Not entitled to a quick reply, I know. Just got accustomed to it, because I'm used to hearing back within 24 hours. Not a big deal, though. Not really time-sensitive. Could just be my autism?
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Cis. She. MDD, ASD, ADD, AIH. Melbourne/Naarm/Narrm. Fiction reader, BlackMilk Galaxy collector, SW client. TezMillerOz on various platforms: WordPress, X, Facebook, Instagram, Threads, etc. Book notes on Goodreads, and sometimes Amazon UK.
Not entitled to a quick reply, I know. Just got accustomed to it, because I'm used to hearing back within 24 hours. Not a big deal, though. Not really time-sensitive. Could just be my autism?
Hoped to reschedule the upskill. 24 hours ago I texted with my available days.
How many days should I wait for a response, before texting my reg to schedule something for the week?
(Been a week since I've had physical contact. Getting libidinous & anxious.)
(Tomorrow has the coolest temperature.)
Libidinous. Salivating.
ngl.link/tezmilleroz I may answer on Bsky, or on Instagram Stories (TezMillerOz), so I recommend checking in on both my platforms.
It depends what they're booking for - fantasy or reality. The stereotype is that (in c1shet terms) men go for fantasy & women go for personality. Saw a meme thing the other week that said, "My appearance is the least interesting thing about me." And yet it seems promoted the most? Also depends which kind of clientele you're trying to attract. Opportunity for people to make surveys & collect data when it comes to things like this.
It depends what they're booking for - fantasy or reality. The stereotype is that (in c1shet terms) men go for fantasy & women go for personality.
Saw a meme thing the other week that said, "My appearance is the least interesting thing about me." And yet it seems promoted the most
FULL TEXT IN ALT.
"Amazonian"
Mate, you're from Queensland, and you're wh*te π
I get anxious when I have to wait to hear back about something. I didn't say it's time-sensitive when I sent the note circa 10:30am Tuesday, but I really want an answer within 24 hours from now (12:12am Wed). I'm trying to plan my Thursday, because it's the coolest day this week to leave the house.
@merlinslaugh.bsky.social Lunch
Science!
Available today @bambrastudio977.bsky.social
I am so close to covering what I need. So if you are wanting to see me, today would be greatly appreciated π
I may be able to take Simba home tomorrow which was such happy news to start today with.
π°οΈ 12pm to 7pm
π΅ dm, sms or call to book βΊοΈβπΌπ
an orange and white cat is sitting on his scratcher. his face looks like his brain hit a loading screen
404 thought not found in the system
Two rabbits capture a man from the margins of the Smithfield Decretals.
A rabbit decapitates a man with a sword.
A rabbit fires arrows at a hound with a longbow, from the margins of the Smithfield Decretals.
Murderous bunny rabbits from the margins of the Smithfield Decretals πππ
c. 1300-1340, Royal MS 10 E IV
Available tomorrow at @bambrastudio977.bsky.social
Between 12pm to 7pm π
Thankful to everyone whoβs booked (& shared my posts) so far. We are making way to having the funds to continue care for my little man ππ₯°
Please dm or sms to book π₯°
"You really don't do eye-contact, do you."
I rarely ever remember direct quotes, but I remember this. Sprung up from my memory banks while thinking about disabled life.
(I'm pretty sure I warned that person in an email about my lack of eye-contact, so it hopefully shouldn't have been a surprise.)
Have been reading about the grief disabled people carry, for the lives we don't have now & may not ever have. Keep reminding myself that it's not what people have that matters, but how people treat others.
Have been reading about the grief disabled people carry, for the lives we don't have now & may not ever have.
Keep reminding myself that it's not what people have that matters, but how people treat others.
@merlinslaugh.bsky.social Lunch!
I spoke about this many times over on twitter (RIP) but just for some context:
I ask for trigger warnings regarding murder because my best friend was murdered. Itβs not gore that bothers me, itβs when stories are a little too close to her own.
"Exposure & advertising". In other words, she's more interested in servicing algorithms than clients. Major, major turn-off in my POV. (Which no one requested, but I'm giving anyway.) She's not on social media, so it's not like she's just trying to get more digital followers.
"Exposure & advertising". In other words, she's more interested in servicing algorithms than clients.
Major, major turn-off in my POV. (Which no one requested, but I'm giving anyway.)
She's not on social media, so it's not like she's just trying to get more digital followers.
@merlinslaugh.bsky.social Lunch!
