Jessa 🌷

The only thing that’s going to get me to go to work today is the fact I need to print something out.

That’s a hygiene/cleaning issue, my dear. Not a gender issue. 🥲

LOL. That we agree on gender neutral bathrooms, but disagree on urinals being in them. 😆

Yeah… That’s completely valid.

Yes! Just let me be your real world support person while you’re in your game world.

Same! And if they don’t have a pet I’m doing my best to pretend I’m listening, but I think the glazed over look in my eyes gives me away.

Thankfully all my friends know by now that learning new games is just not my thing. 🤣

I literally just commented about this on a post about neurodivergent people being the best board game buddies. Like, oh no… Not me, my friend. I’m out before the long-winded explanation has made it through the first sentence and I promise it’s not on purpose.

I have the opposite kind of neurodivergence where if it takes more than 2-5 minutes to explain the rules before we start playing, I’m lost forever. 😭

a green plastic thingy that comes on the mouthpiece of a disposable vape laying on carpet

today’s gender is abandoned disposable vape cap

A woman with curly red hair smiling while sitting fully clothed in a pastel bathtub filled with plastic balls, holding a large rubber duck.

#promosky #intro #newfriends ✨
Pretty page, unfiltered thoughts.

🕯️ Nov. baby
🕊️ MD → CO
💗 LGBTQIA+
🎶 angry girl folk rock
🧚‍♀️ grey witch · fae magic
📖 fantasy / romantasy
🧸 cozy gamer
🌸 flower lover
🌧️ chronic pain, but still cute

Here for the soft & wild baddies, feral babes, and aesthetic nerds. 🫶🏻

I mean, assuming women are okay with seeing this even in what should be an innocent situation is absolutely a problematic way to think unfortunately.

No, a woman walking into anywhere including a bathroom does not want to be unexpectedly exposed to a stranger’s genitals in any circumstance.

I think urinals are tough for all parties involved in gender-neutral bathrooms. Being felt exposed to women on one end can be uncomfortable and so can feeling like you’re walking in on a guy just trying to pee. Using that space to add more stalls or even add stalled urinals would work much better.

If done right, it could totally work. No urinals, stall doors without gaps, and a single bathroom option for those who don’t feel comfortable using it or feel safer with kids would be the way to go.

And I’m going to be so real with you, my friend… Women’s bathrooms are NOT cleaner. lmao.

I only have the lady perspective here, but access to places in travel situations with less options for public restrooms and lines in public places tend to be annoyingly longer for us. If we’ve had kids, we also run into the “omg, I just peed my pants just because I sneezed” kind of issues. 🤣

I started doing this a few years back when it was clear someone wasn’t listening. Very few people ever came back around to what I was saying or even realized I abruptly stopped.

If I know I’m going to look distracted, I make sure make it known I’m listening and to please keep going. It’s not hard!

I mean, maybe in some ways but definitely not in timing/convenience ways. 😆

Honestly since it was years since I played, losing everything was a refreshing restart for me. Focusing on rebuilding and with all the new content I missed it feels like a whole new game to me.

Of course, not everyone will feel that way and there’s a chance for massive regret for sure though. 😅

I just restarted my ACNH island and got the yellow airport, peaches, and native roses so I knew it was meant to be.

I will also be starting a new Stardew farm soon with the update announcement. 🥹

ISO: An 18th century doctor to prescribe me a trip to the seaside to cure my melancholia.

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the feminine urge to untie the green ribbon that’s keeping my head attached to my neck

No one talks about Pat Benatar enough in 2025 especially when Invincible is a great song for the world we’ve been living in.

My biggest advice is don’t stress about using certain mediums because it seems like what you have to do to be a “good” artist. It’s okay not to like working with certain media.

I tried for so long to learn to learn in a rigid way. Turns out I learned way more by creating with things I enjoy.

Upon further reflection, I may be wavering slightly on my long-standing opinion that Theodore Laurence didn’t deserve any of the March sisters. #booksky

Today is the only day you get to wear a onesie to work as an adult.

Hating glitter is supporting the patriarchy and no I will not be explaining.

I think not knocking before trying to open a closed door says a lot about a person.

You’re too sweet! Thank you! 🥹

I’ve made it to the first chapter of A Court of Frost And Starlight and I’m regretting this reread already.

I should be in your passenger seat, but noooo. I make ridiculous choices. 😭