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@ichoose2love

#AuDHD #autisticwomen #decolonizeyourmind @ichoose2love.hear-me.social on Mastodon

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Blurry image of a person walking on a treadmill. The person wears colorful leggings and sneakers. The treadmill's control panel is partially visible.

Blurry image of a person walking on a treadmill. The person wears colorful leggings and sneakers. The treadmill's control panel is partially visible.

#Stimming on beat to this at the moment
#runnergirl #audhd
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08.03.2026 19:20 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
🎧 Relax Music with Binaural Beats [8D AUDIO] Lucid Dreaming, REM Sleep Hypnosis Music
🎧 Relax Music with Binaural Beats [8D AUDIO] Lucid Dreaming, REM Sleep Hypnosis Music YouTube video by SleepTube - Hypnotic Relaxation

#ActuallyAutistic loving this sound for rest πŸ₯Ή
youtu.be/lRRF2liwNzc?... #adhd #audhd #soothingsounds

08.03.2026 01:52 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Question: What do you do when your grants are terminated, you lose your job and the biggest science agency in the land chooses ideology over evidence?

Answer: You launch your own damn shadow committee to fight misinformation on autism and public health.

#Pinks

05.03.2026 14:29 πŸ‘ 282 πŸ” 114 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 2
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The boys’ club: How Epstein’s influence shaped the exclusion of women in STEM In one email, an AI researcher suggested it’s β€œhard to be brilliant if you are worrying if you look fat or why another woman hates you.”

The boys' club: How #Epstein 's influence shaped the exclusion of women in #STEM

19thnews.org/2026/02/epst...

27.02.2026 08:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's strange to have changed how I use social media. I used to follow the examples of posting about education milestones, trainings, stories about progress at work. Now I'm journaling things I am thinking or like.

I understand my why for this change. It's a bit of unmasking.

#audhd #unmasking

25.02.2026 16:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

What I know now & will never unknow:

*My body signaled danger they overrode.

*Emotional trust was weaponized as access.

*Over-explaining was my fawn response, not poor communication.

*Blocking was protection, not drama.Impact > intent.

*My nervous system was right.

#audhd #healing #unmasking

25.02.2026 08:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
People aren't tired of the internet.

They're tired of the performance.

The branding. The curated bullshit.

X

We don't crave more content

We crave connection. Something real.

Words that make us feel something-

That remind us we're still human.

Ryan Hennessey

People aren't tired of the internet. They're tired of the performance. The branding. The curated bullshit. X We don't crave more content We crave connection. Something real. Words that make us feel something- That remind us we're still human. Ryan Hennessey

"People aren't tired of the internet.

They're tired of the performance.

The branding. The curated bullshit.

X

We don't crave more content

We crave connection. Something real.

Words that make us feel something-

That remind us we're still human."

(Ryan Hennessey)

23.02.2026 05:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
The Epstein files are everywhere. At dinner tables. In group chats. On podcasts.

And in the middle of all the opinions, jokes, debates, and dismissals... someone who has lived through sexual violence is sitting quietly, listening very closely to how the people they love and respect are speaking about it.

Someone affected is always in the room... learning how safe it really is to exist in that space.

The Epstein files are everywhere. At dinner tables. In group chats. On podcasts. And in the middle of all the opinions, jokes, debates, and dismissals... someone who has lived through sexual violence is sitting quietly, listening very closely to how the people they love and respect are speaking about it. Someone affected is always in the room... learning how safe it really is to exist in that space.

Please remember and consider:
#epsteinfiles #mentalhealth #psychsky

23.02.2026 05:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Between Belonging

I've been doing a lot of shedding lately. Identities, communities, masks I didn't even know I was wearing. And in the quieter moments I've started to notice what's left when all of that falls away.

The thing that's true across every version of me, every role, every phase, every room I've learned to navigate, is that I care deeply. I always have. And for a long time I hid that, because caring deeply isn't always safe.

I've moved through a lot of spaces over the years. Each one met a real need for a season. Each one also had edges I learned to stay inside. So I got good at managing what I showed and where. It works. And it's exhausting.

What I've been slowly understanding is that I don't miss the spaces so much as I miss what I felt in them. Being listened to. Being known. Having somewhere to bring my feelings, my questions, my grief, my half-formed hopes. And having someone meet me there with genuine curiosity and kindness.

My husband still gives me all of that. Even after all these years. But something in me wants more than one place to feel that way. Not an audience. Not a group organized around a cause or a wound. Just a handful of people I don't have to translate myself for.