My poor little guy has been through the wars a bit lately and while he is 100% worth it the vet bill was not cheap so I'd value any contributions to help ease the unexpected cost.
Beem is MercyMay.
Good samaritans will get thank you gifts. See below.
Fingers crossed it didn't get washed!
Sex Ed Sunday Making a Complaint against a healthcare provider
Sex workers deserve affirming healthcare just like the rest of the community. If youβve walked away from an experience with a healthcare provider and felt they treated you badly or differently because youβre a sex worker, youβre not alone. In 2022, 88% of sex workers in an Australian survey reported being treated negatively by a healthcare worker within the past 12 months.
You have the right to complain. In most cases, the simplest way to make a complaint is to contact the healthcare provider directly. You can make a complaint in writing, over the phone or in person. Every healthcare provider is required to have a complaints process, but this will be different depending on the type of service, the provider's location, and organisation size. Contact the healthcare provider or visit their website to learn about their complaints process. Sometimes, contacting the health service directly isnβt appropriate or youβre unable to resolve the issue directly. Each state and territory has their own formal avenue for health service or practitioner complaints. For example, the Health Care Complaints Commission, Health and Community Services Complaints Commission or the Health Ombudsmen.
There are many other organisations you can make a complaint to depending on your circumstances. For example, the Disabilities Service Commission, Private Health Insurance Ombudsman, and Mental Health Complaints Commissioner. Some healthcare complaint organisations allow complaints to be anonymous. However, anonymous complaints can be difficult to investigate.
Unfortunately, stigma against sex workers in healthcare is all too common. But you have the right to take action and make a complaint.
If you're a disabled and/or chronically ill sex worker who has experienced barriers in healthcare, we want to hear your story buff.ly/hZ6aGJj
I need to raise $3,000 before Wednesday to cover his treatment and rent I used to get him in. Iβm taking bookings, tips, or any support from now until then. Even sharing this means a lot.
My Beem and PayID are below if youβre able to help. Thank you so much for the love and support for Simba πΎπ€
NO BAD WHORES, JUST BAD LAWS. Fighting for womenβs rights is about advocating for the rights, safety and dignity of all women.
Today is International Womenβs Day. IWD began in the labour movement in the early 1900s. In 1910, the idea for a global day for womenβs rights was approved at the International Womenβs Conference, and gained momentum during the Russian Revolution. By 1917, 8 March was recognised as the day of the movement, and the United Nations formally recognised it as International Womenβs Day in 1977. IWD is a day about working womenβs rights, and sex workers are an integral part of this conversation.
Fighting for womenβs rights is about advocating for the rights, safety and dignity of all women. This International Womenβs Day we want to affirm that feminism without intersectionality is not real feminism. International Womenβs Day began as a movement for womenβs labour rights. Sex work is work, and excluding sex workers from the conversation only further marginalises people who already experience stigma and discrimination. SWERF (Sex work exclusionary radical feminism) is modeled after the acronym TERF (trans exclusionary radical feminism). SWERFS support mainstream feminism, but oppose sex work, and therefore deny women the right to engage in sex work.
Full decriminalisation means removing all laws that treat sex work differently from other jobs. This means getting rid of: criminal laws, special licensing systems, police powers and any other rules that treat you, your coworkers, your workplace or your clients differently from other workers and businesses. Laws that criminalise sex work, sex workers, and our clients push sex workers into unsafe environments without workplace protections and often without recourse against wage theft, abuse, or exploitation. Decriminalisation, alongside anti-discrimination and anti-vilification protections for sex workers is the only legal framework proven to improve sex workersβ safety, health, access to justice, and labour rights.
It's International Women's Day and that means including ALL women in the fight for rights, safety and dignity.
Read our Decriminalisation briefing paper buff.ly/Cw7MukR
Ended up spending $36 (including $12 postage) on a bra on Depop. The seller only wore it once, and it's about $20 cheaper than new. Same brand & size determined yesterday at my fitting. An everyday kind of bra, so I still need a strapless.
Where Taro goes, anyone would follow.
@merlinslaugh.bsky.social Lunch!
If you donβt have regulars, are you rushing them out the door?
So what did you give the cat who was yelling "ALAN!"? π
A ridiculous tuxedo cat doing a little LIKK on my dunked digestive biscuit. Actually it's 2 for structural integrity, otherwise the wet bit flops off and lands on his paws and he gets all grumpy
I'm telling you, Paul makes me dunk his biscuit in tea. He does. HE DOES