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Ella Dawson

@brosandprose

sex & culture critic. author of BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY. host of the REBEL EVER AFTER podcast about progressive romance novels. survivor. she/her. https://linktr.ee/brosandprose

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well is frakkin enraging @officialgrammarly.bsky.social this is wrong, you absolute clowns who are also thieves, STOP DOING THIS GRAMMARLY

every time I think these LLM thieves have enraged me the absolute most, they go further ๐ŸŒ‹๐Ÿคฎ

11.03.2026 00:07 ๐Ÿ‘ 365 ๐Ÿ” 76 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
I first reported about Quittr exposing user data in January, but was unable to name Quittr in the story because its creators, Alex Slater Connor McLaren, did not fix its security issues despite multiple requests and an offer from an independent researcher to help them fix the problem. Naming the app while hackers were still able to easily steal Quittrโ€™s user data would have endangered their privacy and put them at risk of extortion from hackers, which is very common today. Some of the data exposed includes the usersโ€™ age, how often they masturbate, and how viewing pornography makes them feel. According to the data, many of them are minors.

I first reported about Quittr exposing user data in January, but was unable to name Quittr in the story because its creators, Alex Slater Connor McLaren, did not fix its security issues despite multiple requests and an offer from an independent researcher to help them fix the problem. Naming the app while hackers were still able to easily steal Quittrโ€™s user data would have endangered their privacy and put them at risk of extortion from hackers, which is very common today. Some of the data exposed includes the usersโ€™ age, how often they masturbate, and how viewing pornography makes them feel. According to the data, many of them are minors.

"According to the data, many of them are minors."

www.404media.co/viral-quittr...

10.03.2026 13:35 ๐Ÿ‘ 21 ๐Ÿ” 8 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
a photograph of the yellow wooden shelves at BluRay selection at Night Owl Video in Brooklyn. A black thick TV from the 2000s sits between two shelves, its screen bright blue.

a photograph of the yellow wooden shelves at BluRay selection at Night Owl Video in Brooklyn. A black thick TV from the 2000s sits between two shelves, its screen bright blue.

New photo journal! This weekend I visited "Analog Alley," the wonderful stretch of stores devoted to physical media and community in Williamsburg: www.patreon.com/posts/stroll...

09.03.2026 21:53 ๐Ÿ‘ 21 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Andrew Oโ€™Hagan ยท Stay Classy: Mummyโ€™s Favourite The late queen can be held responsible for much, but nobody could accuse her of seeming to enjoy her role. For the...

"The gift of Andy and Fergie, which comes at too high a price, has been to bring the antiseptic of daylight to the culture of royal privilege."

Scathing.

10.03.2026 00:52 ๐Ÿ‘ 9 ๐Ÿ” 6 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Grammarly turned me into an AI editor against my will and I hate it The company tells Platformer it will let experts opt out of the controversial feature โ€” but how different is it than what every other AI company is doing?

"Grammarly curated a list of real people, gave its models free rein to hallucinate plausible-sounding advice on their behalf, and put it all behind a subscription. That's a deliberate choice to monetize the identities of real people without involving them, and it sucks." @caseynewton.bsky.social

10.03.2026 00:25 ๐Ÿ‘ 106 ๐Ÿ” 38 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4 ๐Ÿ“Œ 14

this is ABSOLUTELY NUTS

10.03.2026 00:24 ๐Ÿ‘ 13 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

incredible

09.03.2026 16:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 324 ๐Ÿ” 77 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A photograph of a nook in The Twisted Spine featuring their section of "castle horror" books and "haunted house horror" books.

A photograph of a nook in The Twisted Spine featuring their section of "castle horror" books and "haunted house horror" books.

I also browed the stacks at The Twisted Spine, Brooklyn's first horror indie bookstore: www.patreon.com/posts/stroll...

09.03.2026 21:57 ๐Ÿ‘ 6 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
a photograph of the yellow wooden shelves at BluRay selection at Night Owl Video in Brooklyn. A black thick TV from the 2000s sits between two shelves, its screen bright blue.

a photograph of the yellow wooden shelves at BluRay selection at Night Owl Video in Brooklyn. A black thick TV from the 2000s sits between two shelves, its screen bright blue.

New photo journal! This weekend I visited "Analog Alley," the wonderful stretch of stores devoted to physical media and community in Williamsburg: www.patreon.com/posts/stroll...

09.03.2026 21:53 ๐Ÿ‘ 21 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

this is so oddly wholesome

09.03.2026 16:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't know who needs to hear this today, but you can leave. You can pack a bag and leave. It's not easy and it's not logistically simple, but it is possible.