I'm in a slow season of integration right now. Learning to be a better steward of myself. Learning that I don't have to explain everything; sometimes I can just feel it.

But I also miss talking. Really talking. And I'm starting to believe I deserve a place to do that again.

If any of this lands for you, if you've ever felt the specific ache of being known in pieces but not as a whole, I'd love to hear that I'm not alone in it.
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The cure for burnout isn't and can't be self care. It has to be all of us caring for each other.

Emily & Amelia Nagoski

Between Belonging I've been doing a lot of shedding lately. Identities, communities, masks I didn't even know I was wearing. And in the quieter moments I've started to notice what's left when all of that falls away. The thing that's true across every version of me, every role, every phase, every room I've learned to navigate, is that I care deeply. I always have. And for a long time I hid that, because caring deeply isn't always safe. I've moved through a lot of spaces over the years. Each one met a real need for a season. Each one also had edges I learned to stay inside. So I got good at managing what I showed and where. It works. And it's exhausting. What I've been slowly understanding is that I don't miss the spaces so much as I miss what I felt in them. Being listened to. Being known. Having somewhere to bring my feelings, my questions, my grief, my half-formed hopes. And having someone meet me there with genuine curiosity and kindness. My husband still gives me all of that. Even after all these years. But something in me wants more than one place to feel that way. Not an audience. Not a group organized around a cause or a wound. Just a handful of people I don't have to translate myself for. I'm in a slow season of integration right now. Learning to be a better steward of myself. Learning that I don't have to explain everything; sometimes I can just feel it. But I also miss talking. Really talking. And I'm starting to believe I deserve a place to do that again. If any of this lands for you, if you've ever felt the specific ache of being known in pieces but not as a whole, I'd love to hear that I'm not alone in it. ~~~~~~~~~ The cure for burnout isn't and can't be self care. It has to be all of us caring for each other. Emily & Amelia Nagoski

"The cure for burnout isn't and can't be self care. It has to be all of us caring for each other."
(Emily & Amelia Nagoski)

#audhd #autisticwomen #hsp #integration
Too long for BlueSky so see fully here:
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23.02.2026 03:30 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Past selves sought external approval or understanding. Current me trusts the only one who needs to understand my somatic signals and needs is myself. I am becoming a better, more loving steward of myself. βœ¨οΈπŸ’“βœ¨οΈ
#audhd #autistic #unmasking #healing #recovery #selfcompassion

22.02.2026 18:19 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
After Workout Music for After Workout and After Workout Cool Down
After Workout Music for After Workout and After Workout Cool Down YouTube video by Escape One

Today's journaling music
music.youtube.com/watch?v=Aae4...

22.02.2026 18:03 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The Ultimate Guide to Autistic Burnout E-Book by Dr. Engelbrecht ND RP, Dr. Bercovici PhD,Β Eva Silvertant BDes & Kendall Jones PLEASE NOTE: This is an e-book, not a physical book. After you have completed the checkout, you will be emailed a l...

I think it’s actually a good sign that you at least feel motivated. We wrote a book with the latest research and tips for dealing with autistic burnout. You may find it interesting. embrace-autism-store.myshopify.com/products/the...

01.02.2026 20:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ™πŸ»πŸŽ§βœ¨οΈ ty

19.02.2026 20:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The culture-to-cognition transmission of inequality and the psychological necessity of consciousness-raising

Review by Karim Bettache

go.nature.com/4c95iVP

#psychscisky #socialpsy

19.02.2026 14:04 πŸ‘ 12 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Ur Alive
Ur Alive YouTube video by Illenium - Topic

#cooldown #audhd #runnergirl

music.youtube.com/watch?v=vSU1...

19.02.2026 20:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
δΈ‰εŽŸθ‰²
δΈ‰εŽŸθ‰² YouTube video by YOASOBI - Topic

Today's #earworm #audhd #autisticwomen #runnergirl

music.youtube.com/watch?v=07SW...

19.02.2026 20:05 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Vale Rob Hirst, Midnight Oil drummer.
A colourful rainbow rises up from the ocean.

Vale Rob Hirst, Midnight Oil drummer. A colourful rainbow rises up from the ocean.

#GoodThings

Days of delicious comfort foods (storms --> eat perishable foods first).

Abundant harvest from food forest before flooding rains hit. Yum!

Cosy family time indoors, for the same reason. Also cats.

Rob Hirst, β€˜a glimmer of tiny light in the wilderness.’ (Midnight Oil)

#SilverLinings

20.01.2026 08:25 πŸ‘ 47 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A fluffy brown cat lounging on a blue fuzzy blanket atop a gray couch. The setting is cozy, with soft lighting, conveying warmth and relaxation.

