a senior, oof, it's even harder. I push myself through. This is one of the major contributors since divorce..