09.03.2026 16:13 ๐Ÿ‘ 24 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That looks amaaaazing

09.03.2026 05:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

tbh I donโ€™t want to hear the opinion of anyone who hasnโ€™t read a romance novel in the last five years, either. a lot of you just want an excuse to talk shit about the genre

09.03.2026 03:34 ๐Ÿ‘ 17 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

my mental health got a lot better when I figured out that I donโ€™t have to weigh in every time there is a Discourse relevant to my field. the world does not actually need my official take on the 1st person POV in romance debate

(but it sucks and I miss 3rd person dual POV historical romances)

09.03.2026 03:32 ๐Ÿ‘ 35 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

SAVE THE DATE: Thursday, March 12th will be STELLATHON: A FUNDRAISER FOR YOUR COOL ONLINE FRIEND.

Games streamers! Artists! Storytellers! Giveaways, baby! Participants will be revealed throughout the next week.

Letโ€™s get @antlervel.vet her money back!

Poster by @yotsuben.bsky.social.

06.03.2026 23:00 ๐Ÿ‘ 359 ๐Ÿ” 152 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5 ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

Allow @amylittlefield.bsky.social to introduce you to self-admitted virgin pastor who ended abortion in Texas and is working to ban it nationwide. Mark Lee Dickson has a collection of teddy bears that play audio from women's ultrasounds and doesn't appear in public without a backwards baseball hat

08.03.2026 16:39 ๐Ÿ‘ 102 ๐Ÿ” 55 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
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Quit ChatGPT: right now! Your subscription is bankrolling authoritarianism | Rutger Bregman As a historian, Iโ€™ve studied the major consumer boycotts of history. We can take down ChatGPT and send a powerful signal to Silicon Valley, says author and historian Rutger Bregman

"The most effective consumer boycotts in history share two qualities: they are narrow and they are easy," writes @rutgerbregman.com

04.03.2026 14:44 ๐Ÿ‘ 2339 ๐Ÿ” 1162 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 74 ๐Ÿ“Œ 105
A black cat sits in an empty bath tub, her angry green eyes looking directly at you

A black cat sits in an empty bath tub, her angry green eyes looking directly at you

here have some Zoey

06.03.2026 17:00 ๐Ÿ‘ 27 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I read the Lindy West interview about polyamory in the NYT and now I understand the muted horror on my friends' faces as I relayed my polycule drama to them for years

06.03.2026 16:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 12 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh, those stream comments are gonna be a bloodbath ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

06.03.2026 14:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 13 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Let me be clear: Iโ€™m glad Kristi Noem was fired. But we still have to abolish ICE.

05.03.2026 18:56 ๐Ÿ‘ 14940 ๐Ÿ” 2681 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 312 ๐Ÿ“Œ 123
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Gisรจle Pelicotโ€™s Memoir is the Ultimate Act of Defiance Gisรจle Pelicot had resigned herself to a life of quiet victimhood. In France, all victims of sexual violence have the right to anonymity, and she had clung to it for years, her mind made up that shโ€ฆ

"The reason there are 51 men in jail is, rather, because of the wholly unprecedented scale and clarity of the evidence. Dominique Pelicot had filmed the rapes, keeping a meticulously documented archive of horrors, with the file name โ€œabuse.โ€ Still, Gisรจle Pelicot was not universally believed."

05.03.2026 17:46 ๐Ÿ‘ 6 ๐Ÿ” 3 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As always

04.03.2026 19:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 3078 ๐Ÿ” 429 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 53 ๐Ÿ“Œ 31

sucks to hear the HHS secretary talking about "spiritual warfare"

sucks that all this satanic panic christian demon bullshit has taken over our government

05.03.2026 17:17 ๐Ÿ‘ 13 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey, ace and aro writers? You belong.

I'm asexual and aromantic. I've won awards, published dozens of shorts, have a third novel coming out soon. And you belong as much as I do.

You don't need anybody's permission to belong. But I'm still going to say it: you belong here. We all do.

05.03.2026 17:06 ๐Ÿ‘ 134 ๐Ÿ” 18 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

people need to stop blaming women who don't want kids for the declining birthrate and start blaming these guys

05.03.2026 17:14 ๐Ÿ‘ 56 ๐Ÿ” 15 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Introducing Dirt Books, a Publishing Imprint For the 22nd Century Dirt, which has fast become one of our favorite sites for off-the-beaten-path media takes, is launching an imprint. Please give a warm welcome to Dirt Books. The brand new house aims to shake up thโ€ฆ

omg fuck yeah Dirt!!!!!

05.03.2026 17:09 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

humbled by my neckโ€™s allergic reaction to a beautiful new leather collar

05.03.2026 15:30 ๐Ÿ‘ 8 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I gasped

05.03.2026 15:24 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A tuxedo cat with a black smudge nose glares at the camera while making biscuits with her paws

A tuxedo cat with a black smudge nose glares at the camera while making biscuits with her paws

bfโ€™s aloof elder cat had finally accepted me

05.03.2026 15:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 29 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0