A fluffy brown cat lounging on a blue fuzzy blanket atop a gray couch. The setting is cozy, with soft lighting, conveying warmth and relaxation.

A serene bouquet featuring elegant white roses surrounded by lush green buds and small white flowers. The composition conveys purity and tranquility.

A serene bouquet featuring elegant white roses surrounded by lush green buds and small white flowers. The composition conveys purity and tranquility.

A hand with painted nails holds a textured, rainbow-colored "little ouchies" stim toy. The nails are maroon and accented with red polka dots on a pale background.

A hand with painted nails holds a textured, rainbow-colored "little ouchies" stim toy. The nails are maroon and accented with red polka dots on a pale background.

A fluffy Ballinese cat with blue eyes and a dark face rests contently on a person's lap. The person is wearing a blue hoodie.

A fluffy Ballinese cat with blue eyes and a dark face rests contently on a person's lap. The person is wearing a blue hoodie.

#goodthings #cats #audhd #bloomscrolling #autisticwomem #stimtoy

18.02.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Good time for a repost πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

15.02.2026 23:03 πŸ‘ 55 πŸ” 36 πŸ’¬ 5 πŸ“Œ 3
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Somehow, all the programs that help the majority of Americans are decried as β€œwasteful spending,” but the ones that help billionaires aren’t…

Funny how that works.

15.02.2026 21:01 πŸ‘ 3215 πŸ” 1208 πŸ’¬ 84 πŸ“Œ 29

Your periodic reminder that many autistic people are sensitive to barometric pressure changes, and can be in real pain from sinus pressure when it starts to rain or snow. So if you are seeing or feeling dysregulation, look out the window! And treat accordingly. #neurodiversity #autism

15.02.2026 21:55 πŸ‘ 96 πŸ” 33 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 6
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15.02.2026 19:39 πŸ‘ 32 πŸ” 16 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œI’ve never protested before - but I just watched 4th & 5th grade kids run away from our own government.” πŸ˜•πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡ΈπŸ’”

(From @crindivisible.bsky.social )

15.02.2026 00:45 πŸ‘ 28996 πŸ” 10023 πŸ’¬ 644 πŸ“Œ 591
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Happy #Valentine’s Day
Happy #Birthday
Enjoy #coffee and #cake and #chocolates or chocolate cake πŸŽ‚

14.02.2026 21:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Screenshot of the title page of an article published in the "Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Attitudes and Social Cognition" titled "Unnecessarily Divided: Civil Conversations Reduce Attitude Polarization More Than People Expect."

Screenshot of the title page of an article published in the "Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Attitudes and Social Cognition" titled "Unnecessarily Divided: Civil Conversations Reduce Attitude Polarization More Than People Expect."

Evidence that talking to people with differing viewpoints leads to depolarization and positive experiences.

"Our research suggests that people with opposing attitudes often fail to appreciate that they are..."
#PsychSciSky #AcademicSky #EduSky (1/3)
doi.org/10.1037/pspa...

12.02.2026 13:00 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1
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@kackbro.bsky.social on Bluesky THIS πŸ‘‡ HERE.......

#abolishice

11.02.2026 16:20 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I loved the part in Discord, when Discord was like "It's age verification time!!" and everyone left

Cancel Nitro! Make this happen πŸ’š

Also, let's get a list of Discord alternatives going

09.02.2026 18:42 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 2
10 Signs you have Pathological Demand Avoidance
10 Signs you have Pathological Demand Avoidance YouTube video by I'm Autistic, Now What?

#audhd #pda
Great vid
youtu.be/1Uq1n8UQ3hc?...

10.02.2026 18:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
NIAMOS! (Chandrilian Club Mix) (From "Andor (Season 2)")
NIAMOS! (Chandrilian Club Mix) (From "Andor (Season 2)") YouTube video by Nicholas Britell - Topic

Today's workout song
#runnergirl #andor #rebellion
music.youtube.com/watch?v=WxLB...

08.02.2026 20:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Andor | Official Trailer | Disney+
Andor | Official Trailer | Disney+ YouTube video by Star Wars

#shows #rebellion #starwars
Starting season 2
Few things are palatable in this day but a few keep me in the headspace that aligns with #antifacism
And while I don't want to support Disney I do want to support the message of this show
www.reddit.com/r/andor/s/9q...
youtu.be/cKOegEuCcfw?...

08.02.2026 20:48 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0